simple bully/bullied mentality. If I say I'm done and then someone chooses to respond, especially if their subsequent comment is rude/insulting, there is a definite desire to respond back (sometimes in kind). I go with the belief that people curse you to get you to shut up instead of actually coming up with a strong reason/argument that will get you to stop, they are trying to bully you into silence. I get quite a few snarky comments from people after I'm done and I happily respond because I won't let a bully win. I also consider crying harassment as a form of bullying - this is a public forum. If you post something, simply be prepared to have others respond. I bring this up because some people will use this as part of the snarky comments.