Would you date/marry a former (or current) SP?
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I would absolutely marry some of the beautiful woman Ive seen over the years in this business. I lived with an ex sp for a couple of years and honestly thought there would be a future for us, unfortunately there were other issues that got in the way. I dont know why it is that men will see these women, spend huge amounts of money on them, and yet consider them to be damaged goods and used up. Outside of this business they are just normal women who are capable great love compare a relationship to their work
Date: Yes to both (former and current). It wouldn't be long-term though. I'm not really an open relationship kind of guy, even if it's just her "professional" life, but I would enjoy spicing things up a bit for the short term.
Marry: Yes to former, no to current.
Marry: Yes to former, no to current.
Date = Sure!
Marry? Been married twice already so no third for me thanks, no matter who she is or was. A third marriage is "a triumph of hope over experience"!
Marry? Been married twice already so no third for me thanks, no matter who she is or was. A third marriage is "a triumph of hope over experience"!
I don't think it's an issue of damaged goods, rather an issue I'd trust. Let's face it, marriage is a contract. If you have doubts about this, ask any divorced man.... I would have no problem dating (in fact I do...) or even being in common law with a former SP. Marriage is something that requires the ultimate and final trust in my mind, and she would haber a real challenge earning this from me (as would many other woman for that matter...)
The only answer is yes. In today's world you have to assume that you're marrying an SP, even if she's a civilian. Women have so much sex with studs in their teens and twenties that SP and civilian are virtually undifferentiated. Moreover, women are real life Keyser Soze's; masters of re-invention and persuasion. They can have sex with half the world, but when it comes time to settle down, it's as though that former person/SP never existed. They convince you of that unquestionable 'fact' in demeanor and words, to wipe the slate clean, allowing you to walk into the sunset and live happily ever after, 50% of the time.
I think you have to assess the person - some Industry gals are just totally f'd in the head - addiction, bad choices, completely uneducated and always functioning in survival mode. The industry attracts certain types over all.
Date - yea probably, Marry - I think marriage is a dumb idea to begin with. LTR - idk, once pandora's box has been opened, its fuckin hard to close. Would you stop seeing SPs and MPAs because you date or marry an SP/MPA? Highly doubt it.
Date - yea probably, Marry - I think marriage is a dumb idea to begin with. LTR - idk, once pandora's box has been opened, its fuckin hard to close. Would you stop seeing SPs and MPAs because you date or marry an SP/MPA? Highly doubt it.
there's time limits around that - also dating is not living together. Are there "prenup" living arrangement agreements? hmmm
I have dated an SP and not any different they dating somebody who works any other job as long as you do not think about what they are doing at work. As for marriage when not as long as she was not longer a current SP
Maybe legally some years down the road. I wouldn't want to make anything 'official', like vows or a big party, etc. Just move in quietly with her, sure.
I think after a year of cohabitation, she would become your spouse regardless of any vows made (common law partner). Can someone correct me if I’m wrong?
Ultimately, I’d only date someone who I think could be “real” with me and I with her, but it seems impossible to find these days. A lot of vapid conversations and showy attitudes plague modern dating. That said, sometimes I feel a ex-SP may be the type best partner for me, as I wouldn’t need to lie about having seeing escorts before her and wouldn’t care that she worked as an SP.
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My what a clever and ridiculously unenlightened statement. Did you get that off of a bathroom wall?
