Would you date or marry a SW/SP or MA?

Would you date or marry an SP or MA


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Amenadiel

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Oct 23, 2018
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So true story

Back when I was living in Calgary, I was just off a long and draining relationship with my university sweetheart and I started seeing escorts or MAs in my city.


I met a SP who I really liked. I will never mention her name here and she is still working in Calgary. We clicked really well. The chemistry and sex was off the charts! I really loved her personality and sense of humour. So a few months into my regular visits, I asked her out. She agreed to date me off business and thus our relationship began.

While we were dating, she was still working as an escort. She was very attractive but she offered only safe services with dfk. So no BB services like bbbj. I trusted her and she trusted me. I let her do her own things and I was a very open minded young guy. I saw her job as just a job and she was a very sexual girl, good at what she did.

We dated for almost a year without any issues. In the end, I had to leave town for work ending up in capital. Our relationship never progressed to the next stage. We just dated and had allot of fun together. I think, had we been together for more over a year it could have gone to a very serious relationship, possibly asking her to move in with me. She did not want to leave Calgary and so we broke off the relationship and stayed very good friends.

Her family knows what she does and are okay with it. Not happy but okay. My family however are very conservative and would never accept her. Even many of my friends. Considering this, it would be difficult for me to move on to the next stage but I'm the type of guy that follow through with my heart so my family would have to live with it.

Given my recent experience with an SP, I would have to think hard about dating SPs or MAs. I am still open to it. I want to know what you guys think.

Also, I should mention that if my family and friends knew I was seeing escorts they would not be happy lmao. I think we terb members/hobbyists get shun or frowned upon by society just as much as the ladies who do this job.
 

scdave2003

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Oct 19, 2010
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There's a former SP I know, we have a distant but ongoing relationship. If I was unattached (married) I'd consider a relationship, probably for all the wrong reasons. Great sex, has many issues regarding stability and health but when we get together all the issues go out of mind. Small head thinking I guess.
 

Rainah

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Oct 13, 2018
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I do not see providers with a dating mindset, that is not what I'm looking for right now. If circumstances changed and there was mutual interest, yes I would date or marry them. Work is work, it doesn't effect me.
 

walk

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May 11, 2009
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I would date and be in a serious relationships with an active SP/MA, however for marriage and kids I would want her to stop.
 

HOLLYWOODG

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Dec 11, 2016
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Don't see what the big issue is. Society is too hung up on keeping appearances. It's really ignorant to make generalizations. Each person and situation is unique.
 
Nov 19, 2017
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I dated a Mirage girl who was wrapping up her career in the industry just as we started dating. She retired on her own volition, we dated for over a year. Then started back up again once we broke up. We're still friends. There was never a problem whatsoever, but then again, for most of our relationship she wasn't in the industry, so my experience is not quite the same as OPs.
 

Master Cuddles

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Jul 22, 2018
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I'm surprised there's no option in the poll for "friends with benefits".

Becoming friends with benefits with a certain provider I respect would definitely make me happy, but I don't think it would ever go further than that. I would want us to keep it casual and fun and respectful without going too emotionally deep.

Oh well, a man can still dream, right? =)
 

kherg007

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May 3, 2014
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I dated one she was lovely but distance put an end to it (I wasn't moving back to Oz anytime soon). I think if you do fall in love, you have to accept her as is. I couldn't imagine asking her to quit her gig if that was what she wanted to do. If she wanted to go monogamous w me as a way to leave this life that would be fine too. Or maybe I found the most awesome woman in the world who'd bring home lady friends for us to share lol. The biggest surprise to me when I entered this life was the large number of smart, interesting ladies i met whose company I could enjoy beyond their naked selves.
 
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