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Mandala

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As prostitution is legal and buying sex is legal one would think sex for rent is legal
but it is illegal to advertise prostitution as it must be done in private

However, as rent is an essential I would say sex for rent is illegal but money is not an essential
as you can get welfare

Should sex for food be legal?
 
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As prostitution is legal and buying sex is legal one would think sex for rent is legal
but it is illegal to advertise prostitution as it must be done in private

However, as rent is an essential I would say sex for rent is illegal but money is not an essential
as you can get welfare

Should sex for food be legal?
Buying sex is not legal in Canada actually.
 

KittyCaterina

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The homeless people you describe are addicts or mentally ill individuals that prefer living on the street. The non-addicts are not having gay sex in exchange for free rent, and nobody wants to touch them with a 10 foot pole nor is anyone going to allow them into their home under any condition anyway.

NOBODY in Canada has to have sex for shelter.
Wrong!

For example, what does a 15 year old female do when an uncaring mother who prefers her abusive boyfriend kicks them out?

They try the only female youth shelter in Ottawa and all 10 beds are taken with a long wait list.

All of the adult men's shelters like The Salvation Army can only offer a blanket and a one night motel stay.

She is too young for social assistance and even if she was old enough, the process is long and finding a cheap place for rent is almost impossible, even for those who have full-time jobs.
Nobody wants to rent to a young female on welfare and finding a job is difficult when you have no home.

She sleeps in the streets.

She begins to panhandle and one day a man offers her a place to live in exchange for sex. It is getting cold out and she feels this is her only option.

Voila, it happens! No addiction, no severe mental health issues. Just a desperate young girl.

The same can happen to adult women with a few points mentioned above being tweaked. I will write an example for this below.
 
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Wrong!

For example, what does a 15 year old female do when an uncaring mother who prefers her abusive boyfriend kicks them out?

They try the only female youth shelter in Ottawa and all 10 beds are taken with a long wait list.

All of the adult men's shelters like The Salvation Army can only offer a blanket and a one night motel stay.

She is too young for social assistance and even if she was old enough, the process is long and finding a cheap place for rent is almost impossible, even for those who have full-time jobs.
Nobody wants to rent to a young female on welfare and finding a job is difficult when you have no home.

She sleeps in the streets.

She begins to panhandle and one day a man offers her a place to live in exchange for sex. It is getting cold out and she feels this is her only option.

Voila, it happens! No addiction, no severe mental health issues. Just a desperate young girl.

The same can happen to adult women with a few points mentioned above being tweaked. I will write an example for this below.
An adult is living a life with a physically abusive partner.

They need to escape but all of the shelters are full, especially if you have no children. Those without children are on the bottom of the wait list.

They know their partner will kill them if they don't leave. Whether they call the police or not, they will have to find somewhere else to live.
They are desperate.

Queue the offer of a place to live in exchange for sex once per week.

Their choice is either that, or they stay in an abusive situation.



Finding a place to rent is not easy. My friend who was staying with me last year to escape a bad situation had an awful time trying to find a rental. She worked a full time job and had a 2200 dollar budget but still could not find a place in Kingston.
Eventually a friend of a friend offered her their basement thankfully.
I couldn't believe that even with a great full time job with a high budget for a one bedroom, someone could have such a hard time finding a rental.

If it was tough for her, I can't imagine how tough it would be for those on a low income, young people and those with zero credit or bad credit.

Some people may feel they have no choice but to engage in sex for trade of shelter.
 
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Wrong!

For example, what does a 15 year old female do when an uncaring mother who prefers her abusive boyfriend kicks them out?

They try the only female youth shelter in Ottawa and all 10 beds are taken with a long wait list.

All of the adult men's shelters like The Salvation Army can only offer a blanket and a one night motel stay.

She is too young for social assistance and even if she was old enough, the process is long and finding a cheap place for rent is almost impossible, even for those who have full-time jobs.
Nobody wants to rent to a young female on welfare and finding a job is difficult when you have no home.

She sleeps in the streets.

She begins to panhandle and one day a man offers her a place to live in exchange for sex. It is getting cold out and she feels this is her only option.

Voila, it happens! No addiction, no severe mental health issues. Just a desperate young girl.

The same can happen to adult women with a few points mentioned above being tweaked. I will write an example for this below.
Sounds horribly exploitative, but I am just explaining what the law is.You have to be over 18 then it is legal if
negotiated in private
 
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KittyCaterina

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Sounds horribly expoitative, but I am just explaining what the law is.You have to be over 18 then it is legal if
negotiated in private
You are incorrect.

The purchasing of sex is illegal in all circumstances.

I am not saying I agree with this, I just think you should be aware of the legalities.
 
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Mandala

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You are incorrect.

The purchasing of sex is illegal in all circumstances.

I am not saying I agree with this, I just think you should be aware of the legalities.
I thankyou for your consideration as I am not an expert , but I am stating what I have read
from what I consider reliable sources

Anyone else care to chime in ?
 

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I saw the episode in the 1970's.

If you want to troll me, squeezer, you must not have read all of this thread:

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/gays-who-voted-for-trump-oh-well.880987/

which you started on Sunday.

Ask yourself this question:

Did the CBC Marketplace doc give you any information which you didn't already know?
I wasn't trolling you. Your reference to Mary Tyler Moore made me chuckle, and it seemed you dated yourself by using it. As for the topic of this thread, I believe if two consenting adults agree to a mutually satisfying agreement, it's no one's business, although I would never do it myself because, in most cases, it will end badly.
 

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I wasn't trolling you. Your reference to Mary Tyler Moore made me chuckle, and it seemed you dated yourself by using it. As for the topic of this thread, I believe if two consenting adults agree to a mutually satisfying agreement, it's no one's business, although I would never do it myself because, in most cases, it will end badly.
You have more common sense than dirty dave. I'll be 64 on Saturday, so that dates me precisely.
 

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I thankyou for your consideration as I am not an expert , but I am stating what I have read
from what I consider reliable sources

Anyone else care to chime in ?
My two cents...

Buying sex is illegal. Selling it is not. Sound confusing? It is.
 
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onomatopoeia

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My two cents...

Buying sex is illegal. Selling it is not. Sound confusing? It is.
It's a 'bone' to help maintain government support from a few key demographics.

a) Some women will never suck dick, or only under specific or sporadic circumstances.

Good Luck, Mr Gorsky.

b) Some women will suck dick if sufficiently compensated for the act with money, jewelry, a vacation, a Louis Vuitton handbag, or traditionally, a lobster dinner on the second date.

Men who want to 'cut to the chase' are often willing to trade cash for a BJ. This is threatening to the female voters of the a) group, because many of them believe that when they own a man, they should have full control over if and when their man receives a BJ.

Many gay men will suck dick without remuneration, either because they like the taste, or they had nothing better to do at the time. Most of the a) group will give tacit approval for this arrangement, because her man is not cheating on her with another woman.
 
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