Would you visit an escort behind her back that turned you down romantically?

[VirginJohn]

She turned you down. She said no.

So you are asking if you can circumvent that and play the pretend stranger game to meet her still???? You are trying to find a way around her “no”? That is what you are asking. If it ok to still secretly see a girl who has already told you no???

What part of the “NO” didn’t you understand? I’m just curious. Why is her “NO” not acceptable to you???

I can tell you that a true man and gentleman would have walked away when she said No the first and only time. Because that is what real men do.

You sound rather triggered. If that escort had the attitude that I'm seeing through the page, there is no chance I would have asked her out in the first place, or opened myself up emotionally to her. As far as I'm concerned, she has said "no" to whatever is represented on the profile on OnlyFans. She has no other information about me other than what I have chosen to give her and none of it is any personal details. It's more personal stories and some general details of story rather than personal details.

You are saying I should unsubscribe to her OF page? That's walking away.

If she continues talking with me then I'm not unsubscribing like that. It's in her interest to continue talking anyway to see what I'm up to. If I'm talking about my own life, and she's providing constructive feedback that leads to general happiness or maybe even finding love with a civvie, then I don't think that would lend itself to me visiting her, or if it did (God forbid), then a better place mentally than I am now.

 

[king priam]

No.

That’s good news because she won’t recognize it and you can be anonymous. Sort of a John Dick Doe.

On the other hand, your dick is probably too ordinary to satisfy a truly elite woman like her. So you lose out.

 

[DesRicardo]

I'm hoping she will continue to "emotionally" service me and present a challenge to cancelling the membership. I love being "emotionally" serviced. Doesn't anyone?

Also, this thread presents more of a scenario of doing that really than actually going ahead and doing this. The private communications with this escort doesn't seem to indicate that I'm planning to visit her immediately as this thread implies. If a visit is planned, it will likely be carried out in October.

I'm at a point of the year I'm trying to turn off the switch, cancel subscriptions and end porn/escort pics. However, why not make a thread before everything is eventually cancelled out. Maybe I might revisit this thread again in October, or at an otherwise later date where this might be revisited. I might look up the thread on search and re-read what I have wrote and others have wrote on here.

Have you ever had a Psychiatric assessment?

You seem to be a bit unaware or inward focused.

 

[whynot888]

Bro, you should seek help. Im not saying that just to say that, i sincerely mean it. Your living in a dream that is not real.

 

[explorerzip]

I do not need her permission to be on here or on OF. However, if I go too far, she will "know". I only go to work or occasionally to the Gym, anything else would be a cause of concern.

OF or this site is not the same thing as going on an actual date with someone by the way. One is no commitment, the other is a big commitment.

Do you get shocked if you stray too far from home? What is there for mom to "know" exactly? Or are you using her credit card to pay for OF?

You only leave the house to go to work or occasionally the gym? I suppose you don't leave your desk at work then. Who buys groceries, cooks, cleans and maintains the place and car? Or is that all mom's job? You don't go out to meet real friends, see movies, shopping, meals out, concerts, etc. Or just walk outside for some sunshine and fresh air?

I had no idea that OF isn't the same thing as going on a real date with a person What other mind-bending stuff have you learned through OF?

 

[explorerzip]

You are saying I should unsubscribe to her OF page? That's walking away.

Yes, you should unsubscribe from OF and any similar site. Go get outside to walk in the real world. You're mom actually might be proud of you.

 

[Jenesis]

You sound rather triggered. If that escort had the attitude that I'm seeing through the page, there is no chance I would have asked her out in the first place, or opened myself up emotionally to her. As far as I'm concerned, she has said "no" to whatever is represented on the profile on OnlyFans. She has no other information about me other than what I have chosen to give her and none of it is any personal details. It's more personal stories and some general details of story rather than personal details.

You are saying I should unsubscribe to her OF page? That's walking away.

If she continues talking with me then I'm not unsubscribing like that. It's in her interest to continue talking anyway to see what I'm up to. If I'm talking about my own life, and she's providing constructive feedback that leads to general happiness or maybe even finding love with a civvie, then I don't think that would lend itself to me visiting her, or if it did (God forbid), then a better place mentally than I am now.

So other men here can call you out? Call you names but when a woman says to respect another woman’s NO - you call her triggered???? Sure you are not a troll like everyone is saying you are?

Your first posts and even title suggest one thing and then the rest of posts say another. So what I was responding to, was what you originally implied. Which was

A) she already told YOU no she didn’t want you. (YOU, not some persona or whatever you want to call it to justify things. She told you - NO)
b) she escorts as well
C) she knows nothing identitying
D) you want to see her “behind her own back” in your words. Meaning you want to not listen to the no she already gave you and see her anyways.

That is what YOU said in YOUR first post.

Anyone with respect would tell you the same thing I did and would equally be disgusted that you are trying to get around the no she already gave you.

As for the rest of the thread, the rest that as come out and rest you just wrote me - I don’t know and I don’t fucking care. You make no sense.

All I know is - she told you no so leave her alone and seek professional help.

 

[Jubee]

Lets say if she doesn't have a picture of yourself (other than you c0ck pic, lets say this was sent a year ago, maybe she deleted that, lol!), so she doesn't know how you look like, doesn't know your voice-sound or have your phone number. You could potentially visit her without her knowing you are from scratch. Would you do this? Would it make the session different that you have some knowledge of her, or emotional connection with her built over time, potentally friendzoned, and then act like you are a total stranger and be careful to avoid any forms of expression that would make her say....."okay......are you so and so?"

I mean this has to be the ultimate fantasy. If a girl you like romantically declines you, you could still pay to visit her without her knowing that it was you and even get away with it? Or would that mess with the psyche? Or would you visit another escort entirely?

That's a serious mind fuck IMO.

Personally it would screw with my mind, I couldn't do it. Also, if you go ahead and do it and you and get away with it, how do you think you would honestly feel?
If you think it won't affect you, that's weird to me. I guess it takes someone with massive balls and zero fucks or a psycho, not saying which applies to you, but those are the only two categories I can think of.

I wouldn't do it, but that's just me.

 

[Topmodelsajax]

What’s her OF?

 

[VirginJohn]

I don’t fucking care.

Nice website by the way. You are kind of turning me on. I mean, that negative energy personalizes your own content.

Knowing you don't like me, and that I could subscribe to your website, and start looking at that content and fapping-out, makes me feel like I can go behind your back as well.

Tell me you don't want me to subscribe and I won't. You have my word....pinky swear.

 

[VirginJohn]

What’s her OF?

Given the way other people have responded to this thread, there is no way I'm going to disclose that, or the identity of the escort for that matter.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

You sound rather triggered. If that escort had the attitude that I'm seeing through the page, there is no chance I would have asked her out in the first place, or opened myself up emotionally to her. As far as I'm concerned, she has said "no" to whatever is represented on the profile on OnlyFans. She has no other information about me other than what I have chosen to give her and none of it is any personal details. It's more personal stories and some general details of story rather than personal details.

You are saying I should unsubscribe to her OF page? That's walking away.

If she continues talking with me then I'm not unsubscribing like that. It's in her interest to continue talking anyway to see what I'm up to. If I'm talking about my own life, and she's providing constructive feedback that leads to general happiness or maybe even finding love with a civvie, then I don't think that would lend itself to me visiting her, or if it did (God forbid), then a better place mentally than I am now.

You sound scary. Is that why you’re planning this delusional romance for October ?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

So other men here can call you out? Call you names but when a woman says to respect another woman’s NO - you call her triggered???? Sure you are not a troll like everyone is saying you are?

Your first posts and even title suggest one thing and then the rest of posts say another. So what I was responding to, was what you originally implied. Which was

A) she already told YOU no she didn’t want you. (YOU, not some persona or whatever you want to call it to justify things. She told you - NO)
b) she escorts as well
C) she knows nothing identitying
D) you want to see her “behind her own back” in your words. Meaning you want to not listen to the no she already gave you and see her anyways.

That is what YOU said in YOUR first post.

Anyone with respect would tell you the same thing I did and would equally be disgusted that you are trying to get around the no she already gave you.

As for the rest of the thread, the rest that as come out and rest you just wrote me - I don’t know and I don’t fucking care. You make no sense.

All I know is - she told you no so leave her alone and seek professional help.

@VirginJohn please read this everytime you have the urge to follow through with your plan. What you are suggesting is scary for any form of sex worker. no means no.

 

[unassuming]

That was not my thread. I've only made two threads on here.

I never said it was your thread.

 

[Jenesis]

Nice website by the way. You are kind of turning me on. I mean, that negative energy personalizes your own content.

Knowing you don't like me, and that I could subscribe to your website, and start looking at that content and fapping-out, makes me feel like I can go behind your back as well.

Tell me you don't want me to subscribe and I won't. You have my word....pinky swear.

This is why you are a creep but go for it. I’ll laugh all the way to the bank with your money too. Just like she does. I don’t care. I know I won’t have to fuck you since you have a craving for other things so enjoy fucking your pillow while paying my retirement.

 

[squeezer]

Nice website by the way. You are kind of turning me on. I mean, that negative energy personalizes your own content.

Knowing you don't like me, and that I could subscribe to your website, and start looking at that content and fapping-out, makes me feel like I can go behind your back as well.

Tell me you don't want me to subscribe and I won't. You have my word....pinky swear.

CHECK

This is why you are a creep but go for it. I’ll laugh all the way to the bank with your money too. Just like she does. I don’t care. I know I won’t have to fuck you since you have a craving for other things so enjoy fucking your pillow while paying my retirement.

MATE

John, Jen shut you down and made you look kind of simpish. LOL

 

[VirginJohn]

This is why you are a creep but go for it. I’ll laugh all the way to the bank with your money too. Just like she does. I don’t care. I know I won’t have to fuck you since you have a craving for other things so enjoy fucking your pillow while paying my retirement.

You are one feisty gal.

 

[VirginJohn]

John, Jen shut you down and made you look kind of simpish. LOL

The other escort replied back on OF, BTW, I checked this morning. We are still talking.

Anyway, it's probably healthy to look at another escort's pic. I haven't looked at any escort pics, including leolist, etc..... She might have made enough emotional energy from her posts to snap me out of it.
That's a good thing.

 

[squeezer]

The other escort replied back on OF, BTW, I checked this morning. We are still talking.

Of course, you are paying the subscription and she doesn't have to touch you in person. Why wouldn't she keep you paying, she would be silly to cut you off while you're paying.

 

[Jenesis]

Of course, you are paying the subscription and she doesn't have to touch you in person. Why wouldn't she keep you paying, she would be silly to cut you off while you're paying.

I would have by now if I was her. One sub can’t be worth this much trouble.

Unless she is using a ghost writer. Which many do on platforms like OF. I know a couple of drag queens that ghost write for OF.