Bravo. Bravo. Attack me, then attempt to defend being dishonest. If you had read my post, nowhere did I refer to you as stupid. Maybe a long look in the mirror should be in your future. I called you selfish. My question to you would be why are you so hell-bent against being honest? It's quite apparent you that you believe it's only you that's important in a relationship. You never made any attemp to argue my point, rather you chose to attack me. Maybe I should have called you stupid. It now seems to fit. Any names you want to call me, go right ahead. Anonymous internet voices don't scare or offend me. Although my gender makes no difference here, I am a man. Go ahead, take your best shot.
To the OP, remember those immortal words from Shakespeare, "This above all, to thyne own self be true."