That review was not harsh or insulting - it was useful information for us hobbyiests. Most of us don't write reviews to provide training material for SPs. Hobbyiests write reviews to provide other hobbyiests with information about their experiences.
Why Are Guys So Harsh On Sp's?
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Try not to take these reviews too serious. Most reviews here and on other review boards are written for self gratification purposes. And remember that there is a reason that we have to pay for companionship and sex.sexy_olivia said:
PS: I have seen a lot worse reviews anyway
Reviews are as harsh or gentle as the individuals who write them. In the case of the review you are referring to, it was put as gently and diplomatically as possible without leaving out the details. Were there any lies in that review? exaggerations? Did he have to call three times? Knock multiple times? Do you advertise as a GFE and then refuse to kiss and lube yourself before a session to avoid receiving DATY? These are your right, but not if you want to pass yourself off as a GFE. Girlfriends kiss. Girlfriends receive DATY. You prefer to be safe and ready and thats fine too. So instead of using GFE to attract clients, use "enthusiastic", "safe", "healthy", and "clean". Just suggestions so noone accuses you of being misleading.
I myself have been subjected to some harsh treatment by SPs. Especially after the money changes hands. Among other things I have been denied Full Service, had my hour shortened to 25 minutes, been denied access to touching breasts and buttocks with my hands, refused a drink of water while having a coughing fit "there's a coffee shop down the street buddy..". I have endured bait and switch, missed appointments without explanations, up-selling, short-shifting, clock-watching, cold mechanical service in front of an operating television, arrivals more than two hours after the appointed time, insults about my weight, and worse. Giving me shit rather than politely declining if I make a request that falls outside their realm of services offered.
A lot of these happened before the review boards so I would have no recourse. The attitude was "no refunds, what are you going to do about it?" I was experiencing more bad dates than good. I used to wonder why all the SPs I met were so harsh with me. Eventually I realized, I could shop around and read the reviews. Now I enjoy using the review boards so I know what to expect. And if I have any more bad dates, I have no problem exposing every gory detail to let the board members decide for themselves. After all, if the SP treats me harshly for my money, where does my motivation to extend her kindness in the review board afterward.
I myself have been subjected to some harsh treatment by SPs. Especially after the money changes hands. Among other things I have been denied Full Service, had my hour shortened to 25 minutes, been denied access to touching breasts and buttocks with my hands, refused a drink of water while having a coughing fit "there's a coffee shop down the street buddy..". I have endured bait and switch, missed appointments without explanations, up-selling, short-shifting, clock-watching, cold mechanical service in front of an operating television, arrivals more than two hours after the appointed time, insults about my weight, and worse. Giving me shit rather than politely declining if I make a request that falls outside their realm of services offered.
A lot of these happened before the review boards so I would have no recourse. The attitude was "no refunds, what are you going to do about it?" I was experiencing more bad dates than good. I used to wonder why all the SPs I met were so harsh with me. Eventually I realized, I could shop around and read the reviews. Now I enjoy using the review boards so I know what to expect. And if I have any more bad dates, I have no problem exposing every gory detail to let the board members decide for themselves. After all, if the SP treats me harshly for my money, where does my motivation to extend her kindness in the review board afterward.
rama putri said:
actually if a guy isnt having a good time, and it's his own fault and he knows it, and ESPECIALLY if it has something to do with - ahem - penile dysfunction, or lack of desire, or something like that ... he is probably going to blame something, or someone, else.
That would be you, honey!
I think most men are so conerned with whether or not they will cum or not so they tend to be quiet and focus on their erection, resulting in sometimes being silent. I mean if they weren't enjoying it they wouldn't have an erection. Many girls think that it is easy for men to cum and all it takes is a few whacks of the stick, but it takes far more then that. The mind needs to be there as well. And trust me, many of the experienced hobbyist out there have been around the block and require more then just a hot chick to turn them on. It isn't just physical, it is also mental. Unless there are other factors invovled that prevent a man from cumming, like being drunk, drugs, stress, or even shyness.
As for men telling women what they are doing wrong, it is more of a fear of offending the women. Most SP's I think would take it the wrong way. Like, "Who the fuck are you to judge me?" or "Who is the pro here?" I personally would be polite to the SP and just blame it on myself for not having a good session. Then in the review state the things I disliked, but never slam a girl. Because I know that it is just my own taste and she could very well be the best for someone else.
With all of this said, women are the ones that should vocalize if what the men are doing feels good or not. Most of the time women are the ones that are silent. Men can't hide the fact if they are turned on or not, women can. When a woman shows her enjoyment, this turns guys on. Guys like knowing that they are turning the women on. Most of the SP's lay there with little emotion or exaggerated emotion for that matter (which is so obvious). Not all, but some. And then there is the whole notion of women faking it. Men can't.
All in all, I know I am not harsh to the SP's I see and I would never be a prick in a review. If I don't have a good time, I know it is only my preference but would still recommend based on looks or service provided. If I have a great time, then I would recommend and repeat accordingly. The only time I would give a negative review is if she ripped me off, or did something to severely hurt my impression of her or the agency. Other then that, I am always fair in my reviews and hopefully generate more business for that particular SP.
My thoughts only.....
As for men telling women what they are doing wrong, it is more of a fear of offending the women. Most SP's I think would take it the wrong way. Like, "Who the fuck are you to judge me?" or "Who is the pro here?" I personally would be polite to the SP and just blame it on myself for not having a good session. Then in the review state the things I disliked, but never slam a girl. Because I know that it is just my own taste and she could very well be the best for someone else.
With all of this said, women are the ones that should vocalize if what the men are doing feels good or not. Most of the time women are the ones that are silent. Men can't hide the fact if they are turned on or not, women can. When a woman shows her enjoyment, this turns guys on. Guys like knowing that they are turning the women on. Most of the SP's lay there with little emotion or exaggerated emotion for that matter (which is so obvious). Not all, but some. And then there is the whole notion of women faking it. Men can't.
All in all, I know I am not harsh to the SP's I see and I would never be a prick in a review. If I don't have a good time, I know it is only my preference but would still recommend based on looks or service provided. If I have a great time, then I would recommend and repeat accordingly. The only time I would give a negative review is if she ripped me off, or did something to severely hurt my impression of her or the agency. Other then that, I am always fair in my reviews and hopefully generate more business for that particular SP.
My thoughts only.....
Silent Sams make me nervous, actually. I think of every scene in the movies where the lunatic is paroled or busts out of jail and gets a hotel room and an escort, and they're always sinister silent dudes....why? Because they're up to something...and they either wig out and kill the girl or 95 cops bust in and you have the obligatory full frontal scene of the screaming naked escort dodging bullets. 
Just sayin'...
Just sayin'...
Vancouver Femme Fatale said:Silent Sams make me nervous, actually. I think of every scene in the movies where the lunatic is paroled or busts out of jail and gets a hotel room and an escort, and they're always sinister silent dudes....why? Because they're up to something...and they either wig out and kill the girl or 95 cops bust in and you have the obligatory full frontal scene of the screaming naked escort dodging bullets.
Just sayin'...
you watched too many scary movies... awww...
48 Hrs w/ Nick Nolte & Eddie MurphyVancouver Femme Fatale said:Silent Sams make me nervous, actually. I think of every scene in the movies where the lunatic is paroled or busts out of jail and gets a hotel room and an escort, and they're always sinister silent dudes....why? Because they're up to something...and they either wig out and kill the girl or 95 cops bust in and you have the obligatory full frontal scene of the screaming naked escort dodging bullets.
Just sayin'...
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