Douchbag is to good for you. Both of you should have your dicks cut off.Once a friend admitted to me that he once had sex with his gf and only pretended to put on the condom but he really went in bb!! Since they were in a 'committed' relationship I didn't think it was that bad, but it was really underhanded and deceitful. Now, I have to admit that I've done something somewhat similar. I have on occasion, 'forgot' to use a condom when I was with past gf's...often while drunk and ___. I know why I did it, but I always played it off as if I 'forgot' or something.
What do you all think? Are we both just douchbags?
sure mthere are similar comments in the thread, but idn't want to bother once I saw the original post.What do you all think? Are we both just douchbags?
Once a friend admitted to me that he once had sex with his gf and only pretended to put on the condom but he really went in bb!! Since they were in a 'committed' relationship I didn't think it was that bad, but it was really underhanded and deceitful. Now, I have to admit that I've done something somewhat similar. I have on occasion, 'forgot' to use a condom when I was with past gf's...often while drunk and ___. I know why I did it, but I always played it off as if I 'forgot' or something.
What do you all think? Are we both just douchbags?
You definitely pulling our legs, right.? If not add me to the douchebag crowd.Once a friend admitted to me that he once had sex with his gf and only pretended to put on the condom but he really went in bb!! Since they were in a 'committed' relationship I didn't think it was that bad, but it was really underhanded and deceitful. Now, I have to admit that I've done something somewhat similar. I have on occasion, 'forgot' to use a condom when I was with past gf's...often while drunk and ___. I know why I did it, but I always played it off as if I 'forgot' or something.
What do you all think? Are we both just douchbags?
Probably because she trusted him.1) That's a douchebag thing to do.
2) Why doesn't the girl put the condom on or at least watch that you're doing it? In past relationships I've never had my lovers put on a condom without me noticing and without me making some sort of check... *shrug* Maybe I'm just a condom control freak...lol. Ladies learned how to put on condoms in health class for a reason - it reduces risk if both partners know how to properly use the damn things. ^_^
3) Putting yourself and your gf at risk for a couple seconds/minutes of 'sensual delights' is totally irresponsible and stupid. Think with your big head, or at least purchase some better quality condoms so that you can enjoy RESPONSIBLE SAFE SEX!!
Could be a lot of reasons why one would want to use condoms even in a long term relationship,,,,,lack of trust being one of them, in this case obviously justified. Perhaps she has other partners he does not know about which would look good on his sneaky ass. Perhaps she has herpes or genital warts, again would look good on him. Regardless, if she wants to use them then that is her right I would think?You're in a full time relationship and you still use condoms?
Therein lies your problem.
I'd bag it for a casual fuck, but for anything on a steady basis condom usage goes to 0. Since 99 I've only had one woman kick up a fuss about using condoms all the time and that was the end of that frankly.
If I were you, I'd be honest with her and tell her you don't want to use condoms anymore.
Relationships should not be about rights. Healthy ones, at a certain point in their development, are about doing what's good for each other and for the relationship as a whole. I suspect that in this particular relationship, both parties put their own needs first. Certainly the guy did. An example of youthful stupidity that could have long-term consequences (?)Regardless, if she wants to use them then that is her right I would think?
Manditory condom use in a LTR and I'm out the door.Could be a lot of reasons why one would want to use condoms even in a long term relationship,,,,,lack of trust being one of them, in this case obviously justified. Perhaps she has other partners he does not know about which would look good on his sneaky ass. Perhaps she has herpes or genital warts, again would look good on him. Regardless, if she wants to use them then that is her right I would think?
Ya!!!! Just ask Polanski. He's an expert.can no one read, all are sheep.
When it comes to drunk sex no one is innocent.