Younger Inexperienced Guys Disliked?

[Dylan Dog]

I hope this is the right place to be posting this. I have a question pertaining to younger inexperienced (possibly virgin) guys using escort services.

I am a prospective escort service client, who is younger (early-mid 20s) and doesn't have a lot of sexual experience and would like to know if this kind of client is disliked? I have read that they are, and that most SPs like older more experienced men. It does make sense, since more experience is kind of intrinsically better and I'm sure girls (in general not just SPs) don't want to have to teach a guy things. But, if a girl does get one of these clients, does her displeasure show? Are there other guys in their 20s, or older guys who started seeing escorts in there 20s that can shine a light on this? Also, do you think it is wise for a younger, lonely individual to go to an escort service? I suffer from Bipolar II disorder and it has negatively impacted my sex life (actually rendering it pretty non-existent) and was recommended (off the record of course and not professionally since it is an illegal practice) by my therapist to see a sex worker.

 

[shack]

And some will say they like younger guys who are more handsome and in better shape.

My opinion is that most of the ladies are open minded and if you are clean and a gentleman they will show you a good time.

 

[Keebler Elf]

Younger guys tend to be more aggressive, demanding, rough, cheap, and inconsiderate. A lot of that has to do with lack of experience and immaturity. If you show them respect, they'll get over your age pretty quickly.

 

[walk]

My impression based on what providers have said about preferring older clients: it's not an experience thing so much as it is a maturity and respect issue. As a very broad generalization, some providers find that younger clients have an attitude that they are entitled to more since they are younger and better-looking. That, if anything, is actually a turn-off.

With that in mind, if you are a clean and respectful client who shows up with the right amount of cash, I don't think you'll run into any problems due to just being younger and/or more inexperienced. Good luck and have fun!

 

[Zombie]

I'm 27 and just started seeing SPs a couple months ago (graduated from MPs). The only issue I've had with my age is that I apparently look much younger, so sometimes SPs are concerned that I'm very young. Other than that it's never been a problem. I'm very respectful of the ladies I see and they at least seem like they have a good time.

I wouldn't worry about it. Have fun.

 

[Twinklegirl]

From the SP perspective, I'm in the "mature" catagory as I am in my 40's, and I do see some younger, inexperienced clients. I think it's fine as long as you are respectful, don't haggle the price, and just be open to having fun. I find many of the "new" clients are worried, afraid or nervous, and it affects their thang. I don't rush, put the client at ease, and soon things are going great.

Don't fret about it. have fun and enjoy.

 

[Blue-Spheroid]

There can be a tendency amongst younger guys to want to go for three or four SOG in an hour and they don't really want any break in the high-energy activities. While this is not true of all young guys, it's more true of the younger than the older crowd. Some SPs may want to avoid younger clients for this reason.

More than likely, if you demonstrate that you are not merely a jackhammer, you'll get along fine with most providers.

You will find, however, that some providers simply have a minimum age requirement. In these cases, just respect them and spend your money elsewhere.

 

[C Dick]

As with everything else with women, there is no one answer, each is different. Many friend who is an SP is wary of young guys, but has a good time if they are nice. My suggestion is to be open about it right from the start, when you contact them, warn them that you are young and inexperienced, and ask how they feel about it. The ones that are into it will respond positively, making it most likely that you will have a good experience.

 

[koreanenvy]

If you are a mature person and shows respect for the SP, and you have the money, then you will be ok. Just be yourself.

 

[LateComer]

I suffer from Bipolar II disorder and it has negatively impacted my sex life (actually rendering it pretty non-existent) and was recommended (off the record of course and not professionally since it is an illegal practice) by my therapist to see a sex worker.

Just so you know, prostitution is NOT illegal in Canada. Many activities associated with prostitution are illegal though such as pimping and being a found-in at a bawdy house.

 

[Rockslinger]

Just so you know, prostitution is NOT illegal in Canada.

I think he meant that it is illegal for a therapist to recommend that he considering seeing an SP.

 

[freestuff]

Just don't fall in love with the SPs (and stalk them) or ask them to take your virginity and you'll be fine.

 

[Rockslinger]

Just don't fall in love with the SPs (and stalk them)

Treat them the same way you treat your therapist. Just a professional doing her job for a fee. I think the Professional Conduct Rules of the Society of SPs do not allow SPs to fall in love with their clients (similar to doctors, lawyers, teachers, etc.)

 

[oldjones]

It's thae same as with kids in restaurants; some welcome them and go all out, some pretend you're not there waiting at the door to be seated. Most try to do at least a respectably professional job of serving—at least as long as the kids behave—in the hopes it'll lead to more business. But the first time(s)/times with kids won't be like others.

Can't be avoided. Best be honest and enquire if you're that worried.

 

[Dylan Dog]

Thanks for the help, advice and insight.

 

[sleazure]

If you are a mature person and shows respect for the SP, and you have the money, then you will be ok. Just be yourself.

Agreed, nothing to worry about, as long as you've got the cash. IMO, you ought to watch the reviews and pick someone with a reputation for consistent class and professionalism. Attitude and service will be more important than finding the hottest PSE.

 

[night ride]

To think that there is some sort of learning curve that needs to be overcome by seeing an escort is wrong. It ain't that complicated.

 

[CapitalGuy]

My perspective, based solely on a few conversations with various SPs during post-coital cuddle time: more "legitimate", full-time SPs such as busy agency girls, mature providers, or indies paying for grad school who know what they are doing, prefer an older guy who is respectful and who comes fast. Its easier on their bodies.

Younger SPs such as (legal) teenagers, craigslist commandos, etc who are new to the biz and are doing this for drug money or shopping money or because their cousin did it last summer, still have unrealistic expectations about prostitution and are more likely to enjoy the company of a younger, fitter, more attractive customer. Their view is that they are fucking the same type of guy they would hook up with at a club or at school, and are getting paid for it! OMG so kewl!! Lol and all that.

Hundreds of exceptions in each camp, I'm sure.