you have a threesome with your wife then she becomes a lezbo !!

[Alexis696969]

He was married for 17 years ,during the marriage there were turmoils of ups

and downs like any marriage .I met this gentleman years ago when i started

escorting ,he would take me to diner and disscuss his marriage issues and

after lots of visits i realized he wasnt here for the many reasons men are

here .He wanted his wife to participate in the escort situation ,however she

said with anyone but an escort .So he asked if I would lie and say im not an

escort and spend the night ,he didnt know how his wife would take the


financial situation of the missing money the day after since she was in

charge of the payroll .It was hard enough for him to pay me for hour visits


with an explanation and he felt so desperate to keep that fantasy going of

his wife with another woman .Well ,I suggessted that he may want to see if

he could find someone not in the business for the night since he couldnt

financially explain it .He knew there was a friend of a friend who hung out at

one of the local hang outs that was an out of the cloest proud bi-sexual

lady . He befriended her and one night while too much to drink came straight

out and said would you join my wife and i tonight .She agreed and went

back to his place .He brought a bottle of wine home and introduced her to

the wife and the wife knew from the get go that tonight was the night they

would try there first threesome .well next day i heard how much of a blast it

was and that hes sooo happy that they can explore now .one week later he

came home early and found his wife in bed with this local neighbour and said

hey what about me .?wtf ?She told him sorry its over we are in love .OMG he calls

me up saying he ruined his marriage and wished he wouldve had an escort

so this relationship never continued between them two .Anyways ...this was

over a year ago and he just informed me that his exwife is now a 100%lezbo

and that was very first time trying it .He said it was the biggest mistake he

ever made and he wishes he lost his wife to a man not a woman .All i can do

is encourage him its not his fault that she must have always had it inside of

her .They are now completely separated permanately.

He feels since he pushed the issue on her so much ,its all his fault .....he is not taking this well at all .......... What do you think ? was he wrong for persuading her ?

 

[xarir]

I knew someone, an SP actually though that part only came later on, who left her hubby to move in with a lady and became the other half of a lesbian relationship. She once commented to me that she knew in the end that she really hurt her ex hubby in that she left him for a woman and not another man. On this point I think there was true regret. I think in the end, she just wanted to leave him and not to hurt him.

In any case, your client / friend had IMHO already weakened his inherently shakey relationship by seeking the companionship of an SP. Far be it for me to criticized married folks who spend time with SPs, but the reality is that most people see SPs covertly. This means that their relationship with their spouse is not true and not open. From this perspective then he can't be overly surprised that his marriage came to an end.

His wife was obviously bi-curious to begin with but for whatever reason never explored that aspect of her sexuality earlier on. (Or so we think anyway ...) I'd go as far as to wager that she probably always felt "wrong" or at least "not right" in a traditional relationship. Once she discovered women, she probably realized that she was gay and that was it.

So on the whole I'd say the relationship was weak from the start on both ends. She was not true to herself (nor to him) and he was not true to her (to the relationship). Accordingly I personally don't feel anyone is at fault here other than the two of them for not being true to each other in the first place.

 

[canbreathethroughearsmale]

I would think whether he did it the way he did, or hired an SP, she still would have found how much she loves women and still would have done the same thing one way or another.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

The ultimate in male rejection... turning a woman into a lesbian. Ouch.

 

[Hard Idle]

Nonsense! You don't "turn" anyone into a lesbian or gay or anything else against their nature.

It had to be there all along - maybe unacknowlegded, maybe unexplored, but it was there.

I hate pickles. You could force me to eat a pickle at gunpoint. Starvation could get me to consider a pickle as a means of survival. I might eat a pickle if you offered me $300 to do it. But I'd still hate pickles and would never ever WANT to eat one.

Two likely possibilities: Either living with this guy all that time (and maybe some other experiences) got her so negative on men that her sexuality needed another outlet (the Starvation scenario), and that plus her husbands fantasy gave her permission to try something that she was disposed to enjoying.

Or, she had been living a lie the whole time, as many married men do for years and decades before acknowledging their sexuality.

It's not unusual for people to live their whole life slaving to the expectations and conventions they were raised up with - how else do you explain people continuing to go to church after they had outgrown believing in Santa Claus, Tooth Fairies and the like?

Tons of women have great, hot sexual experiences outside their relationship but go back home to business as usual. The fact that she's gone silly over this woman after on night in bed and thinks she's in love and ready to change her life is so IMMATURE, it must mean that this was really a sexual revelation to her, perhaps the FIRST time that is true to her own sexuality.