Why are Ottawa escorts so ugly

[MeJack]

Not sure what u mean about Ottawa being not up to par. This site clearly shows Ottawa has a much better selection with respect to quality and quanity than Vancouver.

http://www.canadasescorts.com/?request=listings&city=26

 

[rofobo]

I'll say one more thing slightly off topic, but I see we are going that way anyway. For the people that say you really need to connect to a hooker to have a great time I say this. What is this industry about at it's root? Yes people use it not to feel lonely, to try and connect to another human being it's true. But if that was all it was why not volunteer down at the local retirement home. There are a lot of people that desperately need someone to connect to there and the odds are you won't catch anything from them. What this industry is about is sex. Sex for cash. That's it, that's all. Dress it up anyway you want to, you're not paying these women just to talk to you. And as such it's a service industry. If you put down your 500 dollars (or 250 or whatever) for a good time, you better not have to connect emotionally with the girl in order that she gives you what you're looking for. She had better be a damn good actress for those prices. If I pay someone to fix my car, he should do it whether he considers me a good guy or not. He took my money to provide a service and I expect that service. Now don't get me wrong, I am not talking about being abusive or belligerant. You should be polite and courteous always. But you are there for how they look and what they will do for you period. Otherwise, volunteer as a big brother, because you can make a much more meaningful connection there.

 

[twizzler2]

I'm glad this discussion has remained civil

Sometimes with differing opinions things can degrade quickly. We seem to be miles apart on this issue but I will try one last time to clairify my position by responding to some of your statements;

For the people that say you really need to connect to a hooker to have a great time I say this. What is this industry about at it's root? Yes people use it not to feel lonely, to try and connect to another human being it's true.

I'm sure that there are people who seek out SPs in the hopes of finding companionship but that is a completely different issue. The desire for physical intimacy is completely different than lonelyness.

But if that was all it was why not volunteer down at the local retirement home.

Not a good bet for the physical intimacy, fine for companionship

Dress it up anyway you want to, you're not paying these women just to talk to you.

Agreed, I'm paying for an interaction that I hope includes a certain level of physical intimacy. I think you must think I'm trying to put some sort of spin on this issue by sugar coating it. I'm not. Simply put, paying for a physically intimate service from someone you like is more enjoyable than paying for the same service from someone you don't.

If you put down your 500 dollars (or 250 or whatever) for a good time, you better not have to connect emotionally with the girl in order that she gives you what you're looking for.

I don't understand why you think connecting with someone is such a bad thing. I'm not talking about emotional entaglements or obligations on either side. Just that actually liking each other is a good thing.

She had better be a damn good actress for those prices.

I suppose there are a couple things you could mean by that. If you're talking about faking a moment of pleasure, my ego is not so fragile that I expect or need SP to "peek" in order for me to enjoy my time with her. If you're talking about her acting like she likes me when she doesn't, no thank you. I think you reach an age or level of maturity/experience where you can see through that kind of acting immediately. Again, my ego doesn't need it, and it's frankly a huge turn off.

If I pay someone to fix my car, he should do it whether he considers me a good guy or not.

It's reasonable to expect a level of professionalism from an SP but the fact is that you get better service from people who like you. If the guy who fixes your car thinks you're a good guy he might ( while fixing your transmission ) let you know that he noticed your timing belt is bad shape and suggest you take care of it. Or if he thought you were a jerk, might not.

You should be polite and courteous always

I don't think everyone who reads your first post would agree that you've met that ideal. But I agree things would be better for everyone if we all strived for that.

But you are there for how they look and what they will do for you period.

This is really the crux of the issue. Simply there is more to it than that. Physical attraction is a part of the equation no question, but there are other parts as well that I hoped I've managed to articulate. If looks and menu of acts were all that mattered, the term GFE would never have come into being.


hope that makes sense to you,

Twiz

 

[Stacey_luvxxx]

Ware's the Hare????

^^agreed.

The post about thinking about what the women think when they open the door and don't see Tom Cruise standing there....gimme a break! If they cannot handle the less than stellar body types standing at the doorway, they shouldn't be in the industry. Its a service. I am paying for a great time with great sex with a hot lady. If she can't handle the fact that I have back hair, well, I think she's not in the right business.

You have back Hair????????

oh baby......stop teasing me.......

 

[OnTheWayOut]

You have back Hair????????

oh baby......stop teasing me.......

Uhhhh...... I have back hair, front hair, hair in places I never knew you could grow hair! Just a quick heads up in case ya cared ..........

no teasing here .... how much is it worth to you to check it out? *LOL*

 

[shaved]

re: no hair

Ha Stacey I have no hair and you no where. Ask Michelle!!!!

shaved

You have back Hair????????

oh baby......stop teasing me.......

 

[antlerman]

man o man

careful....any mention or posting of her will be deleted........

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[twizzler2]

you must mean...

The one who must not be named

 

[funforblueballs]

Why do you think I embedded it in this thread? lol. shhhh!

 

[funforblueballs]

And just like that its gone! That is terrible! How does anybody get away with this?

 

[twizzler2]

Crazy

From what I've heard, if Voldemort has a problem with you, the dark wizard will try to get you to send an email. If you do so the wizard will contact you ISP and make a formal complaint, try to obtain your real name and then blackmail you into silence.

I'm sure that's why, in the thread you posted a link to, Voldemort was trying to get the guy to post an email including headers .

 

[antlerman]

what do you mean?

And just like that its gone! That is terrible! How does anybody get away with this?

How do the Mods get away with deleating the comment......easily...they are Mods and they know what "that person" is capable of..........and want to avoid all links......refferals.....and metion of "this person"

if you are talking about "that person" and how does "this person" get away with it...well no one really knows or cares....

If you ae curious...............well check around the other forum sites...and look and read....but do not cross post or make comments......

 

[Ice-T]

You get what you pay for

if you're paying $100-$200, don't expect a model walking through your door with great service. You gotta pay for it. In my experience, minimum $250 if you want quality and looks

 

[rofobo]

I don't mind paying the money but the quality just doesn't seem to exist in Ottawa on a full time basis. As I said before, for a city of our size the pickings are slim. I don't want to always have to wait on a touring girls schedule.

 

[Dreamer.]

Another way of posing that question would be;

"Why can't HDH sps find enough customers in city the size of Ottawa?"

If you've never connected with an SP then I understand why you think it's impossible. I also suspect you've never had a satisfying experience with an SP. There is a need for SPs to keep a certain emotional distance from their customers, like many other professions. Have you ever become friends with someone you met through a customer/service type of relationship? or maybe thought that there was the potential for friendship if you'd met them under different circumstances ? Is it really so hard for you to believe that can happen in an SP/client situation ? We're all human after all.

There are SPs who choose this line of work out of desperation, because they they don't see any other choices for themsleves. In point of fact this is true of any line of work. Like any other line of work those make that because they don't have any other option tend not to be very good at it. Again, I'm talking about the quality of service and not just subjective curb appeal.


If you think all of the SPs and MAs in Ottawa are only doing this because life has never afforded them any other opportunity I would say two things;

A) your dead wrong
B) You're brainwashed into believing that the streotypes, society would have you believe, are all true. They come from somewhere and I would encourage you to do some research and find out where. Lookup men like comstock and the comstock laws, see what kind of influence organized religion has had on what we still accept as truth, right/wrong, good/evil. Think critically about what you accept to be true at face value and see if you can dig a little deeper by asking yourself why you accept it. If those reasons are strickly internal, great. If they aren't, do they make sense to you ? Are they what you want them to be ?


Twiz

I agree with Robofo. We are not just looking for friends, I'm looking for some nice decent girls with nice faces and nice bodies to fuck. I have a busy life and I am married. I don't want to be annoid by a provider who talks too much and ask too many questions; Where do you work?..I don't go there for a quizz. I just want a nice girl. When they are not attractive they tend to talk too much. I care for my privacy too. It's always the same women here or they come and they go. I don't have time to go to Montreal when I need fun .

 

[jughead]

I think that there are a lot of thoughts in this link

I think that Alexa had a good point that us guys the common hobbyists are not aware of the underground segment of this industry and whom better to know than someone works in this industry. As far as looks each person is different as to which ladies that find beautiful or not it all depends on your point of view.

As far as the thought that it is Sex for cash I am sure that we all are aware of that fact. With all respect Stacey had a good point a simple fact.
Each person who hobbies is looking for something different. From a change of pace from their S.O., or as a transition or break for one long term relationship before looking for the next or what ever there personal reason is. Yes in some cases looks are very important in other cases it is not so important it all depends on each persons point of view and we will never agree and any one point of view. All we can do is respect that each person has an unique point of view and try to find those quality SP/MP whom we as individuals might be interested in.

 

[tdeem3]

I think anyone that has the gull to insult anyones looks is pathetic. And lets remember something....shes not paying you to fuck her. It's the other way around

 

[JPsoHot]

I mean seriously. The actual girls that work out of Ottawa full time as opposed to those who come here on tour are for the most part hideous. Just compare them to the western towns on EC. It's not evenclose. I mean we are one of the larger cities in Canada, so why are our escorts so sub standard.

Perhaps first, you should look in the mirror and reflect about what you said.
Ottawa must have the most wide variety of ladies around to please almost any taste and flavor.

 

[R the Man]

This is a funny thread, because there seem to be so many Ottawa hobbyists in denial.

Looks are important to me and I hobby in Canada and all over the world when I travel. I can tell you that Ottawa definitely has the lowest quality of attractive girls and the fewest agencies in the SP biz than any other "big" city in Canada. Ottawa is the ONLY city where I do not book an SP when I stay there (I'm here now, which is why I'm looking at this forum). I stick to the SCs here, which are quite good.

It isn't just size and capital city. Victoria has a sensational selection (both quantity and quality), even better than Vancouver. For SP looks quality/quantity, I would rank the cities like this: Montreal, Toronto, Victoria, Vancouver, Calgary, Edmonton, Ottawa, Halifax.

Go ahead and flame me!

R.