Totally agree...there should be no hesitation or embarrasment whatsoever..it is a business deal, and in business the topic of money should be discussed freely.It's a business transaction and should be conducted as such. I much prefer the cards to be laid on the table rather than having to pick up on "clues".
Or they have some ulterior motive like under paying the lady.As I said on the other thread, I think that SP's should start with the assumption that us customers are reasonably comfortable with what we are doing.
Anyone who is uncomfortable discussing money for sex probably shouldn't be engaging in sex for money.
Well, you have the luxury of being in control of the situation, where ultimately we girls do not. We only have control as long as you guys allow us to have it. You can take it away by force at any time. I realize we have avenues we can pursue if this occurs, but I'm not interested in being physically harmed just to prove my point - cutting off my nose to spite my face, so to speak.As there are two sides to every coin Raven, often the GIRLS prattle on and on about their life's troubles and run down the clock. When I first started hobbying I probably spent $1000.00 listening to them bitch and moan about other customers. Now? If I notice they aren't slowing up with the gabbing? I initiate.
One time one said to me after wasting 40 minutes of the date: how was I to know you didn't want to just talk? I said "but you were doing ALL the talking"......
Not to pat myself on the back but a lot of girls find me easy to talk to and I appreciate the get to know you chats, they're awesome. But not for the entire date. It is up to both parties to get down to business within a reasonable time.
Frankly, from what I've learned over the years, if an sp is prattling on past the reasonable time period, I will say to her: It's great talking with you, but if you want to continue, we're stopping the clock now......
Either person can have control of the situation, I tend to hand off if she isn't too submissive or inexperienced. There are no general rules as to who makes the first steps.Well, you have the luxury of being in control of the situation, where ultimately we girls do not. We only have control as long as you guys allow us to have it. You can take it away by force at any time. I realize we have avenues we can pursue if this occurs, but I'm not interested in being physically harmed just to prove my point - cutting off my nose to spite my face, so to speak.
Maybe you should screen your clients better or find another revenue stream where you do not have to be so bitter.Well, you have the luxury of being in control of the situation, where ultimately we girls do not. We only have control as long as you guys allow us to have it. You can take it away by force at any time. I realize we have avenues we can pursue if this occurs, but I'm not interested in being physically harmed just to prove my point - cutting off my nose to spite my face, so to speak.
Well, you have a poor idea of who or what men are. Not all of us are Body builder strong men that can man handle anyone at will. If that's the way you feel with every guy you meet then I'd suggest you get out of this business now. Effectively you're saying you go into any situation with the idea that any moment you're going to get assaulted (or COULD get assaulted). There are men in this world that wouldn't life a hand to a woman to save their life or MAYBE to save a child. (btw, control isn't always a physical act, it's mostly mental).Well, you have the luxury of being in control of the situation, where ultimately we girls do not. We only have control as long as you guys allow us to have it. You can take it away by force at any time. I realize we have avenues we can pursue if this occurs, but I'm not interested in being physically harmed just to prove my point - cutting off my nose to spite my face, so to speak.
Yes, it's a stretch, I find your comment insulting and offensive.I couldn't rape a woman either, but I can frighten or intimidate them without knowing it just by being a stranger who might take advantage.
Both tboy and fuji have shown they can strongly argue with women on here, is it such a stretch they couldn't intimidate an escort into seeing their point of view? Not rape, but still scary for someone who doesn't know them.
LOL I find this newb insulting and offensive.....I think since the first day he joined actually.Yes, it's a stretch, I find your comment insulting and offensive.
That's quite the leap, don't ya think?I couldn't rape a woman either, but I can frighten or intimidate them without knowing it just by being a stranger who might take advantage.
Both tboy and fuji have shown they can strongly argue with women on here, is it such a stretch they couldn't intimidate an escort into seeing their point of view? Not rape, but still scary for someone who doesn't know them.