Ymmv

[whateveruwant]

Behind every great and average review is much more than the beauty and services of an SP. What makes a guy return? For me it is that sense, right from the moment you walk through the door, that you feel like she is "in" to you. And, especially as I age, it is this factor above all others that makes me walk away from a session satisfied not just that I came, but that I really had a great time.

Now obviously, she is not "really" into me. I know this. And she is not into you. You know this. She is not looking for a new boyfriend. She is providing a service. She may enjoy our company. She may enjoy fucking. She may even like us and like the way we pleasure her--and I think it is there that we experience YMMV.

I can think of few more challenging jobs than being an SP. These amazing women don't necessarily choose their clients, especially when they meet someone for the first time or have an agency booking them. They can influence who returns, but there is always that risk--a guy may just not work for them, he may even be violent or rip them off. Yet despite first impressions and previous bad experiences, they must perform.

And, in performing, it is that capacity to make us feel like she is into us--from the first greeting and kiss to the end of the session--that is what makes a session memorable. And the wider a field with whom an SP can accomplish this, the more in demand she will be.

At least, that is what I think.

So here's to all the women who provide service to the terb world of hobbyists.

 

[IM469]

YMMV is only common sense when you think of you reaction between servicing Jessica Allba and Rosy O'Donnell.

When I was finishing up and talking to an MPA about the mouthwash I saw on the shelf, she told me about some of the disgusting clientele that walk through the doors. Some have never heard of mouthwash or deodorant.

 

[exnocomment]

They can influence who returns, but there is always that risk--a guy may just not work for them, he may even be violent or rip them off. Yet despite first impressions and previous bad experiences, they must perform.

This. It's remarkable isn't it? I'm pretty damn level-headed and take almost all things in stride .. but even I lose my temper sometimes and have bad days.

This is one of the reasons I like 1HR or longer sessions in general .. almost every time I see an SP .. I can't help but want to put in a significant amount of effort. Yes, I'm paying for her time .. and during this time I am to be the person she's going to be the closest and most intimate with, isn't it only natural to desire to reciprocate that? During that time she is the most beautiful, wonderful, special girl in the world. She is amazing and wonderful and I share in her joy and mourn her sorrows.

 

[Titalian]

Hmmm YMMV ? I've often thought about this acronym. I've been lucky enough to on the the higher end of it most of the time. But why?
I think it boils down to, how much easier, you make their job. I'm not that demanding and I also try to strike up a rapport when we first
meet, coupled with being funny and a bit of a goof it seems to disarm them. Normally I am not nervous with first encounters and when
when I am it doesn't show. Having been in sales all my life this comes naturally to me.
I believe this leads to some very positive encounters physically and physiologically.
There was one beautiful escort I had seen maybe 3 times and then I suddenly stopped for over a year,
because of other female distractions. When I re contacted her I used a nickname that I had given her way back.
Her response was, where the hell have you been, For sure, my place. Or something along those lines.
I'm still seeing her.

On the flip side the true and proven professionals are seeking these types relationships with
their clients, because it makes their work so much easier. After all they are human as well.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

Behind every great and average review is much more than the beauty and services of an SP. What makes a guy return? For me it is that sense, right from the moment you walk through the door, that you feel like she is "in" to you. And, especially as I age, it is this factor above all others that makes me walk away from a session satisfied not just that I came, but that I really had a great time.

Now obviously, she is not "really" into me. I know this. And she is not into you. You know this. She is not looking for a new boyfriend. She is providing a service. She may enjoy our company. She may enjoy fucking. She may even like us and like the way we pleasure her--and I think it is there that we experience YMMV.

I can think of few more challenging jobs than being an SP. These amazing women don't necessarily choose their clients, especially when they meet someone for the first time or have an agency booking them. They can influence who returns, but there is always that risk--a guy may just not work for them, he may even be violent or rip them off. Yet despite first impressions and previous bad experiences, they must perform.

And, in performing, it is that capacity to make us feel like she is into us--from the first greeting and kiss to the end of the session--that is what makes a session memorable. And the wider a field with whom an SP can accomplish this, the more in demand she will be.

At least, that is what I think.

So here's to all the women who provide service to the terb world of hobbyists.

Thank You whateveruwant for the insight and understanding of what we try to do for you gents each and every day!

 

[dirkd101]

I think YMMV is an acronym that some just don't understand. From your own personal hygiene to being too demanding. Guys who manscape and keep themselves clean and smelling nice usually have a better time. Guys who are demanding, because they read in a review that client X received a certain level of service, turn girls off and sour a rendezvous with their demands. I have never worried about what level of service others have received, because I do believe that if the chemistry is there and you conduct yourself accordingly, you will have a good time.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I think YMMV is an acronym that some just don't understand. From your own personal hygiene to being too demanding. Guys who manscape and keep themselves clean and smelling nice usually have a better time. Guys who are demanding, because they read in a review that client X received a certain level of service, turn girls off and sour a rendezvous with their demands. I have never worried about what level of service others have received, because I do believe that if the chemistry is there and you conduct yourself accordingly, you will have a good time.

Bingo!

Here's a guy that gets it. :thumb:

Personally, I've never worried about "mileage" and I've never really liked the terminology YMMV... makes the SP sound like a car one might test drive. Very impersonal.

Having said that, I realize this IS a review board, so I always resorted to YEMV. (Your Experience May Vary...)

 

[exnocomment]

So here's a facet of YMMV that is kind of "duh" that I haven't dealt with before on the receiving end.

So I'm in Europe and for those that know me I'm quite young looking (apparently), in my early 30's and Asian. Okay shape, working on getting better, broad shouldered. Clean cut, well dressed, not traditionally handsome (not tall, lack of cheekbones) but decent looking and I get compliments and I am extremely comfortable in my own skin.

I meet a lovely petite spinner lady here in Europe, she's tiny and natural, super soft and smooth and blonde and her real age is actually 30 but I swear other than slightly veiny hands, you wouldn't believe she was older than 24. Anyways, she was very friendly and commented about how young and handsome I looked, found out she had previously had an Asian boyfriend before she got married (divorced) - I thought it was interesting but didn't think too deeply on it..

And WOW! I don't think I have ever made anyone cum that many times over the course of an hour. The fact that I've been having a lot of sex and thus have lower sensitivity after the last 2 days and can go nonstop across multiple positions for nearly an hour probably helped, and yes I know orgasms can be faked but full-on natural lubricant at the faintest touch and kiss and caress usually can't .. And obviously how turned on I got from her reactions was a treat and made me work that much harder! It was interesting being on the other side cause clearly the common joke trope is men get overly excited and cum quickly.. Although it also makes me curious, as an "under desired" ethnicity/sex combo (other than my fitness, grooming, manners and looks) it's likely in many cases YMMV works against me!

Anyways, no condemnation or praise intended, just thought it was interesting, as especially as a client, I have and likely will never be told by an SP she doesn't prefer my race.. Well, other than through YMMV - of course! :wink:

PS: I did see "No Asian Guys" for the first time vs. our homegrown "No Black Guys")

 

[GPIDEAL]

I can only try to empathize with SPs. There must be tough clients and bad clients including scary moments, but hopefully those are far and few between.

I think besides hygiene being first and foremost, the most important characteristic to ensure a good or better experience, is attitude and politeness. Having charisma is icing on the cake.

There are gents who may be the least attractive to an SP, but have a good personality which makes the work of the SP easier, I would imagine. They may even enjoy that persons company too.

Lastly, the age of the SP is a factor. I find that seasoned SPs can deal with many types of clients better than the young ones, to ensure a better experience.

 

[Titalian]

I can only try to empathize with SPs. There must be tough clients and bad clients including scary moments, but hopefully those are far and few between.

I think besides hygiene being first and foremost, the most important characteristic to ensure a good or better experience, is attitude and politeness. Having charisma is icing on the cake.

There are gents who may be the least attractive to an SP, but have a good personality which makes the work of the SP easier, I would imagine. They may even enjoy that persons company too.

Lastly, the age of the SP is a factor. I find that seasoned SPs can deal with many types of clients better than the young ones, to ensure a better experience.

GB, you hit it on the head. I rarely have a bad time with providers Why, I not demanding.

 

[geeky]

The so called golden rule applies: "Treat others how you wish to be treated."

It really doesn't matter how you meet the girl - once you have her in the bedroom, if you aren't doing everything you can to make it the best experience she could possibly have, you are doing it wrong. Just my 2 cents.