Your SO's sex drive
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its a relative thing that needs to be quantified.. if she wants it more than you, it's high, if less.. then it's low.. How often does your SO want to do the wild thing would have been a better pole.
I had an x SO who thought one a month whether I needed it or not was fine... and she wonders why she didn't last long.. LOL Twice a day disintegrated into twice a week into every three to six weeks.. I never had the heart to tell her that she couldn't fuck her way out of a wet paper bag and that her idea of a sex life was grounds for her to have to go..
I had an x SO who thought one a month whether I needed it or not was fine... and she wonders why she didn't last long.. LOL Twice a day disintegrated into twice a week into every three to six weeks.. I never had the heart to tell her that she couldn't fuck her way out of a wet paper bag and that her idea of a sex life was grounds for her to have to go..
2x's a week seems to keep her from gettin' too crazy, though I think she masturbates like clockwork each time twice daily.
My ex SO wanted it all the time at all hours of the night. She'd call me at 3am in the morning for a pounding, and it was cool during our first week of going out, but six months into our realtionship, I kept telling her not tonight hun, I have a headache. Then every Friday night we'd have these weekend fuckfests where I'd come over to her place friday night, and fuck her until early monday morning when we'd go to work. We'd stay in bed all weekend long only getting up to do the basic necessities and shower. She'd cook and incredible meal friday night which we would eat throughout the weekend to keep our energy up for the fucking that was to take place.
She wanted it WAY more than I did, and I have a very high sex drive. Most of the girls I have gone out with want to fuck all day long. They never seem to burn out. But then the emotional stuff starts to happen, and they cry. I learned that there are many women out their who are very sexually unsatisfied, and I feel for them. Some girls have told me they haven't had an orgasm in months, some in years. And then they met me, had one, and cried because of the time they went unsatisfied. One girl I knew (we didn't have sex), was in a relationship for close to ten years with her live in boyfriend, and told me she never had an orgasm before. I couldn't believe it, but she was sincere.
I think the best part about making a woman come is to see that expression of pure joy, satisfaction, fulfillment, and pleasure on her face, after a good hard deep sweaty fucking, or after I have eaten them out for a good 30 minutes, teasing them, and having full control of bringing them to a climax, and then cuddling afterwards, in that moment of ecstasy and afterglow. That's the difference between seeing your SO and a SP. I'm sure I rarely make the SP's I see come, but sometime it happens and is fun. Having sex with a SO in the context of a loving relationship goes to places and boundaries of sexual pleasure that sometimes I didn't even know about. Trust, intimacy, and love have a huge impact on lovemaking and sex.
She wanted it WAY more than I did, and I have a very high sex drive. Most of the girls I have gone out with want to fuck all day long. They never seem to burn out. But then the emotional stuff starts to happen, and they cry. I learned that there are many women out their who are very sexually unsatisfied, and I feel for them. Some girls have told me they haven't had an orgasm in months, some in years. And then they met me, had one, and cried because of the time they went unsatisfied. One girl I knew (we didn't have sex), was in a relationship for close to ten years with her live in boyfriend, and told me she never had an orgasm before. I couldn't believe it, but she was sincere.
I think the best part about making a woman come is to see that expression of pure joy, satisfaction, fulfillment, and pleasure on her face, after a good hard deep sweaty fucking, or after I have eaten them out for a good 30 minutes, teasing them, and having full control of bringing them to a climax, and then cuddling afterwards, in that moment of ecstasy and afterglow. That's the difference between seeing your SO and a SP. I'm sure I rarely make the SP's I see come, but sometime it happens and is fun. Having sex with a SO in the context of a loving relationship goes to places and boundaries of sexual pleasure that sometimes I didn't even know about. Trust, intimacy, and love have a huge impact on lovemaking and sex.
I guess I need to quantify things a bit, as suggested above. Let's say none is up to 2 times a year(yeah I know none means not ever, but humor me), low is 3-24 times a year, medium is 24-104 times a year, high is 105 times a year to most every day, and extreme is 2 or 3 times most every day. For those of you that have voted and now feel you voted incorrectly; I'm sorry, but this is a work in progress.
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The woman I am currently seeing - I can't fuck her enough. In 2 years, she has never said no. (Wait, there was this one time she was genuinely sick - I didn't ask.)
My 25 year old self could have kept up with her. My 45 year old self - barely.
My hobbying is down to practically 0 due to a pertual state of sexual exhaustion.
She truly loves cock. She'll be the first to tell you that she's fascinated by cock, loves the look and feel, and she's given the idea of how to please a man allot of thought. I attribute this to the fact that she has no brothers, only a sister and as such is more in a state of awe with respect to men than a woman who grew up with brothers. Plus her natural drive (don't get me wrong.)
But even given the above, I voted high and not extreme. I've met extreme. She's not extreme.
My 25 year old self could have kept up with her. My 45 year old self - barely.
My hobbying is down to practically 0 due to a pertual state of sexual exhaustion.
She truly loves cock. She'll be the first to tell you that she's fascinated by cock, loves the look and feel, and she's given the idea of how to please a man allot of thought. I attribute this to the fact that she has no brothers, only a sister and as such is more in a state of awe with respect to men than a woman who grew up with brothers. Plus her natural drive (don't get me wrong.)
But even given the above, I voted high and not extreme. I've met extreme. She's not extreme.
I'd say between medium and high. She doesn't look for it every day, but I am pretty confident she'd be good with every other day. And she has in the past bitched about it only being once on the days we do fuck, but I think since she decided she actually likes / loves me versus just seeing me as the guy she is fucking she has gotten past that. Still, I'm hoping this doesn't all become a problem, because there is no denying she wants it more than I am giving it. Sigh...
I dunno how old your SO is, but man...there is something about 40-something women. They wanna fuck. I wouldn't describe any of the women I've been with in recent years as "nymphos", and I'd only describe a couple as "kinky", but they all liked to fuck. Often.
The redhead I was seeing there for awhile (the woman who was actually my GF, versus everyone else)...the sex was quite passionate, and even pretty vigorous (not quite "rough", but..) but pretty vanilla. Pretty much 40 something white soccer mom liberated from prickish ex husband stuff.
But man, while it wasn't porn movie material, there was NO denying that it was often. That woman did NOT want to see me without fucking me. There couldn't have been more than a half dozen times we spent a day together without fucking (in 18 months of dating and seeing each otehr 3 to 4 times a week)...and if it got to be towards the end of the day / our time together, she'd ask "so I am gonna get fucked today or what?" Consider I actually had a ton of affection for her, and that the sex was really good in a IRL kinda way...that was fun.
I miss her...she was smart as hell too....
I haven't been turned down for sex in the three plus years years since ex #2 and I split.
I dunno how old your SO is, but man...there is something about 40-something women. They wanna fuck. I wouldn't describe any of the women I've been with in recent years as "nymphos", and I'd only describe a couple as "kinky", but they all liked to fuck. Often.
The redhead I was seeing there for awhile (the woman who was actually my GF, versus everyone else)...the sex was quite passionate, and even pretty vigorous (not quite "rough", but..) but pretty vanilla. Pretty much 40 something white soccer mom liberated from prickish ex husband stuff.
But man, while it wasn't porn movie material, there was NO denying that it was often. That woman did NOT want to see me without fucking me. There couldn't have been more than a half dozen times we spent a day together without fucking (in 18 months of dating and seeing each otehr 3 to 4 times a week)...and if it got to be towards the end of the day / our time together, she'd ask "so I am gonna get fucked today or what?" Consider I actually had a ton of affection for her, and that the sex was really good in a IRL kinda way...that was fun.
I miss her...she was smart as hell too....
