Would you date an ex-SP??

[LadysMan10]

I've dated quite a few ladies in the past where I've found only a few of them actually know what to do in the sack. I mean, you can always request or give suggestions, but there's only a few I found that were comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality. These few are the ones that are willing to try different places, positions or techniques without suggestion. These are the ones that have no akward moments for position change or instruction. In actual fact, there has only been one girl that I've dated that could qualify as a high-end SP......not only in the looks department, but also in the service department too.

So, this is why I ask; "would you date an ex-SP??" Most SP's are very comfortable with the whole sex scene and are comfortable with their bodies. They know how to read a guy and deliver the best services. I think a long-term relationship with an SP would be a great relationship investment, provided of course that she no longer provides the service to others.

Just my thoughts for a Monday morning.

LM10

 

[Natalie]

When the role is reversed.....

I've dated quite a few 'gentlemen' in the past where I've found only a few of them actually know what to do in the sack. I mean, you can always request or give suggestions, but there's only a few I found that were comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality. These few are the ones that are willing to try different places, positions or techniques without suggestion. These are the ones that have no akward moments for position change or instruction. In actual fact, there has only been one 'man' that I've dated that could qualify as a high-end 'hobbyist'......not only in the looks department, but also in the service department too.

So, this is why I ask; "would you date an ex-'hobbyist'??" Most 'hobbyists' are very comfortable with the whole sex scene and are comfortable with their bodies. They know how to read a 'lady' and deliver the best services. I think a long-term relationship with a 'hobbyist' would be a great relationship investment, provided of course that 'he' no longer provides the service to others.

Just my thoughts for a Monday morning.

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To each their own

 

[Dawgger]

Natalie.............my thoughts exactly! Well done!

 

[Meister]

These few are the ones that are willing to try different places, positions or techniques without suggestion.

I wish my SO would just be willing to try sex without suggestion.

 

[qwertysaget]

Excellent response Natalie.

LadysMan I was wondering why you wouldn't consider dating an SP as opposed to an ex-SP?

 

[hotn_1]

Would you date an ex-SP??

I can't think of a single reason why not,they are human just like everyone else. And doesn't everyone have a closet; some just have a tighter fitting door than others.

 

[LadysMan10]

I apologize if the original post was offensive to some, it was not intended to do so. It was just a simple question. I know it can go both ways......but my question was directed to the hobbiests on this board, I should have clarified that.

I asked the question because a few of my friends were talking about the escort business and a couple of them expressed how they would not consider dating an ex-SP because they would not be able to get over the idea of what they used to do for a living.

I for one, would not have a problem with it at all and I think I would appreciate the idea of dating an ex-SP for the sexual freedom.

Once again, I apologize if you took offense to the post, I did not mean to hurt anyone.

LM10

 

[LadysMan10]

LadysMan I was wondering why you wouldn't consider dating an SP as opposed to an ex-SP?

I could deal with dating an SP who has quit the biz......but I don't think I could date an SP who continues to see other guys while dating me.

LM10

 

[hunter001]

Yes. People are are about who they are not what there job is/was so same as anyone else.

 

[jimmyt]

So, this is why I ask; "would you date an ex-SP??"

LM10

Have.....would.......its' GREAT!!

 

[Doctor Zoidburg]

Yes, I would.................

.....................But the dates over if she puts on the taxi meter on the side of her bed.

 

[The Daulfin]

Dating an ex-SP would be rather easy; taking her to meet the family and friends that may know what she used to do for a living would be the hard part, IMHO. It would take alot of love and faith to make that leap, I'd say.

 

[Roger-Ramjet]

I would have no qualms about dating an ex or current SP and I would have no problem if friends knew about her profession.

 

[train]

I apologize if the original post was offensive to some, it was not intended to do so. It was just a simple question.

LM10

It shouldn't have offended anyone. If it did it's more their problem than yours.

From a moral standpoint I would have absolutely no problem dating an ex-sp. I would be concerned about a) Not being able to provide her with the quantity of sex she is used to or may require or b) She may be totally sick or bored with sex.

 

[Aardvark154]

Dating an ex-SP would be rather easy; taking her to meet the family and friends that may know what she used to do for a living would be the hard part, IMHO. It would take alot of love and faith to make that leap, I'd say.

Friends that know what business she used to be in are in no position to "dish the dirt." Hopefully all of us are better than that, and for those who are not how many of us what to be publicly challenged as to "well how do you know that about X."

Far more important to my mind, and more likely to cause difficulties are whether the two of you are a good match intellectually and with regard to common beliefs and values, interests etc. . . being attracted to someone because of their looks or because they are great at sex works for a while, but if that's all there is, it's probably not a relationship that's going to make it for the long haul

 

[magicmanofmassage]

If I truly loved the woman, however, it wouldn't matter whether she was an ex-SP or currently one. I would prefer she stop but I wouldn't force her to - it would have to of her own volition. On the other hand, I would stop hobbying for her.

Hmmnnn does this sound familiar (take out the word IF).......and I've answered it loudly and clearly!

Glad someone else feels the same way!

 

[nautilus]

Ahhh.....The One!
I seriously considered a relationship with an MPA. Her job was not a point of concern. I think as you get older it's easier to accept people for who they are, not how they earn a living. Likewise, it's possibly better if an SP dates someone familiar with the "hobby".
So, yeah, I believe I could date an SP or MPA.

 

[skypilot]

I'd be afraid it would be all worn out by the time I got around to dating her.

 

[papasmerf]

would she mind if we continued to see MPA's or SP's??????? I would hope she would. Just like I might mind the term semi-retired.



Seriously

Of course I would. Past is past and needs to be let go of.

 

[barrowing]

Without Hesitation

If it feels good do it. If you are not confortable with how you met (via hobby) or what she did then it won't feel good and it ain't for you. Having had a serious relationship with a former sp, became former after we got together, I sometimes had trouble with her prior activities but then is it really any different than a girl who makes the rounds at the bar, at the office etc. A friend of mine suggested looking at how swingers handle their so being with strangers. This gave me a good perspective on it and helped me handle her past. The reality was I fell for her as a person, not as a sex object, and that was the most important part of it for both of us.