Just a tip - but Im a bit of a weirdo and I always used to take girls on a first date rock climbing. They used to get the butterflies when I hang em over the edge of a cliff to rappel down. I swear those butterflies make them think they are in love. Never fails to develop some closeness and if I play it right leads to the second date etc etc... First dates should always have excitement or danger built in. Thats why 50 Shades makes women wet - its the danger... Dont get wet at a bar unless someone spills their drink.