I was out having dinner and drinks tonight with some friends. As often is the case, Sports becomes a topic of conversation. One of my friends starts in on how this year is a turning point for the Toronto hockey franchise called 'Leafs'. The table goes silent and he goes: 'what'?
So I say this to him: "Suppose your son meets a girl and he takes a liking to her. She puts out once and knows she has him by the balls. So she sucks him dry for all his money, her rent, clothes and everything she can get out of him with the hollow promise that she'll put out again 'soon'. She has no intention of doing so. Her situation suits her just fine. Since he laps up her bullshit, he keeps spending on her foolishly and constantly and clings to the false hope of a future that is not real. You can see right through her and know she's a lying weasel. What would you tell your son?"
This is a classic dysfunctional, abusive, destructive relationship.
The friend had no response. He continued eating his meal in angry silence and then got up to leave. As he was leaving, I said: "Pretty good analogy, isn't it? You know I'm right."
"So what if you are." was his answer.
What amazes and perplexes me to no end is that he's a grown, intelligent man and he knows I'm correct but won't admit it.
I guess he'd rather get raped by a lying, manipulative organization rather than face facts. He'll never see a championship of any sort so long as he maintains this denial.
Lucky for me, it's not my problem but where does this pitiful, catholic-like dependency come from and why don't these 'fans' do anything about it?
They could easily change the future of this franchise if they just opened their eyes.
No one likes being lied to and deceived.
So why does this pathology go on in this city?
So I say this to him: "Suppose your son meets a girl and he takes a liking to her. She puts out once and knows she has him by the balls. So she sucks him dry for all his money, her rent, clothes and everything she can get out of him with the hollow promise that she'll put out again 'soon'. She has no intention of doing so. Her situation suits her just fine. Since he laps up her bullshit, he keeps spending on her foolishly and constantly and clings to the false hope of a future that is not real. You can see right through her and know she's a lying weasel. What would you tell your son?"
This is a classic dysfunctional, abusive, destructive relationship.
The friend had no response. He continued eating his meal in angry silence and then got up to leave. As he was leaving, I said: "Pretty good analogy, isn't it? You know I'm right."
"So what if you are." was his answer.
What amazes and perplexes me to no end is that he's a grown, intelligent man and he knows I'm correct but won't admit it.
I guess he'd rather get raped by a lying, manipulative organization rather than face facts. He'll never see a championship of any sort so long as he maintains this denial.
Lucky for me, it's not my problem but where does this pitiful, catholic-like dependency come from and why don't these 'fans' do anything about it?
They could easily change the future of this franchise if they just opened their eyes.
No one likes being lied to and deceived.
So why does this pathology go on in this city?