WTF were you thinking........

[JEFF247]

when you decided to get married. I never married (or had kids) and have a blast. Some of the people I admire the most, my parents, sisters and best friend are divorced. These are successful, hard working and bright people. All my other married friends just roll their eyes when they think about their marriage. Most would divorce if it wasn't so costly. It's a sexless coexistence.

So are you glad you married? Would you do it again? If I meet someone now, the most I'll consider is cohabitation!!!

 

[tboy]

oh man, divorce. One of my greatest regrets in life was never getting married but one of my greatest achievements was never getting married lol.......

 

[dj1470]

Married? I regret it. Married at 22. Divorced at 29.
BUT..........
My daughters? No regrets in the world.
The biggest mistake of my life led to two of the greatest joys in my life.
Go figure.

 

[ROGER O. THORNHILL]

Not necessary

If you want to have children, you don't need to get married to do that. All of my friends, except for one couple, are all divorced in the last 12 years. All of them are surly, regretful and distrust any potential relationship. The women don't care about the divorce as much as obtaining $ that they never made any effort to earn. They just want their bills paid, married or not.

I never have and I never will. I'll die first. I will consider living with someone but that's as far as that goes. I will not do it for convenience, boredom or expectation. I will only do it for genuine affection (I hear its called Love).

When someone truly loves you, truly, wild horses won't separate you. Therefore marriage is not mandatory or necessary

 

[RonaldMcFondled]

i would marry, i'm carefully looking though, not going at by emotion like many i know have, then next u know they find themselves hobbying and introduce it to a single guy like myself...

 

[Angela@Mirage]

when you decided to get married. I never married (or had kids) and have a blast. Some of the people I admire the most, my parents, sisters and best friend are divorced. These are successful, hard working and bright people. All my other married friends just roll their eyes when they think about their marriage. Most would divorce if it wasn't so costly. It's a sexless coexistence.

So are you glad you married? Would you do it again? If I meet someone now, the most I'll consider is cohabitation!!!

Never again. It is too boring. I like my freedom too much.

 

[DshRipRock]

Best thing I ever did. Married 21 years this April. We have two kids, dog, house in burbs.

 

[hunter001]

My daughters? No regrets in the world.
The biggest mistake of my life led to two of the greatest joys in my life.
Go figure.

For sure. Worth all the other headaches/heartaches...

 

[RonaldMcFondled]

Never again. It is too boring. I like my freedom too much.

i'll agree w/ u on the freedom there angela

 

[tboy]

Best thing I ever did. Married 21 years this April. We have two kids, dog, house in burbs.

I didn't search but I have to assume that you see escorts seeing as how you're on an escort review board.....

Does your wife know about you coming here?

 

[canbreathethroughearsmale]

I have never married, I always thought I would at a younger age, but now I'm glad I didn't, but, I did have 2 beautiful kids with one girl, never married. My one wish in life was to be a dad and got that wish twice, we both know the kids are important to both of and never use them against each other.

As mentioned, I get to have fun in my life and have ultimate freedom, when the kids are here, I'm here for them first though, and I wouldn't give that up for anything in the world.

 

[Meister]

Most would divorce if it wasn't so costly.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.


If it was just the money I would do it in a heartbeat. Once you had money it's not that important to you anymore.

It's because of the kids you don't do it.

 

[onthebottom]

Wives are like boats, you're only really happy on the day you get them and the day you get rid of them.... but kids are AWSOME....

OTB

 

[james t kirk]

Never been married.

Lived with a couple of them for a long time, and one of those cost me quite a bit of dough, however, it would have been worse if we were married.

I have no problem with marriage persay, the problem I have is the legal repercussions. I own my own home, (Well, me and RBC more accurately). If I was to get married, she would automatically own half without ever contributing a dime.

That's bullshit.

As such, I have no intention of ever getting married. I've BUSTED MY ASS too long and too hard to start over now.

As far as I am concerned the laws in this province need to be changed to reflect the times so that you exit a relationship with what you came into it with, including the so called "matrimonial home".

I'd even go one step further that you keep what YOU paid for while you were married.

 

[DshRipRock]

I didn't search but I have to assume that you see escorts seeing as how you're on an escort review board.....

Does your wife know about you coming here?

Typical T-Boy assuming again. When did I ever say I saw an escort? God your a stupid man. My wife could care less about a web site. She often looks over my shoulder a see's TERB on the screen.

Not all women are ballbuster guys.

 

[JEFF247]

The anger is unbelievable....

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.


If it was just the money I would do it in a heartbeat. Once you had money it's not that important to you anymore.

It's because of the kids you don't do it.

My parents waited til all us kids were off to college and then split. That was good. Never argued in from of us. Went on vacations. It was OK. But most aren't like that. Kids are great, but are they so thankful? Having half a family and all that hardship? It seems as though people have kids for their own fulfillment, but then the kids are given the short end of the stick. I hear that all the time. Kids are great BUT... I don't think it's fair to them.

I digress. Anyhow, I just see so many unhappy people married that were otherwise very happy single.

 

[GOLEAFSGO67]

One Correction

as to getting married and worrying about money.

You OWN all you have going into the marriage. A wife does not 'automatically' get half the moment you get married.

And if that is the original thought your best not to get married. Love and marriage is about sharing!

For those with a bundle already stashed....You get to leave a marriage with what you came into it with.

And if your thinking legalities....get a pre-nup!!

 

[dj1470]

You OWN all you have going into the marriage. A wife does not 'automatically' get half the moment you get married.

Says the guy whose never met a blood sucking divorce lawyer before?

 

[Radio_Shack]

when you decided to get married. I never married (or had kids) and have a blast. Some of the people I admire the most, my parents, sisters and best friend are divorced. These are successful, hard working and bright people. All my other married friends just roll their eyes when they think about their marriage. Most would divorce if it wasn't so costly. It's a sexless coexistence.

So are you glad you married? Would you do it again? If I meet someone now, the most I'll consider is cohabitation!!!

If you are considering cohabitation then in the eyes of the law that is marriage so best you can consider is seeing someone that doesn't end up living with you.

I have been married for 12 years and there are a few negatives but there are a lot more positves for me. As far as I see it you have to go into marriage with realistic expectations. You don't get married so you have someone to fuck everyday. Marriage is a bond with your equal other and is more a friendship then a fuck buddy thing.

 

[Dewalt]

Getting divorced was one of the greatest accomplishments of my life! The marriage was short - thank friggen god. She took everything but it was worth it to get away from her. I do however regret that I probably won't have kids but I am learning to live with that.

I am way happier now and am dating women 12 yrs younger than the ex. The best part is running into her in the supermarket with my hotties on my arm.



ps: dj: don't get into an argument with that other guy - he is clearly delusional, after all just look at his ID name!