Its a catch 22, really. I think the word racist may be technically accurate here, but it is such an emotional and charged word that it probably shouldn't be used in this case. The connotation is all wrong. He may not want to have sex with a black woman but he may not blink or even consider it a factor when he hires a black manager or a black lawyer or a black guitarist or reads a book by a black author or votes for a black politician, or goes golfing with a black guy or sells a song to a black musician, etc. He's not really racist, in the traditional and popular use of the term, is he, in that example? So I don't think calling him a racist for not wanting to have sex with a black woman is all that fair. Technically correct? Maybe, but grossly misleading. Unless he has a history of other "racist" behaviour or opinions. He probably just sees black women as another flavour of woman - blonde, brunette, redhead, black, asian, native, BBW, spinner, barbie doll, little boy girl, arabic, latina, etc. Who knows?
And, FWIW, I don't think I have ever even heard a John Mayer song, so I'm not just defending him for the sake of it. And, my personal preferences run HIGHLY in favour of women of colour, any colour. Yum. I can't imagine not wanting to take a dark-skinned woman to bed. But, chacun a son gout.
And, FWIW, I don't think I have ever even heard a John Mayer song, so I'm not just defending him for the sake of it. And, my personal preferences run HIGHLY in favour of women of colour, any colour. Yum. I can't imagine not wanting to take a dark-skinned woman to bed. But, chacun a son gout.