Can SPs be trusted....
- Thread starter skyfire
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It sounds a little like a shake-down in the making. The vast majority of that kind of threats are just empty threats to make you go away, not serious threats. When a psycho threatens his estranged wife, it could be serious. When a psycho threatens his wife's customer, likely not. Has anyone ever heard of a murder committed by the jealous husband of an SP towards a customer? I am sure it has happened, but not likely. So I would not worry too much.
That being said, it is probably time to move on.
That being said, it is probably time to move on.
c'mon
Stop whining and being a little girl. Tell him that if he calls you again, you'll trace the call and kick his ass. Stop being such a girl. If you can't stand the heat, then don't give sp's your number. Holy shit!
Stop whining and being a little girl. Tell him that if he calls you again, you'll trace the call and kick his ass. Stop being such a girl. If you can't stand the heat, then don't give sp's your number. Holy shit!
The line...
... between a "professional" relationship with a lady and a "friendship" can become blurred, and when it does, the relationship gets complicated. Having found myself in that situation, it can be tricky. (And when I say "that situation" I don't mean that the lady in question made any "unfriendly" overtures at all... I am very fond of her and I think it's mutual.)
In our case, our "professional" relationship has ended (which we both miss, but for different reasons I suppose) but we continue to be friends...
... between a "professional" relationship with a lady and a "friendship" can become blurred, and when it does, the relationship gets complicated. Having found myself in that situation, it can be tricky. (And when I say "that situation" I don't mean that the lady in question made any "unfriendly" overtures at all... I am very fond of her and I think it's mutual.)
In our case, our "professional" relationship has ended (which we both miss, but for different reasons I suppose) but we continue to be friends...
I hope it was your cell phone number you gave her. If so, it's time to get a new number.
If it's your home number, then changing it may be more difficult to explain to your SO.
As CG suggested, it's also time for a new regular SP.
One of the other posters beat me to it with he Tiger comment. I was going to suggest you contact him for tips on how to get out of a sticky situation.
If it's your home number, then changing it may be more difficult to explain to your SO.
As CG suggested, it's also time for a new regular SP.
One of the other posters beat me to it with he Tiger comment. I was going to suggest you contact him for tips on how to get out of a sticky situation.
Better suggestion would be to NOT contact Tiger! LOL (It's not working out so well for him...)
I thought the whole reason to see an SP is so that there is no personal relationship. If you start to develope one, time to find a new provider.
What he said....this sounds like a new version of the old "Badger" scam where the boyfriend walks in on the SP and client and blackmails the client.
Stand up for yourself. If they call you, tell them both to you have moved and want nothing to do with them. This will fade off and disappear, don't be fearful and stand your ground, be strong!.
