Would you let other terb members decide who you’ll book next?
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I have taken kherg007 advice on 2 ladies in particular and both were home runs.
They are Scarlett Spade(not sure if she is still in the bizz) and Dahlia Sage. Both 10/10.
Thanks buddy!
🩷I would never consider opening it up for all members to decide but might take advice from a small group of members that are familiar to me, have similar preferences, and frequently report comparable experiences with the same providers. I would ask them to help me choose between 2 or more ladies.
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I guess I took it positively because I am actively participating on merb and knew it wasn’t malicious. These people would have met me regardless but it would have taken more time. Let’s just say they got a little push.
I can’t speak to how they would take it, but I would hope SP would see it as just another form of advertising (which is effectively what it is). In essence, it isn’t much different than the demand push that is presumably created during/post the SP of the year poll.
Hell no; half the people on here are retards and the other half are social retards…
This!!!!!
It has nothing to do with this being a board that is “less about fun” or men here being “less adventurous” and everything to do with being sensible with time, money and honesty/integrity, which the internet rarely has any of.
Not only that but it could be a potential shit show with actual real life drama ensuing.
And lastly - what if the lady doesn’t want to see this person. There are a few board members I would not see. How is screening done if the guy doesn’t feel comfortable with it? There is just too much involved now in this industry to just make appointments this way. Fun to think about but impractical IRL in my opinion. That is just my opinion though and I’m coming from a place of participation on this board where many other escorts don’t so it may not affect them the same way as it would affect me.
Although in this regard, as posted in the very vanilla sense of it, this has happened and does happen on this board as far as “I can’t decide, help” and the poster offers up a couple of ladies he wants to see and posters give their two sense. However I think that is completely different the premises of the thread title and it is true to the title, I agree with you.
You do realize that any guy on this board can book you and still assault you, right?Honestly, in person I'm more likely to stare just at them like I think they're an idiot, instigating an argument with a man I don't know in person sounds like a good way to get yourself assaulted
I’m just saying because I have seen guys do it. Not the assault part but book a girl who they fight with, and then cause all types of issues on and offline. I know if a guy, on a basically dead board now, who lives in the US who literally travelled the the east coast of Canada to book a girl to prove this exact point. She was clear online she would never see a guy like him. Said things like, “I’m glad I live in the east coast so I don’t have to worry about you booking with me”. Made it clear she would refuse him if he reached out. He got an SP reference, a burner phone, etc and booked her. The appointment went fine, she was safe but she felt very violated after he revealed he saw her since she was clear she didn’t want to see him. And she had no idea which client he was. He waited for a few months but had proof with details of her incall that you could only know if you were inside.
You are not fighting anonymously on this board like the guys are and therefore not being safe from real life harm like they can.
Worst I have had here is a guy tried to get me audited by the CRA. He was a low level employee there. I think he did like customer phone support in a different language for people who needed it. Like mandarin or Arabic or something like that. It didn’t work, but he tried. For a while he was hell bent on it because we had a fight about taxation and escorts.
So just a friendly warning - don’t think posting online protects you. If someone wants to get you - they will.
Some also may not screen as well for you over what you do for yourself under Vera. I don’t know about that part or how all that works as a hybrid indy.
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Reviews are another form of advertising and plenty of escorts have no review policies. Since I just moved back to Durham and am resettling, I have turned down a few offers of a review just these last couple of weeks. I don’t want the extra traffic at the moment.
I'm sorry, but I'm not reading all that because I didn't say that men on this board couldn't assault me, I said I don't argue with clients in person to avoid escalation. The first sentence of your reply is giving "wow you hate pancakes" in response to someone saying they like waffles, I simply neither said that or even implied it.
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No one said that. I think you strongly misinterpreted what Vera said. I am not in her shoes but to me it read more as a joke than a solid fact.
That is fine. It could be a joke. I’m not dismissing it as not a joke but I am going to take it in the serious route for a second because it is an important warning.
We are at a disadvantage here on TERB because we are not anonymous like the men here are. We have to take extra precautions.
If Vera wanted to walk home a certain route that I knew could have elements of danger, I would warn her as well. I would hate to see anything happen.
So yes - a joke but can have a hint of truth to it.
Ok well if you had of actually read you would have seen that is not the case at all.
All I have stated, we are not anonymous on this board. Which is true. You would have seen the examples of real life happenings if you had bothered to read. You may not escalate in person, of course - who would but you could inadvertently escalate something online that causes you real world harm. It was a friendly post to assist but it seems like you would rather lash out at some friendly advice because you don’t like who it came from. That is ok. Do you boo.
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Again, pancakes and waffles, I didn't lash out and i don't dislike you, maybe that's projection, but i don't like dislike people simply bcz i don't agree with them. I said I'm not reading it because you misinterpreted what I said, so nothing after that is relevant to me.
Yes, it was more in jest, there is always danger present from men, simply turning a man down who asks for your number on the street has gotten women murdered, we all choose in what instances we refuse to live in fear and in which we choose to mitigate harm based on our risk assessments.
Can’t say I blame them. I want a guy who wants to see me. Not any just any hole that will do.What some of you feared/talked about happened. One of the members in Montreal made the same kind of thread as the others and when he tried to contact the ladies that were voted by members, they all refused
