SP's emotionally attached to their clients

cute-bald

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Ahhh Hyperdog I love your enthusiasm, you jumped right on that. YUP, I won't be posting any more short guy threads as to my situation. As for my personality, since you have not met me you cannot say for certain except for my on-line persona.... which I admit has been hard-core. Cheers. :)
 

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Ahhh Hyperdog I love your enthusiasm, you jumped right on that. YUP, I won't be posting any more short guy threads as to my situation. As for my personality, since you have not met me you cannot say for certain except for my on-line persona.... which I admit has been hard-core. Cheers. :)
Hardcore is not the first word that comes to mind.
 

Ladyraven

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Hardcore is not the first word that comes to mind.
why does everything come back to him??

I have never gotten attached to a client. I have become friends with a couple and we hang out . but no sex..cuz then it becomes pay for play again..
I can keep things in check and if I feel a client is getting to involved I have no problem cutting them off..
so it is and it is not just about the money
 

blackrock13

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why does everything come back to him??

I have never gotten attached to a client. I have become friends with a couple and we hang out . but no sex..cuz then it becomes pay for play again..
I can keep things in check and if I feel a client is getting to involved I have no problem cutting them off..
so it is and it is not just about the money
Read post #41 and see if you can figure it out for us.
 

cute-bald

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^^^ It TRUELY MUST BE!!! All I did was answer the original question as most of you would agree: That an s.p. will show interest BECAUSE you are paying them..... there is NO emotional attachment.
 

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Just remember.............

When an SP tells you that she loves you...............

It's a lot different than being in love with you!
 

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If a client / SP relationship were to evolve to a BF/GF type the SP would have to drive it.

The client gets in trouble when he's hoping for something that isn't there when the SP maybe just a damn good GF experience, that's it all business!
 

S.C. Joe

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As long as you were happy for however long or short it lasted.
Yeah why does it have to always be forever to be good?

I think both males and females can get hook on some people, its just males have less other people to fall back on.
 

S.C. Joe

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I think a good SP should get U to think they love U..like act like it..not tell U that. I'm sure some SP just do it so U keep seeing them.

"nice seeing U again" or better yet "I miss seeing U"
 

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The Secret is you gotta keep it professional. Pretend they are the porn star and you are the porn actor....HAVE YOUR PASSIONATE SEX and afterwards go home to your wives or whatever.. There is a big difference between love and sex IMO. I am sure many of you have your wild cards whether you are rich, tall, goodlooking or whatever when you try to score. I in the other hand have absolutely none of those cards. I don't even have a job in years and I don't even collect unemployement.

I am just really lucky when it comes to betting and investing in stocks I spend all my money on escorts though and cars....I really don't care about women on the emotional level. I could probably love my car and a woman on the same level.
 

681david

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Some SPs may separate their two lives, some may feel unable to. Heard some stories perhaps surprising to most.

.."all it take is one or two assholes to abuse the trust and SPs get really messed up"...
 

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wow...i'm glad to hear that you guys actually care if we care!
...because some of us genuinely do...I work very part-time hours (approximately see 5 clients per week) and I share a deep and respectful connection with all of my clients...
and yes its a business...however don't some of you enjoy your work? I do have a career outside of this industry and enjoy that as well...but I have to be honest I really do love this industry and have a great respect for the men and women that I connect with...and usually have a big fucking smile and wet pussy before my first client...lol
...on a more serious note...as a spiritual person i too believe that you can connect deeply with another individual if meeting with them even only one time...and you can share a mutual caring for eachother as your giving yourself to eachother...and usually in a way your spouse just could never understand...i would refer to that as quite deep...how could you not care?
...on a final note...i certainly cannot speak for all SPs however it is unfair to assume that none of us care...as some of us really do...
 

S.C. Joe

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Heck most of us do CARE..unless she acts mean/cold.

I think I can compare SP to my car also, expect I beat on my car and it doesn't break or if it does I fix it so it doesn't. I take care of it and really like it but if I destroy it tomorrow, well oh well. Guess I find something else--if I'm not dead or in prison, lol

I have a hard time falling/feeling for smoking hot gals. Oh certainly I get hung up on a few sometimes but their feelings I tend to brush off more---unless they seem to care about mine. If things change I try my best to stay low, less contact.

This hobby can be like a drug, some people try cocaine/crack--or drinking and get hook and can not stop. Others, like me, have tried it and found its ok somewhat but a waste of $ and really not so great.

I am finding that normal everyday gals and SP aren't that different. Just the SP do put out more, not make such a biggie out of somethings.

After all, how often is it that marriages are forever--not very. If things change the other one doing better usually wants out.

This hobby isn't for everybody, just like drinking, hot rodding, etc.

If U get an SP to fall for U, great treat her well, just don't expect it to last forever and don't break the bank on her--cause it could be an act.
 

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i have a question that i am sure has been asked a million times.

what about a guy that is attracted to an sp but had never actually seen her as a client. he has just spoken to her here or there and he would like to ask her out. like i said i am sure it has been asked a million times but seriously is it possible for a guy to ask a woman out when they both know what she does for a living, even knowing full well they he won't be bothered or ask her to stop.

so is it appropriate for a guy to ask out a woman knowing she is an SP or does he come across as a loser that just wants to try and get some for free?
 

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i have a question that i am sure has been asked a million times.

what about a guy that is attracted to an sp but had never actually seen her as a client. he has just spoken to her here or there and he would like to ask her out. like i said i am sure it has been asked a million times but seriously is it possible for a guy to ask a woman out when they both know what she does for a living, even knowing full well they he won't be bothered or ask her to stop.

so is it appropriate for a guy to ask out a woman knowing she is an SP or does he come across as a loser that just wants to try and get some for free?
damn simon you could have just asked me lmao
 

simon482

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damn simon you could have just asked me lmao
lol like i said i am sure it has been asked a million times and probably even been asked in this thread i just didn't want to read back lol. does a guy just say hey want to go out sometime or are there different rules for asking out an sp even if he is not and has no plans of being a client.
 
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