would SPs let friends book?

[acr]

this is a question for the SPs in the room:

if someone from your civvy life knew what you did and wanted to book you, should they? would you let them if they were honest and upfront?

 

[oil&gas]

What do you mean by 'honest and upfront'?
Is that you want to go tell her something like
"I know you have been moonlighting as an escort
and you know I have the hots for you. Let's talk how
I am going to book a session with you. Can I just
call your personal number? Would you give me
a discount or better if I can get it free? I promise
I won't tell anyone else about your second job."?

 

[TeeJay]

I would expect the SP would ban the person they know

 

[bluebro69]

I would expect that there is no rule book they all follow. Some would, some wouldn't. A lot would depend on how you approach it.

 

[mandrill]

I doubt it.

It's 2 completely different and separate worlds colliding in a very uncomfortable way. And that's leaving aside the risk of the girl being blackmailed or outed to her family.

 

[bebe]

I doubt it.

It's 2 completely different and separate worlds colliding in a very uncomfortable way. And that's leaving aside the risk of the girl being blackmailed or outed to her familhy.

I agree that typically an SP would not see someone from their civie life but at that same time she could out him as well, especially if he has an SO.

 

[sanderson3d]

Never.

 

[acr]

What do you mean by 'honest and upfront'?
Is that you want to go tell her something like
"I know you have been moonlighting as an escort
and you know I have the hots for you. Let's talk how
I am going to book a session with you. Can I just
call your personal number? Would you give me
a discount or better if I can get it free? I promise
I won't tell anyone else about your second job."?

lol you're making quite a few leaps there but point taken. i'm not interested in outing anyone or manipulating a friend into doing something they don't want to do. i value my friendship with this person more than the idea of a potential session. thanks for the feedback everyone!!!

 

[sweetiepieexo]

absolutely not ! I had this one friend I knew from high school try to book me several times. He told me we knew each other and that it shouldn't matter because he was paying. However it DID matter because the fact was I knew him & I never ever thought that someone from my school would contact me.

The main concern is exactly what @oil&gas said people who know you could possibly use it against you.

My suggestion to the op is if you know the girl from school and shes told you she doesn't want to see/ service you then respect her wishes and leave her be.

 

[acr]

absolutely not ! I had this one friend I knew from high school try to book me several times. He told me we knew each other and that it shouldn't matter because he was paying. However it DID matter because the fact was I knew him & I never ever thought that someone from my school would contact me.

The main concern is exactly what @oil&gas said people who know you could possibly use it against you.

My suggestion to the op is if you know the girl from school and shes told you she doesn't want to see/ service you then respect her wishes and leave her be.

thanks! at this point i haven't approached her about it at all, so there's been no conversation or chance for her to express her feelings on the issue. i thought i would field the question here first before i took that chance and i'm glad i did because i think it'll save us both an awkward moment.

 

[mandrill]

About 7 years ago, 1 of my regulars was pursued for pay-sex by an old high school acquaintance who somehow figured out she was a working girl.

He got dropped right away from her personal life and blocked out of all her escort contact and social media. She was royally pissed.

It's too weird, if someone you know from a different context - i.e. the nerdy guy in history class or Jenny's SO's best guy friend from the pub last month - wants to jump into your other world and pay to have sex with you.

 

[asuran]

It is 99% not a good idea.

 

[Mr Deeds]

As a client I would feel uncomfortable booking with an sp who is a friend. There have been a few time I have stopped booking sessions with a lady because we have become friends outside of the business.

 

[Jasmine Raine]

this is a question for the SPs in the room:

if someone from your civvy life knew what you did and wanted to book you, should they? would you let them if they were honest and upfront?

No. I would not. It cross the lines to business from personal in an strange and uncomfortable way.. That is not something I am willing to do. Money is not everything.

 

[Malika Fantasy]

I have done it with one friend yes a few years ago and the reason because is I knew him well, he knew what i did prior so it wasnt done in my back

Im out to friends and family about being a sex workers, thought i dont cross names/stories and the like.
It has happen twice that I have receive an email and once in person , saying x person (personal life) has recommend that I see you.
Once the friend X ask me hey can I recommend your name to this person who wants to try to be with a woman for the first time, and that was fine by me, but that really would be the only expection that I would do again today

 

[hamermill]

Never shit where you eat.

If I knew a SP in really life I would not want her to know how lousy I am in the sack, how tiny my dick is or I like to fcuk a women’s ass.

 

[harryass]

looks like same comment from SPs who reply, a big clear NO!
If it happens, I don't think that an SP would feel u as a real friend anymore and the other way around too.

Yip agree with Jessia's comment, "Money is not everything."