i was with a lovely young lady earlier this week, and partway through our almost 3 hour play date she uttered the above words. For me, these words were the erotic high point of our session.
I am not particularly into BDSM although I have from time to time pushed my comfort zone either by being bound by a woman (on one memorable occasion by 2 women) or in turn having the woman restrained. I have learned that I am really neither dominant nor submissive but enjoy aspects of each state. But what really turns my crank is the interplay when I am with a truly gifted woman between our more aggressive as well as submissive instincts and the nuances that one picks up in an intimate experience.
What made my play date this week so enjoyable was that initially the young woman was quite aggressive. She dictated the tempo at which the afternoon unfolded and made it quite clear when she had enough of our introductory conversation covering politics, spirituality, sensuality etc and wanted to move on to the more physical part of the afternoon. Of course I had also brought certain edible delicacies which I explained we could only enjoy after "we had earned them" so maybe this was part of her motivation. In any event, I was happy to follow her lead. Again she was quite aggressive pointing out to me the activities and positions that get her most aroused. I thoroughly enjoyed this. Over my years of hobbying I have come to understand and appreciate how unique each woman is. And particularly when it comes to sexuality and arousal, it truly is a journey of discovery I am happy to undertake each time. And when you have reached the point in a session when the woman turns to you and says "you can do anything you want to me" - well as I said above, I felt like I had scaled Everest.
Of course,being a gentleman decorum prevents me from setting out in this post what I actually "did" to her. Suffice it to say, I was smiling the rest of the day and even now - 3 days later - a smile steals across my face when I recall that lovely afternoon.
I love this hobby.
I am not particularly into BDSM although I have from time to time pushed my comfort zone either by being bound by a woman (on one memorable occasion by 2 women) or in turn having the woman restrained. I have learned that I am really neither dominant nor submissive but enjoy aspects of each state. But what really turns my crank is the interplay when I am with a truly gifted woman between our more aggressive as well as submissive instincts and the nuances that one picks up in an intimate experience.
What made my play date this week so enjoyable was that initially the young woman was quite aggressive. She dictated the tempo at which the afternoon unfolded and made it quite clear when she had enough of our introductory conversation covering politics, spirituality, sensuality etc and wanted to move on to the more physical part of the afternoon. Of course I had also brought certain edible delicacies which I explained we could only enjoy after "we had earned them" so maybe this was part of her motivation. In any event, I was happy to follow her lead. Again she was quite aggressive pointing out to me the activities and positions that get her most aroused. I thoroughly enjoyed this. Over my years of hobbying I have come to understand and appreciate how unique each woman is. And particularly when it comes to sexuality and arousal, it truly is a journey of discovery I am happy to undertake each time. And when you have reached the point in a session when the woman turns to you and says "you can do anything you want to me" - well as I said above, I felt like I had scaled Everest.
Of course,being a gentleman decorum prevents me from setting out in this post what I actually "did" to her. Suffice it to say, I was smiling the rest of the day and even now - 3 days later - a smile steals across my face when I recall that lovely afternoon.
I love this hobby.
