SP End of Appointment Shower

[deep_blue]

I am looking for feedback from both SPs and clients about the protocol of when a SP showers at the end of the appointment, especially on an outcall at the client's hotel room. Many times they hit the shower while there is still time on the clock (usually 10 minutes). Is it OK to watch them, maybe on occasion ask to join them, or just leave them be?

I think at least watching and talking with them while they are doing so would be quite erotic; also be there to hand them a towel or watch or help them dry off and watch them fix their hair. I am sure many of us guys would find all of that to be quite a turn on, kind of like a "visual souvenir" and some further semi-interaction to accentuate and conclude an appointment.


All the times I just leave them be, but some hit the shower when there is still some time left. I don't understand why a shower is so private after you have been naked an done the deed with them.

 

[freestuff]

IMHO, just let them be. It's their time to step out of their SP persona back into their real self.

 

[deep_blue]

IMHO, just let them be. It's their time to step out of their SP persona back into their real self.

That's how I have always operated.

 

[Scarey]

They're washing your dirty off them........I doubt they'd find anything sexy about being handed a towel

 

[Rockslinger]

Don't they close the bathroom door before they step into the shower?

 

[Don]

I only jump in when invited.

 

[superdavey2002]

i have showered with my girl before, but, never a the end of the date, always in the middle somewhere. very fun and erotic i must say.

 

[Brill]

I remember when I saw Janda at her place a few years ago.
I was surprised and pleased to see her join me in the shower, she wore a cute shower cap.

 

[Aardvark154]

IMHO, just let them be. It's their time to step out of their SP persona back into their real self.

Yup, myself as well.

 

[randygirl]

It depends on who I'm with. Some guys ask to join me, I ask some guys to join me, sometimes I shower alone, sometimes I go back to my place to shower (in this city I am usually less than ten minutes from home).

I have no problem with having a guy join me, but the problem that arises often is that they think that the shower is an invitation to try and extend things, when in reality by that time, session is over. (I am known for going over on sessions, so by then there is most often no question that the session is over, time wise.)

While it can be fun to be erotic in the shower with someone, the shower after a session is all cleanup business, not erotic business. I would have no problem with a guy watching me, either, if that's what he wanted...but I would appreciate him asking if I minded so I wouldn't find him creepy. lol I never shut the bathroom door while taking an after session shower, either, because the guy has already seen me naked.

I like showering after with my clients. Especially if we really hit it off. But I think nothing strange of any of the scenarios that I mentioned first off, even me going home to shower. If you ask, and she says yes, whether to showering together or just watching her, then great. If she says no, accept it for what it is; that is great too.

I am surprised how many of you guys say you just leave her be!

 

[Tokyo Heights]

Showers taken by SP is not at all bad, its good for both as far as freshness and hygeine is concerned, plus if SP allows her client to watch her or to join the fun in shower with he,r would add more fun and excitement for the client, and many of us would surely love to have a joint shower with the SP of his choice. But some SP take wrong advantae of shower facilities offered to her especially when she is doing out call at your hotel or to your house, once i remember i booked a very well known girl in the price range of 300 roses/hr she came well on time, hug and kissed me, and i had made her a request to bring the same Red Nighty she was wearing in her web pic, she brought the same, and told me she would return after getting a fresh shower, and i duly told her to go ahead and return back soon, she took exactly 20-minutes to come out after taking a shower, and she accounted the time of her shower with the time i was paying her, which i feel is a bit too much and mis-use of cleints time and money. Though for next 30 minutes she gave me a wonderful time togather with her full GFE Menu, but she was so smart that she by hook or by crook spend half the time on her own grooming on my expense, and as 10-mins were left her driver called her and she tried to pull off from the bed, on which i politely told her to wait for another 5-minutes, or else i would not have even got her for full 30-minutes, whereas i paid for full 1/hr at a mutually agreed rate.
After that date she did contacted me few times by text to meet her, but inside my heart i was sure she is a smart ass, so she would surely take nearly 30-minutes for her grooming when she will come for an outcall. SP's should also respect the time value of their clients, they should take shower when their contractual time is over and not during the cleints fun time, that's my earnest request to all those girls who are into such shower games of cheating a client of his precious and valuble time! As a mark of respect, I would not like to name the SP who played such a game with me, as she is very much available through her web link @ 300 roses per hour. Her services are good, but playing with the time of at cleints cost is NOT ACCEPTABLE, & I HAVE ZERO TOLERANCE, for SP's who needs 20-minutes to take a shower and present herself to her client, sorry i also earn with my hard work, so i cannot just throw away in this manner, if i had deducted atleast $ 50~75 from her tributes she would have learnt a lesson, but i did not want to create a bad taste & kept quiet seeing her game of time wasteing at clients cost, that is the reason i now avoid her completely, and would not recommend her to any of my friends too, there are plenty of girls all over GTA who provides honest and good GFE Services, hope she reads my thread and realizes & improves her bad business practises.

 

[Rockslinger]

that is the reason i now avoid her completely, and would not recommend her to any of my friends too,

Some ladies think they are pulling a fast one when what they done is lose a client and any referrals forever. On a related note, our company was charged by our law firm for a meeting between two of their own partners. My boss read them the riot act. We do not pay any law firms for time spent by two partners chit chatting with each other.

 

[randygirl]

Tokyo Heights:

I can see how that would have irritated you to no end. What happened to you was completely unfair.

To my mind, a client is not only paying me to show up on time, but to get ready BEFOREHAND. I believe an SP should be showing up to an outcall ALREADY SHOWERED, but that's just me, I'm not sure how others run things. If a client wanted me to shower beforehand, at the location, that would take max five minutes as I would have literally hopped out of the shower a half an hour before our meeting.

Showering afterward with the client IS a good time, and adds to the session. They always appreciate it when I wash their backs.

No one should be taken advantage of like you were, it is definitely bad practice and will cost the SP in terms of referrals and repeats.

 

[deep_blue]

I must add to these responses that if and SP wants to shower at the end of the session, it should be after your paid hour, not during or before the end of it. Otherwise it is still your paid time. Agree/Disagree?

 

[deep_blue]

Tokyo Heights:

I can see how that would have irritated you to no end. What happened to you was completely unfair.

To my mind, a client is not only paying me to show up on time, but to get ready BEFOREHAND. I believe an SP should be showing up to an outcall ALREADY SHOWERED, but that's just me, I'm not sure how others run things. If a client wanted me to shower beforehand, at the location, that would take max five minutes as I would have literally hopped out of the shower a half an hour before our meeting.

Showering afterward with the client IS a good time, and adds to the session. They always appreciate it when I wash their backs.

No one should be taken advantage of like you were, it is definitely bad practice and will cost the SP in terms of referrals and repeats.

I often wonder when an SP showers at the end of the session that they go home and take another one anyway. Especially if they live only a few minutes away.

 

[Grass.Hopper]

I don't understand... Is she homeless and can't shower at home??? I do provide outcalls and for me, an hour is an hour... I take maybe 5 minutes before the call ends to dress-up and say good bye, but I NEVER SHOWER ON A CALL!!!

Unless they are booked back to back, or in an agency???

I definitly have to remain indy... :-(

 

[luv4lust]

I don't understand... Is she homeless and can't shower at home??? I do provide outcalls and for me, an hour is an hour... I take maybe 5 minutes before the call ends to dress-up and say good bye, but I NEVER SHOWER ON A CALL!!!

Unless they are booked back to back, or in an agency???

I definitly have to remain indy... :-(

so if you get cum on your face and tits maybe even hair you just leave it there **yikes**

 

[afterhours]

I must add to these responses that if and SP wants to shower at the end of the session, it should be after your paid hour, not during or before the end of it. Otherwise it is still your paid time. Agree/Disagree?

in our dreams

 

[luv4lust]

blue have you ever started and ended the appointment with showers

eg..
start ....washing, touching, exploring, toss in some oral pleasure

end... washing, touching, oral with a bit of cum squirting fun, then clean up.

it's alot of fun

 

[Mr. Lucky]

She will say to you "sure you can join me" Next thing you know your getting a golden!