Booking with upscale girls.

rhuarc29

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A few things: Just because a woman considers herself upscale and worth $1000/2 hours at a minimum, does not actually mean she's worth that much. Another point, and this is just my opinion, from a rough estimate, about 90-95% of SP's are unattractive, and 5-10% are very attractive. I believe no man should pay to be with a woman that is less attractive than he is, yet surprisingly many men do. A lot of women believe that just because she's a woman, a man should have to pay to be with her even if the guy is attractive and the girl is unattractive, it makes little sense. Finally, you hear about some SP's requesting a picture from their clients, and who will only let a man pay to be with her if she's attracted to them and if there's chemistry. I'm stating the obvious here, but if she's attracted to the guy and there's chemistry the guy shouldn't have to pay to be with her, the only guys that should pay are ones that are less attractive than she is, and guys that she's not attracted to. Think about it, does it make sense when an SP says "I'll only let you pay me $500/hr if I think you're hot, if I don't think you're hot, you can't pay me $500/hr." I think some women are unfortunately living in a fantasy world, that's not how the real world works.

That's just my opinion though.
Actually, this IS their real world. It's us who don't live in it. As conceited as some of these ladies are, THEY are able to dictate whatever terms they want because they lucked out in life. All it takes is one moron who doesn't understand the value of money (aka he's filthy rich) to book a single appointment with one of these ladies and she's set for a week. Unfortunately, there're enough guys out there who are able to do that. There're better choices out there for less than half the cost. Do yourself a favour and check them out.
 

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WTF. What difference does any of this make. If these high priced ladies weren't making it at their prices OR with their safety precautions, they would either disappear or starve. If a lady wants to say she will only see a man who is blonde or 6'5" or has blue eyes, then so be it. If you don't fit the bill, move on. You have no inheirent right to demand anything from these ladies. They are people like the rest of us. They have the absolute choice as to who they will see. End of story.
 

rhuarc29

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WTF. What difference does any of this make. If these high priced ladies weren't making it at their prices OR with their safety precautions, they would either disappear or starve. If a lady wants to say she will only see a man who is blonde or 6'5" or has blue eyes, then so be it. If you don't fit the bill, move on. You have no inheirent right to demand anything from these ladies. They are people like the rest of us. They have the absolute choice as to who they will see. End of story.
Not sure how you personally differentiate between the ladies making demands of a client and clients making demands of the ladies. Seems to me you think one is acceptable and the other is disrespectful. It also seems to me that both parties have the right to set whatever conditions they want (however conceited those conditions be) and the chances of a meeting occuring is directly correllated to those conditions being met. No one is contending that these ladies will fall flat on their faces if they continue the way they're going, only that they should ;)
 

traveler196

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On the contrary, I think both should be able to make whatever demands that they wish. However, if the other party does not wish to comply with these demands, they should just look someplace else, not complain about the other's demands.
I don't see where you feel you have the right to say the ladies SHOULD fall flat on their faces. If they choose to make certain demands and can survive and prosper despite them, well, more power to them. Where do you get off on judging what their demands should be?
 

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Err, ummm, err, what about all the other independent girls like Gen or Bryn or Kaelyn? Your post implies they lack the wisdom or self-respect to protect themselves from injury or robbery.

Any of those girls care to comment?
All indy's worth seeing screen their clients to some degree or another. Gen asked me to describe myself ( she saw me anyway, silly girl ;) ). When I met her she said that she can tell with a high degree of accuracy who is likely to be a problem and who isn't just by reading their e-mails so her method is to get you to write. Other escorts have said the same.

The reference request is common and usually not strictly enforced if you are polite in your inquiry and your explanations. Even if you have seen escort "A" 3 months ago how often would they actually remember you ( unless of course you are the devastatingly goodlooking adrenaline) or provide a reference in a timely fashion. Quite often when I have been asked and provided a reference when I see the girl whose name I have provided she tells me that the reference was never checked. Perhaps its checked only if you start jostling the alarm bells.

This thread has been entertaining on the side topics as well. Thank you adrenaline for the most amusing concept. It's almost "fuji-worthy". Some of the worst escorts and mpa's I've seen were the best looking while the reverse is true although there is obviously a reasonably high minimum standard because the "eye candy" factor always comes into play for us shallow males.
 

rama putri

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This an American common practice. The OP must be from the states or something. SPs in the states need to do this for safety (and blackmail) purposes.
 

Mia.Colpa

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I disagree with you there!!

What a myopic view of life and a useless, baseless post.

Like it's been said, the detailed references and information required by some ladies are mainly US requirements and if you knew about hobbying in the US, you'll understand why ladies do that. Rarely do you see ladies in Canada requiring such indepth info due to the differences of this industry, and if you don't like what the lady is asking for, then don't book her and find someone more to your comfort level. I really don't understand what the complaining is all about.
 

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lol- I never thought I'd see the day when you needed a refferal to pay a girl an outrageous amount of money to bend over.

I'm going to sound like an ass but I really don't care- If I was paying 500 bucks an hour for a girl to lay on her back and she asked me for a reference I'd ask her if she was out of her fucking tree lol. LOL I don't think some of these girls realize how good they got it to bend over for 500 bucks an hour when they could be working at burger king for 10 bucks an hour. Shit if they book 2 appt's a week they are making more than the average person considering they probably don't pay taxes on it lol.

From reading their websites they also come across as pretty conceited lol.
I fully agree with your comment, its 100% true, & i 2nd it! as regards our Upscale service providers:)
 

rhuarc29

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On the contrary, I think both should be able to make whatever demands that they wish. However, if the other party does not wish to comply with these demands, they should just look someplace else, not complain about the other's demands.
I don't see where you feel you have the right to say the ladies SHOULD fall flat on their faces. If they choose to make certain demands and can survive and prosper despite them, well, more power to them. Where do you get off on judging what their demands should be?
Sigh, do you understand you're going in a circle? They can demand whatever they want. I can demand whatever I want. If our demands don't meet, WE don't meet. I've already agreed to that. It is my opinion that charging $1000 and overly-stringent safety precautions (when compare to the rest of the industry) for a two hour meeting is conceited, and therefore deserving of a face-plant. I'm sure not everyone sees it that way. More power to them? If our government was completely corrupt but got away with it, would you also say that? Because the more I think about it, the more that parallel can be drawn.
 

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This an American common practice. The OP must be from the states or something. SPs in the states need to do this for safety (and blackmail) purposes.
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Just for the record, I have never asked for a reference or much personal info when seeing someone in Canada. Therefore, who ever started this thread is making it up. I do not even use preferred 411.
However, my screening practices are much more stringent in the US due to LE.

I just wanted to clear that up so noone is misinformed with the information I need in seeing someone here in Canada.

Thanks,
Gia
 
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