Why are incall rooms so dark?

Fredbed

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Ok some newbie questions here.

I just started recently entering the world of escorts. It's pretty fascinating but I just can't figure out some things. Can you guys please enlighten me.

I visited mainly Asian agencies and all the houses units are so dark. When they open the door it reminds me of Halloween time with like blueish LEDs and like a ghost like hide behind the door and have it kinda like auto open.

1. Why do they hide behind the door?
2. Why is it always so dimly lit?
3. Is all the action contained in a banging room?

The reason I ask this is because I really like banging in the sun. Not necessarily outside... but like open windows well lit areas. I'm a visual guy so I like seeing the the girl very clearly, I kinda have poor eye sight too and I have a kink for like well lit banging.

I also like doing it in different locations like on the couch in different rooms etc. is this not allowed incalls? I think I asked a few girls and they all said no and they won't turn up the light either. So just wondering are there hidden rules and restrictions to what can and can't be done?

Is this only the Asian places or is it pretty much the same for all agencies?


Thanks guys
 
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  • Hidden Camera?
  • As mentioned above.
  • Worst or used to be the Aluminium or foil on the windows. This way you knew from outside there is action there.
  • 1. you won't run away and see that is Bait and Switch BNS?
  • 2. They think they can save money on the electric bill?
  • Have you seen the size of apartments????
 
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In some cases only, especially in "hole in the wall" spas, to hide the mould or general lack of cleanliness and other flaws in the room that would be revealed in bright light.
 
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1. Why do they hide behind the door?
Because the escort is wearing lingerie and does not want the general public to see how she is dressed.


2. Why is it always so dimly lit?
To set a sexy mood.

3. Is all the action contained in a banging room?
What’s a banging room? Is it the same thing as a bedroom?

Anyhow…the house probably has a number of girls working there at once with customers coming and going so they probably won’t let you bang in different rooms all over the house.
 
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Because the escort is wearing lingerie and does not want the general public to see how she is dressed.



To set a sexy mood.


What’s a banging room? Is it the same thing as a bedroom?

Anyhow…the house probably has a number of girls working there at once with customers coming and going so they probably won’t let you bang in different rooms all over the house.
Ok your answers make total sense. But why is that when I ask them to turn on the light they aren't willing to do that? I find that kinda odd since I'm playing then for my experience. Yeah when I say banging room I mean the bedroom.
 

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  • Hidden Camera?
  • As mentioned above.
  • Worst or used to be the Aluminium or foil on the windows. This way you knew from outside there is action there.
  • 1. you won't run away and see that is Bait and Switch BNS?
  • 2. They think they can save money on the electric bill?
  • Have you seen the size of apartments????
Ok low light to deter hidden cameras makes sense I guess.

Foil on Windows?? Save money on lights? Lighting costs are like literally a couple of dollars a month.

The apartment size is ok I mean it's a livable space, I'm not asking for a lot but to have a rug or like a couch to bang on would be good for some positions.
 

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Ok your answers make total sense. But why is that when I ask them to turn on the light they aren't willing to do that? I find that kinda odd since I'm playing then for my experience. Yeah when I say banging room I mean the bedroom.
Bring a flashlight
 
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  • To hide their age.
  • To hide imperfection (e.g. maybe weight/fat, maybe skin, maybe teeth, maybe face).
  • To deal with "ugly" clients....
I've seen really gorgeous girls but they in the dark doesn't make sense hide it in dim light. But to deal with ugly clients LOL ok maybe that is valid.
 

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Ok some newbie questions here.

I just started recently entering the world of escorts. It's pretty fascinating but I just can't figure out some things. Can you guys please enlighten me.

I visited mainly Asian agencies and all the houses units are so dark. When they open the door it reminds me of Halloween time with like blueish LEDs and like a ghost like hide behind the door and have it kinda like auto open.

1. Why do they hide behind the door?
2. Why is it always so dimly lit?
3. Is all the action contained in a banging room?

The reason I ask this is because I really like banging in the sun. Not necessarily outside... but like open windows well lit areas. I'm a visual guy so I like seeing the the girl very clearly, I kinda have poor eye sight too and I have a kink for like well lit banging.

I also like doing it in different locations like on the couch in different rooms etc. is this not allowed incalls? I think I asked a few girls and they all said no and they won't turn up the light either. So just wondering are there hidden rules and restrictions to what can and can't be done?

Is this only the Asian places or is it pretty much the same for all agencies?


Thanks guys
Why hide behind the door because we are often in clothes that we don’t want people to accidentally see if they are walking past.

It is dimly lit because they are trying to create ambiance. I don’t know girls who say no to turning the lights on. That may be an Asian thing????

Don’t call it a banging room. It is a bedroom. Call it a bedroom. You sound like a 15 year old calling it a banging room. But yes. All the “action” usually happens in the room. There could be others in the apartment. It could be restricted because it is a personal private space. I use to have guys who came to my house and they could sit on the couch for a bit but now, I keep it strictly to the bedroom unless it is an appointment longer than an hour. It is my personal private space. Not everything needs to be open to you. I’m not fucking you on my couch and spending extra time cleaning it. Same with a rug. It has to be clean after every client. Easier to just change sheets off the bed and wash them. May sound lazy but I’m just not doing it personally. The bedroom is fine. If you want to have fun on other furniture, maybe book an outcall.

You seem young, understand that while you are paying for an experience, you don’t automatically get to dictate everything. That is not how it works. We are people. We will have our own way of doing things and if you don’t want that, then you pick another place or another girl.

I will say, I have not heard these complaints from a place like Mirage. Where they have often have one girl to a place and they don’t have blue lights around. At least not to my knowledge.
 

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Very well said snd explained. I can add that being a regular with a certain girl or place literally “opens the door” for you. The same girl could fulfil your fantasies and open the door naked - if you ask her nicely.

Bedroom action is a special thing too and before I was little bit distracted from other rooms sounds. But not anymore! 🙂 I think it’s very erotic to hear the action and phrases like “suck it, bitch”, “I am cumming”,”fuck me harder” etc. Especially if you’ve been with a girl behind the wall before and these walls are thin and don’t touch the ceiling.

I think it’s very exciting, dark room or not.
 
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Why hide behind the door because we are often in clothes that we don’t want people to accidentally see if they are walking past.

It is dimly lit because they are trying to create ambiance. I don’t know girls who say no to turning the lights on. That may be an Asian thing????

Don’t call it a banging room. It is a bedroom. Call it a bedroom. You sound like a 15 year old calling it a banging room. But yes. All the “action” usually happens in the room. There could be others in the apartment. It could be restricted because it is a personal private space. I use to have guys who came to my house and they could sit on the couch for a bit but now, I keep it strictly to the bedroom unless it is an appointment longer than an hour. It is my personal private space. Not everything needs to be open to you. I’m not fucking you on my couch and spending extra time cleaning it. Same with a rug. It has to be clean after every client. Easier to just change sheets off the bed and wash them. May sound lazy but I’m just not doing it personally. The bedroom is fine. If you want to have fun on other furniture, maybe book an outcall.

You seem young, understand that while you are paying for an experience, you don’t automatically get to dictate everything. That is not how it works. We are people. We will have our own way of doing things and if you don’t want that, then you pick another place or another girl.

I will say, I have not heard these complaints from a place like Mirage. Where they have often have one girl to a place and they don’t have blue lights around. At least not to my knowledge.
I understand, about the door thing now. yeah I guess cleaning the couch is not easy. You are right if I want doing different locations I should do outcall I don't know why I didn't think of that lol. Thanks!
 
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Never seen this. What was the reason for it? To keep the room cool, like a car?
Don’t you know silly rabbit, it’s to keep the radio waves out that the government is transmitting
 

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Why?....... for the same reason you don`t buy a used car after dark.
 

xix

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Never seen this. What was the reason for it? To keep the room cool, like a car?
Many reasons I think.
Cool room
Light out of room or sun. IF they are trying to create the dark ambiance during the day it makes sense.
- My dumb theory to let others know that is the floor you are going to. This is for Asian men who don't know how to use directions. ;) This is when seeing it from the street. I used hobby in Mississauga and noticed this.

Also micro apartments there are multiple girls in at the same time. IF you call in dispatch you get what girl is next that way everyone goes through the rotation and not one sexy girl gets all the customers. They do get into fights or start scream when one girls gets selected and the one who answered the door doesn't. It happened to me one time. She was chubby, the door girl, but the one sitting on the couch was WOW.
 
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