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justawildchild

Spinner Seeker
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Only read the first page so maybe covered already - I like to cum on tits as it means I am not cumming into condom (with an SP) - with my SO I cum in her as she prefers it that way (although have sometimes cum on her tits and she does the whole blowjob and swallow, so I get that experience too!)
Bringing up an older thread that I find interesting.

With an SP, I never want to cum in a condom. I want to be able to CIM or Cum on the body. I was recently with an SP where I was in doggy and finished on her butt and it streamed down across her pussy. As close as you would want to get to a cream pie with an SP. What I like about it is, it is the most intimate you can get with an SP. To be able to finish in her mouth, or on her, provide a similar intimacy as CIP with a SO. It is not about dominance for me......or maybe it is on some level......I get to control where I finish.
 

Titalian

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I think you nailed it here, though the birth control angle didn't occur to me. It started with porn pull-out-squirt-on-belly-where-they-can-see-it, and morphed into a way to emphasize dominance/degradation. Visually it also combines the sublime (beautiful female face) with filth (if you grew up in a repressed British household or some other such). Does this make the filth ok, or does it claim/degrade what "one" finds ultimately terrifying and attractive... or both? I bet some post- Levi-Strauss anthropologist could nail their PHD with a dissertation based on a study of this phenomenon.

Some find dominance/degradation hot. Whatever, but I don't get it myself.
I agree with you about the COF this is definitely instigated by Porn, I just can't get myself to do that and don't find it erotic at all. However cim is a big turn on for me and probably because its the closest thing to cip.
Question I ask myself, is this degrading as well and I don't think so, given the fact that during daty, we ourselves are lapping up much of their juices. Which some of us luv doing, especially if they climax, its sort of a win/win.
COB can't be helped sometimes, especially with bbbj, if she doesn't do CIM, but lets you cum on her breast or stomach which I find hot as well. I also think DT and FF was provoked by Porn, I'd rather have her just lightly sucking
stroking and licking the head, that would get me off in minutes. JMT
 

wangbang

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I like CIN. Once warned a girl I was about to pop, she was slow to move and I shot a huge load right up her nose.
 
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