why is it called "GFE"?

[LadysMan10]

why is it called "gfe" (girlfriend experience)? we all know that once a girl becomes a girlfriend of more than 5 months, than all those things we categorize with GFE do not exist anymore or happens very rarely. i guess that's why my longest relationship in the past 7 years never exceeded 2 months.

i say we change it........any ideas?

 

[lasslicker]

Gff

Girlfriend Fantasy.

 

[Esco!]

How about slave???

 

[A-ROD]

How about slave???

The man or the woman???

Which one becomes the slave???

 

[Bear669]

Pretty good...

Girlfriend Fantasy.

But I dont have a problem with GFE. For sure I have had multi-year civilian relationships with incredible sex and all the other good stuff.

While I do NOT want slaves, I will admit one of the great things about my fav SPs. Even if I annoy them, they can tell me off but they do NOT go around sulky for days at a time.
A really good 'making up' in 5 minutes or less is a bit of a fantasy in the civilian context.

 

[Yuri]

GFE=Girlfiend Experience: soft, senusal, caring, understanding, compasionate

How about a short form for the following:

1. Longtime Married Wife, saying, why to having sex in any form

2. Longtime Wife, saying that's all you care about, sex, not about me

3. Girlfriend, saying...we will have sex ,but remember that dress/blouse/shoes I saw in the store, do you think we can go there tonight dear/sweetie.

4. GirlNext Door: I wish, dreams can happen

5. The Hottie I saw while waiting at a TTC stop

 

[Esco!]

The man or the woman???

Which one becomes the slave???

The woman of course

 

[Regular Guy]

Demeanour

Once you're in a relationship, don't all the blowjobs cease almost immediately? LOL. When I first heard the term GFE, it was based on the escort's demeanor. Based on services, I agree that another term should apply.

Yes it is definitely about demeanour but also about restrictions. a true girlfriend might balk at anal but would kiss you. As for demeanour I think it might refer to her considering you as a real person with feelings and attempting to make some sort of connection without being distant. Is it possible. Yes it is if you consider that sp's are real girls with feelings. First off bring your best self to the encounter. Provide a BFE. Be chivalrous and sweet. Bad hygiene is a deal breaker in my book as is boorish behaviour. Finally chemistry of the right sort helps. If you click it is a bonus. An sp listing herself as GFE is telling you that she will make the attempt. If your personalities are like fire and gasoline no amount of acting will help. When you find a compatible one it might be an idea to consider keeping her for awhile at least. IMHO avoid all sp's who will not meet you halfway. It is all about attitude and some sp's should not be in the business period.

 

[benito]

When I first started in the hobby 37 years ago it was get on, cum, get off, leave. Often the process was a little disturbing and often the participants were barely civil to each other.
The GFE is a relatively new idea. For me at its very basic level it means you treat each other as if you like each other.
PSE has seemed to come into its own in the past couple of years. With all the bizarre twists porn is going through it would be tough to predict what a PSE will become in the next two years.

 

[oldjones]

With GFs, as with most things in life, YMMV. The term must be meaningful and relevant to at least some TERBarians' experiences or it would not still be in current use.

Those who are unhappy with their GFEs outside the hobby might perhaps benefit from looking at what they put into the E that they get so little out.