Bringing up an older thread that I find interesting.Only read the first page so maybe covered already - I like to cum on tits as it means I am not cumming into condom (with an SP) - with my SO I cum in her as she prefers it that way (although have sometimes cum on her tits and she does the whole blowjob and swallow, so I get that experience too!)
With an SP, I never want to cum in a condom. I want to be able to CIM or Cum on the body. I was recently with an SP where I was in doggy and finished on her butt and it streamed down across her pussy. As close as you would want to get to a cream pie with an SP. What I like about it is, it is the most intimate you can get with an SP. To be able to finish in her mouth, or on her, provide a similar intimacy as CIP with a SO. It is not about dominance for me......or maybe it is on some level......I get to control where I finish.