I'm late also.
I would have suggested before you put on your apron and groveled begging for forgiveness as many recommended - take a serious look at your future and if it really is worth continuing the relationship.
Let's face it, you have almost reached terminal escape velocity with both parties considering options. Many guys dream of getting where you are now. Are you happy or are you just looking for a boost to get back into the ring for a few more years of mutual aggravation ?
I would have suggested before you put on your apron and groveled begging for forgiveness as many recommended - take a serious look at your future and if it really is worth continuing the relationship.
Let's face it, you have almost reached terminal escape velocity with both parties considering options. Many guys dream of getting where you are now. Are you happy or are you just looking for a boost to get back into the ring for a few more years of mutual aggravation ?