I get what your saying. Again, the guy was excited. Plus, she never said she was with anybody. Maybe he would have handled it differently if she was with somebody. Plus Raven said she had never seen him before. Doesnt sound like it was even a former client to me
What not to do if you see a sp in public!!!!`
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Because you can't tell the difference between reality and fantasy?
It's like going to the movies and enjoying 90+ minutes of pure fiction/fantasy. You know it's not real but you enjoy it nevertheless. So now you're going to tell me you don't go see movies either?
The guy needs to contain his excitement.
She never said she wasn't with anybody either, and whether she was or wasn't, is irrelevant.
Who cares if she'd seen him before or not, in public is not the place to go strike up a conversation with your favourite S.P. or client.
Dude, shes a human being!! if she cant stand the possibility of some outside publicity (Just like movie starts shouldnt be movie stars if they dont want to be approached by 'fans'), then maybe shes in the wrong business. You cant expect EVERYONE to react to seeing an SP out and about like you or i would.
I wouldn't smack a girl's ass in public. I would probably say hello and how are you? tho.
Indeed, discretion is a two-way street. If you want an SP to protect your identity, the same courtesy should be extended to the SP.
There are some serious fucktards on this board - and wandering the malls/SDM.
Since when is it okay to go up and speak with anyone in this business in public without explicit permission by both parties beforehand? Did the rules change some time in the last ... 10 minutes?
As stated earlier: discretion is a two-way street and must be upheld by both the escort and the client. Anyone who doesn't get this basic and simple fact is not mature enough for this hobby, plain and simple. That goes for anyone explaining or enabling such behaviour.
[Shaking head]
Since when is it okay to go up and speak with anyone in this business in public without explicit permission by both parties beforehand? Did the rules change some time in the last ... 10 minutes?
As stated earlier: discretion is a two-way street and must be upheld by both the escort and the client. Anyone who doesn't get this basic and simple fact is not mature enough for this hobby, plain and simple. That goes for anyone explaining or enabling such behaviour.
[Shaking head]
Again, I AGREE!!!! Buuuut, when you are in a business that enables you to have many followers, you have to expect the unexpected!!! AGAIN, the way one person handles themselves out in public, probably isnt the way YOU OR I would. I wouldnt bother an SP who is out shopping, just like i wouldnt bother a movie star who is out with their family. But she is in a business where unfortunately, some people dont have that common sense....
I never go out in public. Just kidding! My worst fear is running into my BOSS at an SC. I think the proper protocol in that situation is we do not make eye contact and the junior member leaves the SC ASAP and erase the incident from his memory.
Huh?!? WTF does a movie star have to do with an escort or a client?
Part of the "contract" that goes along with the fee is that both sides keep it to themselves. Think the Vegas slogan: what goes on in... stays in...
AGAIN, if someone doesn't have the good sense to know that the contract begins and ends in the allotted and paid-for time period, then they have no business partaking in this hobby and get what they deserve from the SP (or client, if the role is reversed) - namely a kick in the nuts, pepper spray to the eyes or a tazer. <wink> (I'm kidding - chill out.)
Followers? "Expect the unexpected?" By stating shit like this, you show that you clearly don't get it. You are enabling the idiots, which makes me think that you are also an idiot. < shaking head >
Ah well. If your dumb enough NOT to read that i wrote 'people like you and i wouldnt do that', then maybe you are the idiot here
I think there's an expectation of privacy when an SP is out in public. It's not like she advertises on Google or the Weather Network.
Saw that, but you keep making excuses for the idiots and giving ridiculous comparisons and examples. I'll stand by my post until you prove otherwise.Ah well. If your dumb enough NOT to read that i wrote 'people like you and i wouldnt do that', then maybe you are the idiot here
Escorts are not public figures - they have a reasonable expectation of privacy, as do clients. For either side to break that contract makes the hobby a worse place for all involved. There really is no more to be said... however, if someone - client or escort - doesn't get this, they need to leave the business immediately. There are several SPs on this board who have shown that they're not trustworthy and would never see one cent of my money. There are way too many anonymous clients that would have me deeply concerned if I were an escort - posting personal details, acting like creeps, etc.
PS - it's not just this business where people lack common sense - this just happens to be the one that attracts a lot of delusional creeps.
You only have to worry about running into your boss during work hours, no?
BTW, I agree with GCostanza that privacy applies even for single guys (for risk of being outed to friends, workers, bosses, parents, etc, etc.).
Agree. An SP is not a "public figure" in the same manner as a Julia Roberts or Venus Williams.
