Guys, why marry the ugly one?

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I haven't read all the posts in this thread but did anyone touch on the fact that you never know the real reason couples are attracted to each other. I have good looking male friends who are married to what I would consider not very physically attractive women. Some are very sweet which makes it a little easier to understand but some are just down right nasty. Then there's my friends with the hotties. They range from nice, funny and smart to high maintenance, uptight to just plain dumb. Without knowing what they are like in the bedroom, it's hard to understand what makes them click.

I've been with 10's all the way down to I'd say a 3 on the looks scale. Although I've had several on the upper end of the scale who were fantastic in the sack, overall it has been the average girls who are the really slutty ones.

Okay, a little off topic but take my friend's wife for example. She has an attractive face but not the best bod. She's a bit overweight and wouldn't turn any heads walking down the street. However, she is a true slut in every sense of the word. Every once in a while she'll text we with "I need your hard cock in my mouth, now". As she gives one of the best BBBJTCCIMSW I've ever had, I just can't say no.

So you just never know what goes on in peoples minds!
 

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Okay, a little off topic but take my friend's wife for example. She has an attractive face but not the best bod. She's a bit overweight and wouldn't turn any heads walking down the street. However, she is a true slut in every sense of the word. Every once in a while she'll text we with "I need your hard cock in my mouth, now". As she gives one of the best BBBJTCCIMSW I've ever had, I just can't say no.

So you just never know what goes on in peoples minds!
Well this paragraph confuses me. Are you talking about your friends' wife? is your fata attraction gf.
your wife?
or
1/2 ass backward story.
 

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Well this paragraph confuses me. Are you talking about your friends' wife? is your fata attraction gf.
your wife?
or
1/2 ass backward story.
Wasn't there someone else on this board that screwed or wanted to screw his best friends wife?
 

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I actually know a guy that has a fat ugly wife that is cross eyed, and he tells people that it is better not to have a wife that is attractive.
 

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Nonsense. Pretty girls get married! I know I married one. You just have to find someone confident enough to be with a pretty girl.

Most likely when people say things like that what they really mean is "I'm not really ready to get married", but they try and put it on you instead.
Confidence is one reason. I agree with that...as well as TRUST. A pretty woman is considered "dangerous" to a lot of men (from what I was told) There is always that question " Is she gonna hurt me?" running through their minds at some point. She may posess the good looks, wild in bed, good cook/nurturer type attributes...there is also what her upbringing was/family of origin issues etc etc...
 
1- the attitude that SOME hot girls can have is flat out annoying.

2- less attractive girls will do more for you to keep you happy ie. cook, clean etc. (I've never seen a friend who had a super goodlooking gf that did shit all for him lol)

3- you can get away with a lot more with less attractive girls because they think theyre happy to have you and will put up with all kinds of bs to stay with you.

4- no matter how hot of a girl you marry one day you're going to wake up- roll over and just think of her as "ordinary"

What Bella said is true too- shit if you're with an ugly girl it means less competition for you. Good looking girls have more "options" for guys... so it's always on the back of your mind as a guy.
 

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1- the attitude that SOME hot girls can have is flat out annoying.

2- less attractive girls will do more for you to keep you happy ie. cook, clean etc. (I've never seen a friend who had a super goodlooking gf that did shit all for him lol)

3- you can get away with a lot more with less attractive girls because they think theyre happy to have you and will put up with all kinds of bs to stay with you.

4- no matter how hot of a girl you marry one day you're going to wake up- roll over and just think of her as "ordinary"

What Bella said is true too- shit if you're with an ugly girl it means less competition for you. Good looking girls have more "options" for guys... so it's always on the back of your mind as a guy.
Just remember, Goose/Gander.
 

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That's so shallow.

I just want a woman who is going to wake me up with a blowjob every morning before my clock alarm sounds.
 

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Generally speaking, I find that the 'above attractive' girls have lower self-esteem -- constantly needing attention and drama for fulfillment.
While, the 'below average' women are probably more accepting of their looks and compensate by exploration and education.
My experience as well
 

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Confidence is one reason. I agree with that...as well as TRUST. A pretty woman is considered "dangerous" to a lot of men (from what I was told) There is always that question " Is she gonna hurt me?" running through their minds at some point. She may posess the good looks, wild in bed, good cook/nurturer type attributes...there is also what her upbringing was/family of origin issues etc etc...
Before I found my wife lots of pretty girls hurt me. But I always just picked myself up and found another pretty girl! It was better than finding an ugly one. Eventually I found one that stuck with me.
 

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Wasn't there someone else on this board that screwed or wanted to screw his best friends wife?
Not quite. If you care about accuracy you'll recall I put it out as a hypothetical with the condition that you were sure your friend would never find out. In real life I've never had that level of certainty. I was attracted by my friend's wife but no way could I be sure she wouldn't tell him if I hit on her. Equally my wife's friend used to hit on me constantly and I'm pretty sure I could have fucked her any time I wanted, but didn't, because of the danger. Fortunately (or unfortunately) that friend has moved away to the West coast now, and only hits on me once a year or so when she's back for a visit, instead of every fucking week like before.
 

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Okay, a little off topic but take my friend's wife for example. She has an attractive face but not the best bod. She's a bit overweight and wouldn't turn any heads walking down the street. However, she is a true slut in every sense of the word. Every once in a while she'll text we with "I need your hard cock in my mouth, now". As she gives one of the best BBBJTCCIMSW I've ever had, I just can't say no.

So you just never know what goes on in peoples minds!
sorry are saying you fuck your friend's wife in the mouth? and she is overweight? that's double gross
 

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I think today people forgot the purpose of getting married. Whatever happened to marrying out of love? I guess we all lack morals nowadays. I am not going to be a hypocrite. I am shallow I want to marry a hot beautiful girl eventhough I am little less than average in looks lol. Even if I did marry her I would still be going out and screwing everything. We're all bad people. Anyways Thank GOD FOR THE TERB... I LOVE every girl that offers BBBJCIMSW
 

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Not quite. If you care about accuracy you'll recall I put it out as a hypothetical with the condition that you were sure your friend would never find out. In real life I've never had that level of certainty. I was attracted by my friend's wife but no way could I be sure she wouldn't tell him if I hit on her. Equally my wife's friend used to hit on me constantly and I'm pretty sure I could have fucked her any time I wanted, but didn't, because of the danger. Fortunately (or unfortunately) that friend has moved away to the West coast now, and only hits on me once a year or so when she's back for a visit, instead of every fucking week like before.
Thanks for clearing that up for us and adding some details to the story. I'll let everyone else make up their minds about the facts as they remember them.
 

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Thanks for clearing that up for us and adding some details to the story. I'll let everyone else make up their minds about the facts as they remember them.
I think he made it clear enough the first time.
 

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I think today people forgot the purpose of getting married. Whatever happened to marrying out of love? I guess we all lack morals nowadays. I am not going to be a hypocrite. I am shallow I want to marry a hot beautiful girl eventhough I am little less than average in looks lol. Even if I did marry her I would still be going out and screwing everything. We're all bad people. Anyways Thank GOD FOR THE TERB... I LOVE every girl that offers BBBJCIMSW
Do you have money? Thats the only way its going to work.. esp if cheating is going to go around. SHe will likely have boytoys around her too.. if your look dont attact her, but other factors (money, a house) will.
 

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Wasn't there someone else on this board that screwed or wanted to screw his best friends wife?



That would be most of us.

Unfortunately the wife was mine and she objected when I charged her lovers for parking.
 

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Funny sometimes a "serious" thread turn to be a all-for-fun one...
Anyway i will add my two cents here.
Speaking from personal experience, i married for reason not even known to me, it is just feel the right thing to do. I know there ton of reasons to tie the knots, some are better than the other, but mine is so simple that i couldn't define and i have not once regret doing it ( some of you jokers will say, why i am a terbie, but that is a different issue ). To be saying degraded things about men like: low self-esteem... or about women like: high-maintainance... is overlooking the human factor and seeing marriage just on the basis of social mechanism, of negative-loop behavior....
I have seen real bad-looking lady hitching to young guy, ...and the reverse. Just do not try to figure out their motives, especially trying to degrade people, no matter what gender. Again my $.02.
 
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