19-23% does not constitute normal behavior.No, idiot. The claim is that cheating is normal behavior, and that it is life denying to prescribe against normal behavior.
You're so dumb.
Thanks RID, I needed that. LMAO.19-23% does not constitute normal behavior.
Also you suggestion that anything that gives you a survival advantage gives you a reproductive advantage is poppycock. There are lots of things that give women a survival advantage long past their childbearing years and thus a priori invalidate that idea.
You really don't understand evolutionary theory at all. There are many parts of evolutionary theory that have nothing to do with either survival advantage or reproductive advantage.
The amount you don't know about this topic, that you choose to pontificate on is staggering. You are clearly the biggest blowhard I have ever encountered...and I work in law!
Personally I think almost all of evolutionary pyschology is built on a house of cards. Waaaaaaay too Lamarkian for me.Rid, I totally agree. Also, I have not bothered yet to tease this out, but my speculation would be that Fuji is consistently confusing claims within certain forms of evolutionary psychology with evolutionary biology. That would partly account for his choice of examples, which are all about infidelity, jealousy, male and female differences in sexuality issues, and the constant blather about non-monogamy. And it would account for why he was obviously unable to understand the import of claims derived from primatology. A practicing evolutionary psychologist would know the primatology examples, but a clown reading Internet blogs by evolutionary psychologists would not.
Heh Fuji, do you think infidelity is a specific adaptation?
One day, Fuji will receive a first hand lesson in evolutionary theory.You really don't understand evolutionary theory at all. There are many parts of evolutionary theory that have nothing to do with either survival advantage or reproductive advantage.
You still aren't grasping the difference between what you wrote and what I wrote. Go buy a dictionary. Come back when you've looked up the words "normal" and the word "happens" and understood the difference.What's really dumb is that I quoted you saying 'cheating is normal so it cannot wrong', so it just makes zero sense for you to deny that was your claim.
The weak always pine for the downfall of the strong. Perhaps you're a religious man. Perhaps you're hoping that your afterlife will be better than my life.One day, Fuji will receive a first hand lesson in evolutionary theory.
One day he will try it on, with the wrong lady and her Neanderthal husband / brother will beat Fuji into the stone ages.
Do not flatter yourself (although that appears to be your purpose in life)The weak always pine for the downfall of the strong. Perhaps you're a religious man. Perhaps you're hoping that your afterlife will be better than my life.
But you're right! I should be prepared for weaker men. Guess I'll go hit the gym, do a few more bench presses, just in case.
What a load of self-serving Horseshit!The weak always pine for the downfall of the strong. Perhaps you're a religious man. Perhaps you're hoping that your afterlife will be better than my life.
The way he was going I figured him for one of the "I love death more than you love life" types.What a load of self-serving Horseshit!
That's lovely (not), it is still self-serving Horseshit on your part, and you know it!The way he was going I figured him for one of the "I love death more than you love life" types.
Right here you demonstrate that you are a mental cripple. There is a HUGE difference between saying "normal behavior cannot be bad" and saying "behavior that happens cannot be bad". Any fucking idiot can see that. Except you, perhaps. You appear to be so fundamentally stupid that you can't see the difference between those two statements.There is no need. Regardless of whether you write happens or normal, in each instance you are referring to something that is, and thus regardless of whether you extrapolate from that claim to saying cheating is good, or cheating cannot be bad, or cheating is life affirming, in each instance you enunciate an ought claim. Any move from is to ought is illegitimate. Everyone but you, Fuji boy, can see the point and can see that you are just not intelligent enough to comprehend the point.
I suspect quite a lot of the negativity coming my way over the cheating issue finds its roots in jealousy. I'm not the one who made this personal. If Johnny (or you) can't take it, don't dish it out.That's lovely (not), it is still self-serving Horseshit on your part, and you know it!
And you called me dumb.... boy, I bet you can figure this one out on your own, if you try really hard.- If you are so embracing of your cheating, why don't you tell your wife, or your current boink-de-jour?
What's that saying about fairness in love and war? It's not a new concept.You embrace sexual hypocrisy as a way getting around any guilt you have for hurting people around you.
Actually in almost every way I am completely trustworthy with both of those people.By virtue of calling yourself a cheater, you cannot call yourself trustworthy... they are incompatible. And to be perfectly clear, you can call yourself trustworthy in most of your relationships, but you are not trustworthy to your wife and boink-de-jour.
You need to go back and review my argument. I've given you, repeatdly, "A morality should not prescribe against who and what we are" as an assumption. I've offered you the opportunity to choose the life-denying alternative.What part of 'normal/happens' is an is claim and 'cannot be bad' is an ought claim escapes your grasp? This part of the exchange is just making me shit my pants laughing at how ignorant you are of basic logic. You're so insecure you can't admit any error.