Do you think your race, regardless of how out of shape you are, is involved in ymmv? or do you think its more of a package deal? ie clean cut - everywhere kinda deal..
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YMMV and race < yep i am going there
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Sometimes you just have IT...juat shake what you mama gave ya with confidence! The ladies will go all nuts over...
Wow.. this was moved within a minute of me posting it...orginally in the MP thread area... MODS you are quick... but honestly why move it? not about lines being crossed, just about whether race might play a role in ymmv... odd.
I personally feel it is very much at the descretion of the provider . But being a gentleman and treating one like a queen would definitely ease out you mileage.
I think the biggest impact on YMMW is hygiene. I've had a conversation with mpa about whats it like for her to see clients (yes the session was bad so I had to talk about something to kill time). And she did not say anything about race but did note how some construction guys come in with dirt under their finger nails and hands in general. Those guys are not gonna be allowed to do much with their hands.
I dont know if race has that same type of impact. I saw a lot of escort ads say NO black guys. But I dont know if that carries over to massage, I think the girls working in an MP have to see one of everything. So they probably get used to all the ethnicity's.
I dont know if race has that same type of impact. I saw a lot of escort ads say NO black guys. But I dont know if that carries over to massage, I think the girls working in an MP have to see one of everything. So they probably get used to all the ethnicity's.
All YMMV factors are a personal thing for each provider.
All the usual things are common - cleanliness, fresh breath, well groomed, treat them nice, etc. Most MPAs would openly admit to these things.
But not many people would openly admit that race plays a role in how it affects their YMMV limits. I've had a pretty open line of communication with a number of MPAs over the years and some have admitted this. It's a given.
The same way that clients may choose not to see providers of certain races. The big difference is, we have the choice who we see. Again, not many clients will openly admit they just don't like providers of a certain race just because of their race.
Even though we are probably all racist to a certain degree, no one is going to just flippantly admit to it.
All the usual things are common - cleanliness, fresh breath, well groomed, treat them nice, etc. Most MPAs would openly admit to these things.
But not many people would openly admit that race plays a role in how it affects their YMMV limits. I've had a pretty open line of communication with a number of MPAs over the years and some have admitted this. It's a given.
The same way that clients may choose not to see providers of certain races. The big difference is, we have the choice who we see. Again, not many clients will openly admit they just don't like providers of a certain race just because of their race.
Even though we are probably all racist to a certain degree, no one is going to just flippantly admit to it.
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That. For myself (and many ladies I know) it's all about attitude and hygiene and has nothing to do with race or ethnicity.
It wasn't until recently that SP's started posting in their ads that they don't see Black clients. I myself happen to be half Black and I get extremely good mileage (Doesn't hurt that I am hung like a horse, am muscular and good looking) and I hobby harder than most people on this site. Oh and in my 20 years of hobbying, I have met a lot of SP's, MPA's and Dancers that dated or are dating Black dudes!!
Race might be an issue from a booking perspective, as some providers do have racial bias in their screening processes. However, once you get your foot in the door, it comes down to what you're like as a human being, as noted by Titalian et al.
This is true to a certain extent. I've had several providers tell me their least favourite clients are Persians and East Indians because "they tend to smell and are aggressive". This may very well be the case in general, but I feel sympathy for the clean, well-mannered fellas of such descent!
