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I think the problem is more likely that too many guys (not specifically you) who usually ask for this, escalate things far too quickly to the more extreme fetishes, usually within the same 1 hr session.
So, SP's probably figure it's too much of a hassle and I wouldn't be surprised if some SP's use this as a weeding out tool.
I remembered a long time ago, Twizzler or Lurker, giving a review of an OPG girl who would do roleplay but I'm possitive that she is long gone now.
Your best bet is to see an SP fairly regularly and built up a trust level. Then when you ask the question she will at least be move comfortable with the idea.
So, SP's probably figure it's too much of a hassle and I wouldn't be surprised if some SP's use this as a weeding out tool.
I remembered a long time ago, Twizzler or Lurker, giving a review of an OPG girl who would do roleplay but I'm possitive that she is long gone now.
Your best bet is to see an SP fairly regularly and built up a trust level. Then when you ask the question she will at least be move comfortable with the idea.
Personally, I enjoy it when my guys have special requests - it breaks up the usual services, and gives me a new challenge. Sometimes it's something that I have no experience with, so I end up learning in the process. My philosophy with fetishs, roleplay etc. is so long as I'm not getting hurt and you're having a good time, then it's all good. 
i normally keep to myself on here, but I'm surprised to hear that SP's don't welcome fetish, especially foot fetish!! I'm a tad ticklish, but i love clients who suck my toes etc, it's really very erotic. Personally i get pedicure's on a regular basis, I'm very into taking care of my body, even my feet. i actually had a mani/pedi today, just for all my Ottawa clients, I won't show up without soft feet, and french manicured toe nails....so if your into foot fetish drop me a line...I LOVE IT!!
email me and request them, i will reply with attachments.
i got a new camera the other day, maybe i will take some new pics...
capitalguy was complainin how "old" my pics were....
i got a new camera the other day, maybe i will take some new pics...
capitalguy was complainin how "old" my pics were....
It's one thing to have a particular interest -- it's another to ask an SP to commit to it in advance of meeting. The latter compromises her and puts her at risk.
That said, I think most reasonable people would be only too happy to accommodate a fetish, when pesented privately and in a no-threat environemnt.
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That said, I think most reasonable people would be only too happy to accommodate a fetish, when pesented privately and in a no-threat environemnt.
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Actually I think if you have a particular fetish, you should explain it very well to the SP to make sure she is ok with everything prior to meeting her. That way she will tell you whether she is comfortable with it or not, instead of telling her what you want when you meet her, which might make her and you very uncomfortable esp if you come up with something that she is totally not into or not comfortable with,
I see a very good reason: too much "blue cheeze"! Nothing directed to you Comrade, only a general possibility, and the fact the lady might not understand what you mean, ie you playing with her feets, her caressing you with her feets, versus her playing with yours...
Nothing directed to you Comrade, only a general possibility, and the fact the lady might not understand what you mean, ie you playing with her feets, her caressing you with her feets, versus her playing with yours...It's always a bit of a quandry as to whether or not to mention my particular fetish requests in advance of a meeting with someone new. On the one hand I certainly don't want to offend the SP by making what she may consider inappropriate requests, but on the other, I also don't want to meet and find out that she is uncomfortable with what I am hoping for. If it's not fun for both of us, then it's definitely not fun for me.
Some women advertise such services, but others don't. Is there a harm in me asking via a polite e-mail if an SP is comfortable providing such and such a service? Apparently there is, because 've been rebuked once or twice. But I've also met some awfully nice women who have been happy to make me happy.
The earlier comment about establishing a trust between us is key.
Some women advertise such services, but others don't. Is there a harm in me asking via a polite e-mail if an SP is comfortable providing such and such a service? Apparently there is, because 've been rebuked once or twice. But I've also met some awfully nice women who have been happy to make me happy.
The earlier comment about establishing a trust between us is key.
Theres nothing "illegal" about askin a person what they are into sexually. If someone emails me asking:
"Do you like such and such"
my answer would simply be yes or no.
However, if it were...:
"How much do i pay u for such and such...."
WHOA.
TIME is all you pay for.
Not everyone has the same likes/dislikes... but why not make sure BEFORE wasting your time and the SPs time to find out later? I personally try my best to clear up any quetions people have in advance, makes it easier to enjoy the session for what it is...
"Do you like such and such"
my answer would simply be yes or no.
However, if it were...:
"How much do i pay u for such and such...."
WHOA.
TIME is all you pay for.
Not everyone has the same likes/dislikes... but why not make sure BEFORE wasting your time and the SPs time to find out later? I personally try my best to clear up any quetions people have in advance, makes it easier to enjoy the session for what it is...
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I guess a lot of SPs do it that way, but I wouldn't trust it to hold up in court. I've never been in any trouble, never had any trouble, and I'd like to keep it that way. Better safe than sorry -- and while it may prevent some poor guy from seeing me who might actually really enjoy it, it doesn't seem to be preventing me from doing business.
I don't mean to sound callous about it. I understand the perspective from the other side. But I have some reasons to be careful, and I look them in the eye every time I go home.
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I don't mean to sound callous about it. I understand the perspective from the other side. But I have some reasons to be careful, and I look them in the eye every time I go home.
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