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Viper66

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I'm in the same boat as you bottom... I could never figure out why I do this until I saw a quote from another Terbite... "the rush we get being with a new woman" is the answer I was looking for.

bottomhammer said:
Okay, so I couldn't resist putting my two cents in on this one.

The point is simply this. I love my wife. And I have a fine sex life with my wife, however, I have very natural and normal urges to have sex with multiple women. I have no intention of falling in love with any SP's and they have no intention of falling in love with me (I hope). My hope is that she enjoys our encounter, however, realistically, we all know it is a business transaction. There is no denying that.

So, I don't feel like I am cheating or at all bad for my wife. She receives exactly the same love from me as before. Am I going to tell her about it? No. I realize that is slightly hypocritical. I actually feel worse about the lying then about having sex with someone else.

That is the way I see it. For each of us the situation will be different
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Gunhed

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I look at it this way...the day I said I do was the day she said now I don't...so to hell with her thinking I'm cheating...cheating IMO is an emotional state..I still love my wife...so I'm not cheating..If I were to fall in love with a SP it would be cheating..

And yes Ladies and gentlemen..that's my 6 cents worth
 
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thagibbler

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Don't matter just don't bite it
At the end of the day, it is all about being f*&%@d. That is why you are all on here.

1. If you are married I believe that if you have actually communicated that you are unhappy with the inadequacies of you sex life and you are still not happy; the SP world is a viable option to either ruin or save your marriage.........both financially and emotionally. (0 points)

2. If you have a girlfriend, you should be f*&%ing like crazy......why are you seeing an SP? (+1 "cheating")

3. "Wife REFUSES sex for 6 years." WTF? (+1 "not cheating")

Score = Zip.......I have no idea.

I actually could give you about 25,000 words containing my opinion but, I just realized that the Packers are gonna win the SuperBowl so we should just keep f*&%ing.

Gunhed your sig line is hilarious.
 
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Ibeefat

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SHAUNA SHA said:
We don't live in a perfect world...If it was perfect your SO...would F#$% you all day long. So that being said....We can not "be" with just one...Hence this industry! SEX is SEX!!! Take your Heart out of it and F$%^ an SP today!!!
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Now thats something that should be on a T-shirt
 
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bone_man

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thagibbler said:
At the end of the day, it is all about being f*&%@d. That is why you are all on here.

1. If you are married I believe that if you have actually communicated that you are unhappy with the inadequacies of you sex life and you are still not happy; the SP world is a viable option to either ruin or save your marriage.........both financially and emotionally. (0 points)

2. If you have a girlfriend, you should be f*&%ing like crazy......why are you seeing an SP? (+1 "cheating")

3. "Wife REFUSES sex for 6 years." WTF? (+1 "not cheating")

Score = Zip.......I have no idea.

I actually could give you about 25,000 words containing my opinion but, I just realized that the Packers are gonna win the SuperBowl so we should just keep f*&%ing.

Gunhed your sig line is hilarious.
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thaigibbler... you either got a score wrong, didn't add right or I totally missed the f*&$ing point.... which is it?

oh and I too think gunheds sig line is hilarious!
 
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elvis123

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So Gunhed, you are saying your wife can screw who ever she wants and long as she doesn't fall in love with him? She is not cheating?
 
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bone_man

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helena.pleasure said:
you have to keep up bone....he had a "cheating" category and a "not cheating" category....each got one point which cancels them out...sheesh....:)
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hmm a little slow thiis morning... thanks


Artmann said:
Hmmm ... "keep up bone" ... This could be a -1 for your reputation, bone-man.
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I hope not... although my rep has taken a beating the past year!
 
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Gunhed

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actually if she wanted to I say go for it...she's not giving it up with me...its been about 3 years now
 
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pipelayer

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I'm pretty sure that if your wife isn't giving it up for years at a time, then she's getting it somewhere else. period.
 
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localwebguy

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My married friends don't have sex anymore because she is too busy with work. It consumes her time and energy and as a result he is relegated to getting action only when he can get drink into her. To make it worse she loses it if he looks at porn. I feel for him because he is so madly in love with her that he will go without and not look at porn either, just to please her.

And she doesn't even feel bad about it while he just accepts it. I tell her all the time I couldn't handle a situation like that and she just doesn't care.
 
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localwebguy

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At my old job members of the website would tell me all the time that while they are in long distance relationships they continue to has sex with people while trying to hold onto that love with their SO. So there is much to be said for separating the physical and emotional.
 
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wildbigguy

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bottomhammer said:
The point is simply this. I love my wife. And I have a fine sex life with my wife, however, I have very natural and normal urges to have sex with multiple women. I have no intention of falling in love with any SP's and they have no intention of falling in love with me (I hope). My hope is that she enjoys our encounter, however, realistically, we all know it is a business transaction. There is no denying that.

So, I don't feel like I am cheating or at all bad for my wife. She receives exactly the same love from me as before. Am I going to tell her about it? No. I realize that is slightly hypocritical. I actually feel worse about the lying then about having sex with someone else.

That is the way I see it. For each of us the situation will be different
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Excellent post! I am in the same situation and feel the same way. I have it good at home but I want to experience something "different" every once in awhile. Am I a bad person? I don't think so. Selfish maybe but I am not a bad guy.
 
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