I am going out on a limb here and I realize I might step on some toes. My question is: how weight should one give to a decidedly positive reco and attribute to its ymmv quotient? The reason I ask is lately I have seen glaringly opposing re reviews on the same SP, sometimes within a few days apart. Mr A gets 150% service with all the trimmings, while Mr B gets barebones service for the same damage amount...what really gives here? Is it time the industry come up with some minimum threshold standard of service?
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You have to take all reviews with a grain of salt. Research is your friend. If I only saw 2 reviews of a lady and 1 was very positive and 1 was very negative I would disregard both. Although there are always exceptions I think if you read enough about an SP you are interested in you will get a feel for what type of experience you will have. I'm not a young good looking stud and I've never been refused an advertised service. If you have good hygiene and you treat the lady right she will treat you right, it's really very simple.
I have to concur with MrJake. Mileage can vary greatly depending on connection. Take the time to talk, laugh, be comfortable. If she speaks a foreign language, ask to learn a few of the words...in return, give the English equivalent. Be gentle, smile and, above all...be clean and respectful. It is amazing how much mileage can be obtained from sugar alone.
I speak from experience, sugar doesn't always work though. A very respected reviewer on here recommended one of his favorites to me and I went to see her...it was one of the worst experiences ever for me. We did not click at all...and she claimed to do it all!! She did almost nothing, we just didn't like each other much.
It happens...no matter what anyone says, we are dealing with humans, emotions and ultimate intimacy. Some can fake it, others cannot.
I speak from experience, sugar doesn't always work though. A very respected reviewer on here recommended one of his favorites to me and I went to see her...it was one of the worst experiences ever for me. We did not click at all...and she claimed to do it all!! She did almost nothing, we just didn't like each other much.
It happens...no matter what anyone says, we are dealing with humans, emotions and ultimate intimacy. Some can fake it, others cannot.
I have found out over time that there are some reviewers that share my view/likes and others that don't. Not saying they are wrong its just that they value something different than I do.
In the end I will pay head to a bad review no matter who its from but take some reviewers recommendations with a grain of salt.
In the end I will pay head to a bad review no matter who its from but take some reviewers recommendations with a grain of salt.
I'm a big believer that another major factor in service has nothing to do with cleanliness at all. Nor does it have anything to do with money, it has to do with personality types. You get 2 Type A personalities on sometimes it's a battle of wills. A type C personality escort would be a better match on paper. Just something to keep in mind when both parties do everything right and it still doesn't click.
As someone who has spent a decade or two slinging drinks etc., there are customers that simply will not acknowledge that may be part of the problem. Yeah , sometimes there is no click. Other times clients may be a little pushy or demanding. And sometimes people offering a service have an off night. Find someone you like and stick with 'em I'd say.
You really have to consider what type of a client you are as well, know if you are the type that is looking for a transaction or a personal service. That may sound odd but that is where the "YMMV" factor comes in. If you think of a date as a physical transaction, something where you just want to get in and get out, a 'wham-bam' where it's just a series of acronyms then the YMMV factor isn't going to be nearly as much of an issue as you think. If on the other hand you are looking for more of a personal connection, something that has that certain je ne sais quoi then YMMV will be a major determining factor in your date.
As an example, if you have an idea that you would like to see a lady for 30min, you are concerned that on her 'menu' she lists CBJ/BBBJ but her reviews all state that she has given clients BBBJ. Let's assume your biggest concern is that you don't want to get there and be the guy that gets the CBJ. You are not interested in talking to her beyond the standard hellos, it's 30min, you don't really have a lot of chit-chat time. It's about a sexual service, nothing more and nothing less for you. You go in, say hello and ask her about her day, wash up and make a point of showing her you wash up and are polite, clean and pay up front to be sure she knows she doesn't have to worry about any debates with you in regards to being paid. You very likely are going to be like the other guys that have reviewed her and are going to receive what you define as YMMV, you will (likely) receive a BBBJ. It is often as simple as being clean, polite and respectful.
Now lets assume that you are the type of client that likes something that is more personal and values the connection over a list of acronyms. That type of YMMV is much harder to determine but at the same time it's something that when a potential date finds it they tend to revel in it. It's not about the acronyms involved but rather about the friendship, companionship or sexual chemistry, basically what's going on in the brain to make them feel good. The YMMV in that case isn't that you may or may not receive the same sexual services but rather that you may not have the same chemistry, what goes on between the individuals may or may not be sexual acrobatics but like all good sex it's what happens in the mind that made it exceptional.
It's not as easy to determine this type of chemistry in advance, the ladies try to screen for it, I can often tell in an email if a client is not suited for me based on his communication but sometimes I am unable to tell if there will be chemistry or not as there are always factors that are out of my control. There are always people that I have met where I wish I could have a "do-over", where I know given different circumstances things may have worked out better but for a particular reason the chemistry just wasn't what it should have (or could have) been. That isn't something I can control.
YMMV means different things to different people and it always comes down to not only how you behave but what your definitions and expectations are. In the end find the people that you relate to on the board and know not only what type of client you are but the type of companion that best suits the service you are seeking, it's not a one size fits all type of industry, there are different ladies that cater to all types of clients.
As an example, if you have an idea that you would like to see a lady for 30min, you are concerned that on her 'menu' she lists CBJ/BBBJ but her reviews all state that she has given clients BBBJ. Let's assume your biggest concern is that you don't want to get there and be the guy that gets the CBJ. You are not interested in talking to her beyond the standard hellos, it's 30min, you don't really have a lot of chit-chat time. It's about a sexual service, nothing more and nothing less for you. You go in, say hello and ask her about her day, wash up and make a point of showing her you wash up and are polite, clean and pay up front to be sure she knows she doesn't have to worry about any debates with you in regards to being paid. You very likely are going to be like the other guys that have reviewed her and are going to receive what you define as YMMV, you will (likely) receive a BBBJ. It is often as simple as being clean, polite and respectful.
Now lets assume that you are the type of client that likes something that is more personal and values the connection over a list of acronyms. That type of YMMV is much harder to determine but at the same time it's something that when a potential date finds it they tend to revel in it. It's not about the acronyms involved but rather about the friendship, companionship or sexual chemistry, basically what's going on in the brain to make them feel good. The YMMV in that case isn't that you may or may not receive the same sexual services but rather that you may not have the same chemistry, what goes on between the individuals may or may not be sexual acrobatics but like all good sex it's what happens in the mind that made it exceptional.
It's not as easy to determine this type of chemistry in advance, the ladies try to screen for it, I can often tell in an email if a client is not suited for me based on his communication but sometimes I am unable to tell if there will be chemistry or not as there are always factors that are out of my control. There are always people that I have met where I wish I could have a "do-over", where I know given different circumstances things may have worked out better but for a particular reason the chemistry just wasn't what it should have (or could have) been. That isn't something I can control.
YMMV means different things to different people and it always comes down to not only how you behave but what your definitions and expectations are. In the end find the people that you relate to on the board and know not only what type of client you are but the type of companion that best suits the service you are seeking, it's not a one size fits all type of industry, there are different ladies that cater to all types of clients.
I love your attitude and thoughts on this thread. Hopefully we get a chance to meet one day.
Always...........different strokes for different folks. Life in general, particularly dating is like that so why not the Escort-Client relationship?
I guess it does matter how you define ymmv. Personally I've never considered making a connection with an SP as a ymmv thing. It either happens or it doesn't, a personal connection is not a mileage thing imo.
Since most SP's define ymmv on their websites and advertisements around services that was my way of thinking about it.
Since most SP's define ymmv on their websites and advertisements around services that was my way of thinking about it.
This is so true. As Alona said.. "Sometimes the girls are just plainly inconsistent based on their moods and overall unpredictable demeanor"
We're all human beings so inconsistency happens. Ive done this long enough to develop a simple strategy that 9/10 times puts me on the high side of variable mileage.
1. Choose well. See well reviewed girls, that sound like they will appeal to you in every or at least most ways (looks, attitude, personality, service).
2. Be cool, gracious, friendly and respectful when you first meet. Get the business transaction part out of the way first. Show some interest in her, basically consider this an abvreviated first date. Make a little effort to impress. Ypu know you will get the goodies at the end of this date, but still take 5-10 minutes to make both parties comfy.
3. Arrive clean. Everywhere. And no matter how clean you already are, grab a quick shower if one is available, especially if one is offered. That way she knows you are fresh and clean.
4. Be flexible, and prepared to alter your "plan" for the session. If you planned on greek, but she says "sorry, not today hun" then forget about it and move on to the dozen or so other things that feel amazing.
5. When you find a great one, repeat. Sure variety is great, but there is nothing like a comfortable familiarity to make a meeting go from 0-60 in 3.2 seconds. If you are a good regulat she may also be more flexible with booking etc, to adapr to you and ypur schedule.
6. Avoid girls that work when drunk or high. This often leads to unreliable behaviour, poor service.
With these rules i rarely go wrong. Where i have had disappointing sessions it is when ive made a last minute appt, with an unreviewed girl advertising on bp, or similar. When i do this, i accept that the risk is higher. There is also the fact that some girls are emotionally labile and can be on their game one day, and completely cold the next. Welcome to women. In my experience this is far less common with sps than "civilian" girls.
1. Choose well. See well reviewed girls, that sound like they will appeal to you in every or at least most ways (looks, attitude, personality, service).
2. Be cool, gracious, friendly and respectful when you first meet. Get the business transaction part out of the way first. Show some interest in her, basically consider this an abvreviated first date. Make a little effort to impress. Ypu know you will get the goodies at the end of this date, but still take 5-10 minutes to make both parties comfy.
3. Arrive clean. Everywhere. And no matter how clean you already are, grab a quick shower if one is available, especially if one is offered. That way she knows you are fresh and clean.
4. Be flexible, and prepared to alter your "plan" for the session. If you planned on greek, but she says "sorry, not today hun" then forget about it and move on to the dozen or so other things that feel amazing.
5. When you find a great one, repeat. Sure variety is great, but there is nothing like a comfortable familiarity to make a meeting go from 0-60 in 3.2 seconds. If you are a good regulat she may also be more flexible with booking etc, to adapr to you and ypur schedule.
6. Avoid girls that work when drunk or high. This often leads to unreliable behaviour, poor service.
With these rules i rarely go wrong. Where i have had disappointing sessions it is when ive made a last minute appt, with an unreviewed girl advertising on bp, or similar. When i do this, i accept that the risk is higher. There is also the fact that some girls are emotionally labile and can be on their game one day, and completely cold the next. Welcome to women. In my experience this is far less common with sps than "civilian" girls.
One example that comes to mind for me, Client 1 wants his balls licked, he is clean and shaven, easy to make it a great experience. Client 2 makes the same request except there is a jungle to be hurdled through if the SP agrees the circumstance makes it less comfortable for her as a result Client 2 experience may not be as great
