Firstly I want to say I'm not saying that all SPs can't be trusted but here's my story. I've been seeing an sp on a regular basis, and we became friends....even with her boyfriend...sounds weird but true. Anyways one day we are talking and she asks me for my number, I SWEAR to the honest truth, in fact the phone number was written by her, it's not my writing on the paper. Well wouldn't you know it...either she ratted me out, or the boyfriend found it so he calls me up and rags me out saying that I pushed the phone number on her! She says she is stressed and her boyfriend is not giving her the attention she wants. I don't want anything to do with her in my personal life...I was just trying to be helpful. Now to be perfectly blunt I am terrified the guy is gonna come after me...I don't need this trouble in my life....(SO)...I tried reasoning with the guy but he puts all the blame on me and doesn't want to hear my side of the story. Anybody had the same plight here? Does anyone have any suggestions? I would sincerely appreciate some advice as I can't ask anyone who is close to me as this would be a disaster in the making! Thanks in advance!
Can SPs be trusted....
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Not really an SP issue. Same thing could have happened if she were a housewife, attorney, or doctor. Just the turmoil found in all human relations.
LMAO on that one.
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OnTheWayOut
If they don't already have your home address, you better delist your phone #/address immediately.
I think you got too close to them as a couple. What to do, sorry no suggestions.
I think you got too close to them as a couple. What to do, sorry no suggestions.
True, but a lot SP's have really messy personal lives! More than your average person, so it's best just to stay away!
Good advice from both of you, Thanks....They don't have my personal phone number but I don't know how pissed off the guy is and how far he is willing to go! Remember, a jealous man is a dangerous man!
Most ................ Yes
Some ................ No
It kind of works with the rest of humanity as well. Most can be trusted and some can't.
Don't forget you have a very powerful ally on your side as well... You know who she is, what she does, and possibly where she lives... I doubt she is going to risk "outing herself"... by getting on your case.
Lay low, change your number if you can, and pick a new ATF... Judging by the selection in the other areas of this board, there is quite a variety to choose from.
Good Luck skyfire.
Lay low, change your number if you can, and pick a new ATF... Judging by the selection in the other areas of this board, there is quite a variety to choose from.
Good Luck skyfire.
Awesome advice. Thanks CG..a friend indeed...and I've never met you...lol!Don't forget you have a very powerful ally on your side as well... You know who she is, what she does, and possibly where she lives... I doubt she is going to risk "outing herself"... by getting on your case.
Lay low, change your number if you can, and pick a new ATF... Judging by the selection in the other areas of this board, there is quite a variety to choose from.
Good Luck skyfire.
If I were you I would stop seeing her. Getting to close to an SP is never a good idea. Especially if you're thinking about dating them. That's a whole other can of worms!!
In your case - As long as she and her boy friend doesn't know where you live, you're fine. And besides he probably has no idea what you look like so really you have nothing to be worried about. It may be a problem if you continue to see her. You never know you might run into the guy?
That's my 2 cents
In your case - As long as she and her boy friend doesn't know where you live, you're fine. And besides he probably has no idea what you look like so really you have nothing to be worried about. It may be a problem if you continue to see her. You never know you might run into the guy?
That's my 2 cents
Normally you might want to go the route of best defense is a good offense, but that runs the risk of antagonizing the situation. You have your SO to think of, as you make clear, so skip that route.
Next move is the diametrical opposite. Kiss some boyfriend arse! So what if the guy is a loser, call him (presuming if he calls you then you can call him?) and tell him you're backing off. Tell him it is all a misunderstanding, for which you take full blame, and that you have no wish to come between them, etc, etc. The SP is obviously no trouble, as you say she's not hassling you, but you might need to switch hobby chick. While this strategy is clearly taking two steps back, some things are more important than being perceived as the toughest dickhead on the block. This is the path of minimal resistance.
Next move is the diametrical opposite. Kiss some boyfriend arse! So what if the guy is a loser, call him (presuming if he calls you then you can call him?) and tell him you're backing off. Tell him it is all a misunderstanding, for which you take full blame, and that you have no wish to come between them, etc, etc. The SP is obviously no trouble, as you say she's not hassling you, but you might need to switch hobby chick. While this strategy is clearly taking two steps back, some things are more important than being perceived as the toughest dickhead on the block. This is the path of minimal resistance.
Wow.... you became friends with your SP and her BF. All I can say is, those that actively seek out drama, tend to find it. Good luck with that.
Come on man, don't kid yourself, if you're willing to pay to sleep with someone, you were tickled pink that she asked for your number, and the thought of freebies, and that she might even be into you....
Cheers!
Come on man, don't kid yourself, if you're willing to pay to sleep with someone, you were tickled pink that she asked for your number, and the thought of freebies, and that she might even be into you....
Cheers!
I think you have to look at the SP as a person and not as an SP - and trust your gut. There are some SP's I see as regulars that I get to know and get comfortable with. There are others I where I won't even take my cell phone into the session.
Just my two cents.
Just my two cents.
