Incall vs Outcall

[eurotrash1970]

Am I in the minority here? I prefer to have an outcall by far! I hate incalls. I realize it is safer for the girl. But it's just less comfortable and less enjoyable. Not to mention that isn't it technically legal for an outcall and illegal for incall. How do they get away with that? Not to mention that I have better things to do than go chasing these girls all over town.

It just seems to me like the agencies push more for incalls and I for one dislike it.

 

[blackram]

I can't agree, incalls are often more convenient for some. Though the legality is questionable in either case. Incalls can be caught on "common bawdy house" rules. Outcalls can be caught on "living off the avails" rules.

 

[shack]

Out.

 

[eurotrash1970]

I can't agree, incalls are often more convenient for some. Though the legality is questionable in either case. Incalls can be caught on "common bawdy house" rules. Outcalls can be caught on "living off the avails" rules.

Legaility is true. But I cannot be charged with living of the avails. I can be if I'm in a bawdy house.

 

[luv4lust]

why bitch about it just enjoy your out calls then we'll all be happy

 

[His Majesty]

Outcalls is definitely better. Reason is it puts you in power, because she's not in her comfort zone at a place she doesn't know. Outcalls is the only way to do it.

 

[genintoronto]

Outcalls is definitely better. Reason is it puts you in power, because she's not in her comfort zone at a place she doesn't know. Outcalls is the only way to do it.

Uh huh. And an uncomfortable and anxious SP is a good thing for you because... ?

 

[Ladyraven]

Uh huh. And an uncomfortable and anxious SP is a good thing for you because... ?

My thoughts excactly

 

[big.guy_13]

I prefer the incalls. That way I can go about my business and not have the agency, SP, etc. know where I live.
And since I don't travel too often, out of town, hotels are not really feasible either.

 

[fuji]

I can't agree, incalls are often more convenient for some. Though the legality is questionable in either case. Incalls can be caught on "common bawdy house" rules. Outcalls can be caught on "living off the avails" rules.

Outcall is 100% legal for the SP and the customer, it's only the agency that is in a grey area under the avails rule.

 

[getwhatuwant]

Of course there are advantages and disadvantages to both. As an SP I enjoy outcalls more, the reason being it tends to feel more comfortable for the gentleman. It's a setting that they are familiar with so they seem to be more calm, confident and overall comfortable which helps me feel the same. I find clients are more nervous at an incall, (not a problem at all, I enjoy making the situation comfortable) but it's an unfamiliar place, they have to make the trip back to where they are going after which I think takes away from the enjoyment of the afterglow. Also, though I have learned to ease the jitters in a variety of ways at both incalls and outcalls, it seems to be a bit more difficult to do at an incall. The thing I like about incalls though is that I get to stay to have a few minutes alone and take my time in the shower.

 

[doggee_01]

outcall at a nice hotel......only way to go

 

[Mister K]

Depends on the scenario...

First off, outcalls by most SP's tend to be more expensive then seeing the same SP as an incall. No doubt that is because with an incall the SP can see another client immediately, where as an outcall they must spend the time getting to your outcall location and then returning or moving on to their next appointment.

Second, as so many TERBites seem to be engrossed in costs, if you are getting a hotel room for your outcall then it is going to cost you anywhere from $60 (day rate) to $150 for a decent hotel/motel. Add in the additional cost of the outcall appointment and you are looking at a difference of $100 to $200. So outcalls are more expensive.

The problem I have with incalls (unless SP is using a hotel room) is that I have been to a bunch of incall locations over the years where they are messy, dirty, smelly, etc. I know that I am not planning on spending the night, but in some cases I have taken one look at the bathroom and I just want to leave. No matter how attractive or "high mileage" the SP is. That being said, incalls tend to be less expensive.

That's my view. Since I am not made of money, I have to balance off the various factors and determine whether I want to spend the money and see the lady as an outcall or take the chance that her incall is not a nightmare.

 

[eurotrash1970]

Outcalls is definitely better. Reason is it puts you in power, because she's not in her comfort zone at a place she doesn't know. Outcalls is the only way to do it.

Not at all about power for me. I really want the girl to be comfortable and not be affriad. I'm not at all threatening in any way. Usually within about 10 seconds of walking in the girl is comfortable with me. I guess I just had a bad experience once or twice with incalls and don't do them anymore. I just hate wondering if someone is there and in one instance there was someone else there (I could her them). No looking over your shoulder... How many of us have gone to an incall and had to look around and really scope the place out. I even wlaked out on one right before getting to the room. My hobby alarm was going off something fierce. So now I won't do an incall anymore after that last episode a few years ago. I'll just get a room (never bring an SP to your house!).

 

[His Majesty]

Uh huh. And an uncomfortable and anxious SP is a good thing for you because... ?

Have you ever heard of sarcasm? Jesus jehova's witness christ.

 

[genintoronto]

Have you ever heard of sarcasm? Jesus jehova's witness christ.

My people actually invented it.

Sorry if I missed the sarcasm in your post. Not that it was obvious.

 

[gramage]

I have a shitty apartment so incall for me, kinda important. If I had a nicer place I'd probably go outcall just for the legal issues.

 

[freestuff]

A lot of guys on TERB are married or have live-in SOs so outcalls is really not a viable (and/or financial) option.

 

[blackram]

Outcall is 100% legal for the SP and the customer, it's only the agency that is in a grey area under the avails rule.

Either way, your client information is in the hands of the LE when the agency is busted.

 

[Don]

I've seldom had my best experiences with an incall. I think because I often don't find the location itself comfortable (sparsely furnished, no serious thought of the layout or ambiance, etc) since the incall is obviously just a place to work and not a place to live (or comfortably hang out). One incall I visited had a futon and a mattress on the floor as the primary furniture. Hence I prefer outcalls to a nice hotel. Or an incall in a nice hotel.