paulplatinum IF you read my posts it is b.s. to try to overcome anything. 98% of women have no attraction to short men EVEN with personality, intelligence, financial success. To advise short men of such is to mis-lead them & give them false hope. BEEN THERE , DONE THAT. They will always be " nice guys " & in the friend zone. READ forums & chat sites.... the women EVEN admit many short guys have interesting & " nice " personalities ...... BECAUSE they have to inorder to compensate for their shortness & LACK of attraction to women. The women claim it makes NO difference. FORGET IT...... Get OUT of the short man zone. GET leg lengthening & become at least normal , average height 5'9"- 5'10" & then seen as average height guy & not stigmatized as SHORT GUY= automatic turn off to women. You cannot beat it & it is wishful thinking to wait for some leprachan to sprink good luck & sudenly women that find short guys sexy will appear into your life. I am done with short guy stigma & doing leg Lengthening surgery in Nov. I have every confidence in my personality & in a couple of circles the life of the party .... but still just the " nice " guy, chump.