If you found a woman to be in love with, ie., true love finally, would you keep hobbying or stop? My own past history was that I did stop (although a trip our to the strip clubs with the guys was still acceptable).
Would You Keep Hobbying?
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Well, your question proceeds from a false assumption. There's no such thing as "true love" or "the one" or "soul mates" or any such nonsense. That's a Hollywood myth.
That said, if I found someone that I chose to be committed with for the rest of my days, then yes I'd quit hobbying. Anything else would be living a lie, covering up expenses, worried about getting caught, etc. etc. It's just not worth it.
That said, if I found someone that I chose to be committed with for the rest of my days, then yes I'd quit hobbying. Anything else would be living a lie, covering up expenses, worried about getting caught, etc. etc. It's just not worth it.
You're absolutely free to disagree.data1960 said:
For the record, I have been in that very special and wonderful place that I thought was indicative of a soul mate/the one/etc. etc. That place is based almost entirely on feelings. And, as any rational person knows, feelings lie.
Players and PUA-types are masters at manipulating young (and not-so-young) women into making them believe that there's some sort of magical, mystical connection between them. There is, of course, no such thing, but by carefully worded phrases, touches and body language, they create the illusion of connection. They manufacture feelings.
(For a brilliant look at the world of the PUA, check out The Game by Neil Strauss. Funny, disturbing, evocative.)
Now, a life mate... THAT I understand. A soul mate? No such thing. See Love myths.
I'm in love, but the girl is in love with her dogs more than me at the moment. She did cum in her pants when she finally met me close, so I have a chance to see if the dogs approve of me, when I meet them (yep, more than one dog). LOL.
Gyaos.
Gyaos.
The whole "soul mate/the one/the perfect mate" is a crock. It's all chemicals. Funny how of all the weddings I've been to and every one of them each said "their partner was their soulmate" ended in divorce within 5 yrs and as quick as 6 months.
To answer the question: yes I'd stop hobbying if I got involved with someone. The ONLY reason I hobby is because at the moment, I have no other options available.
To answer the question: yes I'd stop hobbying if I got involved with someone. The ONLY reason I hobby is because at the moment, I have no other options available.
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variety is the spice of life
I would stop hobbying until I felt like doing it again. Or the first time she denied me. Or the first time I got a boner driving down the road. Or whatever.
If I ever figure out what love is all about I'll be sure to update. In the meanwhile I'm gonna get me some. Often.
I would stop hobbying until I felt like doing it again. Or the first time she denied me. Or the first time I got a boner driving down the road. Or whatever.
If I ever figure out what love is all about I'll be sure to update. In the meanwhile I'm gonna get me some. Often.
I always take a hiatus when I'm dating someone but obviously, have not found a partner yet, hence still being here.
Though, the only difference between herpes and true love is that herpes lasts forever.lol
Though, the only difference between herpes and true love is that herpes lasts forever.lol
data1960 said:I did, "tboy logic" is well defined here on TERB.
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Well, if you're using terb as your only source of reference you're dumber than you appear.......
1) emotions are just electrical impulses in the brain
2) those emotions are set off due to chemical reactions to pheromones and other stimulae
3) There is a difference between falling in love and being in love. Falling in love is the initial chemical reaction which causes the euphoria that many associate with a new relationship. "Being" in love is not relying on those chemicals to keep the relationship going.
The above has been proven scientifically time and time again, there's nothing to debate.
Hell yeah I stop BUT I might if back in town with my GF book a lady I seen before to "show off" my GF and see how GF re-act (but I be up front with her before hand)
I must be dreaming thou
Edit...the way I see it better to get it out in the open than be a sneak....but it be once we were very close....and if she freak out and spilt, well better now than once married.
I must be dreaming thou
Edit...the way I see it better to get it out in the open than be a sneak....but it be once we were very close....and if she freak out and spilt, well better now than once married.
Well, I guess at least a quarter of us, assuming that some in the 'not sure' category, will remain unfaithful then.
