Why do you hobby?

[Qbob]

I guess there is an infinite number of reasons why you'd hobby.

For me, I'd be an hypocrite to ignore the fact that I'm just permanently horny perv that wants to experience sex and intimacy with as many beautiful women as I can. I love experiencing the feeling of a genuine connection, to be fooled by a hot seductress, especially for the first time. It's ephemeral and intense and that's why I like about it. Also, the gigantic orgasms these talented ladies can give you.

 

[Peter485]

Honestly for me it's just cheaper than dating. With the time I save not dealing with real life dating, I just work more; and end up making more than it costs me to live out my fantasies with these incredible women.

And easy duos. Trying to trap that unicorn in nature has destroyed many men ....

 

[Tango Urilla]

I pay to hobby so they go away when I’m finished.

 

[Bigbigguy]

For me I find a lack of available time to properly give to a “normal” relationship - the dating and family commitments & the honey-do list and, and, ……

Once I find a good provider, the hobby gives me the intimacy & encounter and then the rest of my time is mine - for work or friends etc…..instead of the normal relationship stuff like visiting in-laws, etc

 

[Tango Urilla]

Nothing worse than visiting inlaws. When I was in a relationship I just would never go lol

 

[Qbob]

I guess I should have included as a possible survey response "Avoiding in-laws".

 

[walk]

I voted difficulty to find sexual partners otherwise, and intimacy and a need to feel loved and desired in my case. I actually strongly prefer monogamy, and would happily seize the opportunity to commit to a life partner and have a family given the chance. Unfortunately that hasn't happened yet, so the hobby is how I can satisfy my physical and emotional needs for now.

 

[ezpzezpz]

I pay to hobby so they go away when I’m finished.

Ha ha, just like Charlie Sheen said once. He's got tiger blood you know

 

[ShanOtt]

Selected a few of the above. But I’d say kinks and sexual preference is top of the list. It’s easier to find a willing, experienced partner in a SP than taking your chances out in the wild.

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

 

[TigerFlex5]

I pay for the right of no question.

The rest is just details...

 

[Hawkeye22]

Yes, the old saying, i don't pay for sex, i pay for them to leave afterwards.

I like variety, maybe a bit of a sex addict, but it doesn't make me a bad person.... What I don't get at home, I get with an SP or even an MP. I started only with MP as I love getting a good massage and then the finish was the gravy on top. Now having sex with a beautiful woman of my choice makes it all worth while.... Ruby here i come!!

Hawk (Tuah!)

 

[MikeO]

How else does even a fit and personable senior meet a variety of 'engaging' (in more ways that one) young ladies that meet you with a smile and a kiss and see you off in the same manner. You can also be certain they aren't some mix of frumpy, dumpy, grumpy or grey (like most older ladies), and that they are not averse to a variety of 'play' options? Oh, and who are available at your choice of time and place for a defined 'donation'?

 

[massman]

Unmet needs in regular life is one that immediately comes to mind, tho realistically I hobby so infrequently that it’s not making much of a difference in that category (eg I’m only usually having 20% of my sex / intimacy needs met, hobbying might get me to 21%). For me too it’s an escape. Day to day life for me is stressful, both at work and outside of work. Those stresses have taken a toll on me, especially when combined with mental health challenges that have flared up from time to time. When I meet with a provider, especially if it’s a familiar regular girl, I can lay back and completely forget about the rest of the world for a bit. It’s almost therapeutic in that way. Sure getting to do things that other partners haven’t been keen to do with you is cool, but I’ve had a lot of very amazing and satisfying experiences with girls whose services are pretty “vanilla” by this group’s standards too.

 

[Mandalorian]

Convenience, variety, easy duos and Greek, cim…

 

[bookmaker]

I hate my wife

 

[MikeO]

I hate my wife

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Sorry to hear that. Life must be miserable. I split up with mine (described by others as a ''smoke bomb") when I surmised that she had become, nevertheless actractive, sexless, lazy, self-serving, debt-building, smart phone, Starbucks, and reality-tv addicted to the point that would make a straight guy remotely consider blowing cock... but after we split, I chose hobbying instead. Life is full of disappointments, yes, and I am full of life. Ironically, years later, we are good 'friends' without benefits after she figured it all out. How many 'couples' haven't argued in almost 10 years? 'I see couples that seem happy and I wonder how they got that way, are they blind or are they stupid, or just having a good day?' ....Line from a John Gorka song (Full of Life) that you can Youtube. And I still enjoy fine young ladies that enhance my days.

 

[prettypennyc]

Ive been meeting so many men the last year and a bit who come to me because there wife cheated, and anyone whose had a sessîon with me you know I’m all about a good story time even if it goes over the hour - some of these stories are crazy!!

 

[newbiebd]

For me it's complete lack of sex with my wife. I do not hate her, she is great company and we are good friends. First few years after getting married I tried a lot to initiate for sex but it felt so one-sided, feels like she is just forcing herself to do it so stopped completely. She has zero sex drive, zero. Man has need so started 8 yrs back and going on. If she ever genuinely comes forward for sex I will stop hobbying. I have never had emotional attachment with anyone else and not looking for it. I am willing to go old with my wife. However, I also don't want to deny myself with the pleasure of life.

 

[Jacker]

I just need to be touched.