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Why Are We Getting Meaner,more Disrespectful and Violence to Each Other?

mynameisearl11

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In the good old days (early 80's) I walked home from nightclubs at 2am and felt real peaceful walking from downtown to mid town Toronto. Today? I would not dare to go out after midnight!
Always wondering what is it really make many of us become so hostile in the last 20 years or so. The shooting in Las Vegas was a perfect example. And, hit and run?!!??
 

SaturnFan

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Given the driving behaviour on our highways now, I would say people are more disrespectful, meaner, and have a ‘me first, screw the other guy’ attitude these days.
 

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In the good old days (early 80's) I walked home from nightclubs at 2am and felt real peaceful walking from downtown to mid town Toronto. Today? I would not dare to go out after midnight!
That probably has more to do with being 30 years older, rather than any actual increase in crime rates in Toronto.

If you rarely have reason nowadays to actually be out past 2 am, and only watch news stories the next morning about all the stabbings, shootings and robberies that happened the night before, of course the city is going to seem unsafe.
 

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Toronto is a hot mess. Quality of life is better and the people are a lot friendlier if you live in the burbs or even better in the countryside.
 

herbnessman

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Toronto is a hot mess. Quality of life is better and the people are a lot friendlier if you live in the burbs or even better in the countryside.
Depends what is important to you at your stage of life. I've lived in the downtown core and the suburbs and they both have their advantages and drawbacks.

I'd live in the country too if it were manageable career wise.

Not sure why people from each area have to speak in absolutes like it is some competition.
 

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I've lived mostly in the burbs my life and it's super safe. Also used to live uptown and it was fine too. I also went to university downtown around 25 years ago and never felt unsafe. And Yonge, Dundas and Queen were sketchier back then. Now, it's all built up with nicer stores and condos every corner. I don't hang out downtown anymore aside from the occasional event, but I can't see how it can be less safe than decades ago as it's been built up with much nicer surroundings.
 

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I blame it on the new batch of fuckin immigrants.

Now don't call me a racist cause I'm brown and came here as an immigrant with my parent at the age of 12 in the seventies.

Back then we were bringing good quality of immigrants who easily adapted to the "Canadian" way of life.
We knew how to say please and thank you. You try holding a door to these new immigrants and they won't even say thanks.
Try changing lanes and they won't let u through.

Back in the seventies everyone lined up for a ttc bus. But now, everyone tries to get in at the same time.
Before letting new people in, we should make them attend a class on mannerism 101.

There, now let the flaming begin!
 

explorerzip

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24/7 instant news has something to do with it. When all you hear is constant negativity all the time, you perceive things to be worse than they are. We also have the ability to complain much more loudly than before. Come across a rude person at the mall and all you need to do is take out your phone, hit record and it makes the news. You couldn't do that eve 10 years ago.

There are also more people living in the same limited space. More people equals more chances of encountering asshole type behavior.
 

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I blame it on the new batch of fuckin immigrants.

Now don't call me a racist cause I'm brown and came here as an immigrant with my parent at the age of 12 in the seventies.

Back then we were bringing good quality of immigrants who easily adapted to the "Canadian" way of life.
We knew how to say please and thank you. You try holding a door to these new immigrants and they won't even say thanks.
Try changing lanes and they won't let u through.

Back in the seventies everyone lined up for a ttc bus. But now, everyone tries to get in at the same time.
Before letting new people in, we should make them attend a class on mannerism 101.

There, now let the flaming begin!
Crime wise, I don't think all the immigrants add to it.

In terms of etiquette, I agree though. Go to a grocery store or mall and many immigrants block pathways. You got to around them. And I agree on door holding. Very few give a shit.

It's like one big free for all.
 

rhuarc29

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Probably a lot of factors, but I'd say two are key:

1) Materialism and the wealth gap - Over the last couple decades the gap between the wealthy and poor has widened substantially, with a shrinking middle class. That combined with an increasing need to have everything, has caused most families of below wealthy means to resort to taking on multiple jobs, has caused an explosion of dual income households and often a resulting general neglect of kids, and also an exponential increase in debt. Higher stress and lower familial connections lead to a depressing life.

2) Diversity - We are happiest when we are among like-minded people. That doesn't mean we shouldn't be able to work with others, but after thinking my whole life that diversity was a great strength, I've recently come to the conclusion that it causes more problems than it's worth. As Canadians, we need to have a shared core value system in order to co-habitate peaceably. Unfortunately, our immigration process has very little to do with proper assimilation to Canadian life. After all, Canada's great strength is diversity, right? Assimilation is evil, right? The problem is that when people of widely varying core beliefs are forced to live in close proximity, day in and day out, it leads to increased hostility. The reason there's a big anti-immigration push in many countries around the world is because governments are pushing a principle (diversity is good and tolerant) that may not be practical in application, and are shutting down opposition by accusing them of being bigots.
 

poorboy

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I blame it on the new batch of fuckin immigrants.

Now don't call me a racist cause I'm brown and came here as an immigrant with my parent at the age of 12 in the seventies.

Back then we were bringing good quality of immigrants who easily adapted to the "Canadian" way of life.
We knew how to say please and thank you. You try holding a door to these new immigrants and they won't even say thanks.
Try changing lanes and they won't let u through.

Back in the seventies everyone lined up for a ttc bus. But now, everyone tries to get in at the same time.
Before letting new people in, we should make them attend a class on mannerism 101.

There, now let the flaming begin!
You can be brown and racist. Racism isn't exclusive to colour.

Nothing's changed. Go to England. They still look down at people from "the colonies."
 

explorerzip

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Crime wise, I don't think all the immigrants add to it.

In terms of etiquette, I agree though. Go to a grocery store or mall and many immigrants block pathways. You got to around them. And I agree on door holding. Very few give a shit.

It's like one big free for all.
What's wrong with this behavior? Where do you think they learned it? Besides, we live in a capitalist society. Dog eat dog right and it's a free for all. If you can't handle it get the hell out of their way.
 

explorerzip

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Was gonna say the exact same thing.
You have actual statistics and data on crime and from a government source?! You know that's just fake news right?

Seriously though, it's so sad when so many cannot or will not read or try to understand things when presented with evidence. Sadly it seems that any semblance of critical thinking is not in fashion anymore.
 

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24/7 instant news has something to do with it. When all you hear is constant negativity all the time, you perceive things to be worse than they are. We also have the ability to complain much more loudly than before. Come across a rude person at the mall and all you need to do is take out your phone, hit record and it makes the news. You couldn't do that eve 10 years ago.

There are also more people living in the same limited space. More people equals more chances of encountering asshole type behavior.
This.
It’s everywhere.
If it bleeds it leads on the news. Even a lot of our entertainment if based on negativity.

I’ve cut that network news instant news out of my life. If I want the news I read it. I find I’m much happier.
 

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I remember as a kid , people use to hitch hike a lot...and we spent most of the day playing outside
 

explorerzip

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I remember as a kid , people use to hitch hike a lot...and we spent most of the day playing outside
That's because we had fewer things like computers, phones, tablets and even TV to keep us indoors. Cable TV used to be luxury and if you didn't have it you had 9 channels to pick from.
 

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You have actual statistics and data on crime and from a government source?! You know that's just fake news right?

Seriously though, it's so sad when so many cannot or will not read or try to understand things when presented with evidence. Sadly it seems that any semblance of critical thinking is not in fashion anymore.

I can only tell you what I observe and how I feel, and in this case, I feel much safer walking downtown at night than when I was in my teens and early 20's.
 

explorerzip

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I can only tell you what I observe and how I feel, and in this case, I feel much safer walking downtown at night than when I was in my teens and early 20's.
I was admittedly being a smartass with that comment. All that any one person can tell us is what they observe and feel directly. You can't conclude much based solely on your personal observations. The problem it seems is that some people are solely relying on their personal observations to make conclusions. That's where data and statistics come in, but so many people have a tough time accepting it.
 
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