Would you go to swing club?
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I did and I would again if I had a date. I don’t feel comfortable going alone for now
I would go in a heart beat if I had someone to go with however I am in my mid 60's so not sure how nervous I would be
Why? What does it have to do with anything?
Saw a few people that were certainly above 60
I've been invited to a couple orgies and politely declined since it's a little out of my comfort zone.
I think it would be the same with a swingers' club.
I think it would be the same with a swingers' club.
The wife and I tried it a few times but never really became a thing for us. The two of us would just end up having sex on our own, sometimes with spectators.
Quick story and why it kind of left a bad taste with us. We went to a swingers club in Mississauga several years ago. At the time, it was owned by a husband and wife couple who nicely showed us around when we went there on our first night. Kept talking about how no means no, no pressure, etc. As the night went on, the wife and I pretty much kept to ourselves as there wasn't anything that interested us. As we were leaving, the owners asked us to come to their private table where they were entertaining a few other couples. The male owner was all over my wife, touching her without any sort of consent, etc. At the same time, the other owner comes up to me, takes my hands, puts them on her breasts and starts making out with me. I kept looking over at my wife and saw that the guy was making her very uncomfortable and she had this disgusted look on her face. I pushed his wife away and grabbed my wife and left. Those two completely ruined the experience for us, and they were the owners!
We went back a couple of times after that when we heard that the couple no longer owned the place. But it still kind of sucked. Like someone mentioned above, it was an older, not very attractive crowd. The type of people that go nude on a nude beach, the ones that shouldn't ,lol.
Quick story and why it kind of left a bad taste with us. We went to a swingers club in Mississauga several years ago. At the time, it was owned by a husband and wife couple who nicely showed us around when we went there on our first night. Kept talking about how no means no, no pressure, etc. As the night went on, the wife and I pretty much kept to ourselves as there wasn't anything that interested us. As we were leaving, the owners asked us to come to their private table where they were entertaining a few other couples. The male owner was all over my wife, touching her without any sort of consent, etc. At the same time, the other owner comes up to me, takes my hands, puts them on her breasts and starts making out with me. I kept looking over at my wife and saw that the guy was making her very uncomfortable and she had this disgusted look on her face. I pushed his wife away and grabbed my wife and left. Those two completely ruined the experience for us, and they were the owners!
We went back a couple of times after that when we heard that the couple no longer owned the place. But it still kind of sucked. Like someone mentioned above, it was an older, not very attractive crowd. The type of people that go nude on a nude beach, the ones that shouldn't ,lol.
Swingers club no. Though I might in one instance. I’d have to be “in the moment” to know.
Have on more than one occasion had sex with people all around and within feet of me/us. So I would comfortable with that aspect.
However in my real life/civvie life I hate “planned sex”. I think that’s one reason my ex and I were sexually incompatible. Going to a cIub would be like “let’s go out for dinner and after we can have sex”…I am all about spontaneity and whatever grabs me in the moment. While some might think that doesn’t compute with seeing SPs and that’s true. My sessions with SPs are anything but “planned”. What happens after I come out of the shower is what ever happens. I don’t have a script.
the only way I might do it. Is to hire an SP to go with me. That said, I wouldn’t even want to think about the cost
Have on more than one occasion had sex with people all around and within feet of me/us. So I would comfortable with that aspect.
However in my real life/civvie life I hate “planned sex”. I think that’s one reason my ex and I were sexually incompatible. Going to a cIub would be like “let’s go out for dinner and after we can have sex”…I am all about spontaneity and whatever grabs me in the moment. While some might think that doesn’t compute with seeing SPs and that’s true. My sessions with SPs are anything but “planned”. What happens after I come out of the shower is what ever happens. I don’t have a script.
the only way I might do it. Is to hire an SP to go with me. That said, I wouldn’t even want to think about the cost
A girl (SP) a saw regularly suggested we go to oasis sometime. I was intrigued by the idea, but I didn’t get to see her that often and always had such a good time with the two of us alone, I didn’t want to mess with a good situation. Who knows maybe I missed outSwingers club no. Though I might in one instance. I’d have to be “in the moment” to know.
Have on more than one occasion had sex with people all around and within feet of me/us. So I would comfortable with that aspect.
However in my real life/civvie life I hate “planned sex”. I think that’s one reason my ex and I were sexually incompatible. Going to a cIub would be like “let’s go out for dinner and after we can have sex”…I am all about spontaneity and whatever grabs me in the moment. While some might think that doesn’t compute with seeing SPs and that’s true. My sessions with SPs are anything but “planned”. What happens after I come out of the shower is what ever happens. I don’t have a script.
the only way I might do it. Is to hire an SP to go with me. That said, I wouldn’t even want to think about the cost
Definitely try it. But go on a day when no single men are allowed. You will have a lot of fun. Its awesome! The best thing is I liked that I could be an exhibitionist and walk around with a boner and no one cares. Or make out with your girl in the swimming pool, or in the jacuzzi, sauna etc., Try it!A girl (SP) a saw regularly suggested we go to oasis sometime. I was intrigued by the idea, but I didn’t get to see her that often and always had such a good time with the two of us alone, I didn’t want to mess with a good situation. Who knows maybe I missed out
I'd like to try this at least once in my life...
I'm unable to cum with my wife no matter what happens... I think it would help me to see her in a sexual encounter where someone else desires her. Perhaps it would spark her into having sex more often than <5 times per year?
Life is short. She's great at giving head (when it does happen).
I'm unable to cum with my wife no matter what happens... I think it would help me to see her in a sexual encounter where someone else desires her. Perhaps it would spark her into having sex more often than <5 times per year?
Life is short. She's great at giving head (when it does happen).
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If I lived in the same city and a visits were easy and frequent, maybe I go for it. If only to get horned up and then go back home and fuck each other’s brains out!
