I find myself in a little bit of an awkward dilemma and am hoping I could get an opinon or 2 before i make my decison.
Over the years I have had the fortune of staying in touch (via email only) with a few sp's well past their retirement. I am always amazed at how almost all of them have moved out of city or country (lol).
Now one of them after several monthes of silence between us initiates contact with me and says she is back in town and really wants to see me. Of course i said yes but I later realized nothing came up, either overt or subtle about money or her coming out of retirement
Would you just assume this is a paid gig, assume it is a real date, but more importantly would you just bring the money matter up or wait for her to bring it up?
Either way i will have some cash with me and I have a pretty good idea of what i am going to do but still, would appreciate an opinion or two.
If there is already a thread on this my apologies.
bluesman
btw, I am pretty sure I am safe posting this here, but if she does sees this i am sure i wll get my answer in a hurry !!
Over the years I have had the fortune of staying in touch (via email only) with a few sp's well past their retirement. I am always amazed at how almost all of them have moved out of city or country (lol).
Now one of them after several monthes of silence between us initiates contact with me and says she is back in town and really wants to see me. Of course i said yes but I later realized nothing came up, either overt or subtle about money or her coming out of retirement
Would you just assume this is a paid gig, assume it is a real date, but more importantly would you just bring the money matter up or wait for her to bring it up?
Either way i will have some cash with me and I have a pretty good idea of what i am going to do but still, would appreciate an opinion or two.
If there is already a thread on this my apologies.
bluesman
btw, I am pretty sure I am safe posting this here, but if she does sees this i am sure i wll get my answer in a hurry !!