Who the hell is JOHN?

Alexis696969

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yeah thats what he said


Everything was going grand this morn ....the chemistry was so there

In the heat of the moment i farked up I called him JOHN ..unfortunately his name wasnt John ......... Sooooo he kinda

got a wee bit upset and dam the timing just sucked .!!!!!!!!!..I didnt mean to give this guy a complex but dam hes not

taking it so WELL......some people are just way to serious and uptight ..were not married GEEZE ...... It was an

honest MISTAKE ...Im sure we all have called someone the wrong name at least once or twice in our time :rolleyes:.....I hope your reading this too ! Relax !!!!!!!
 
svtcobra said:
LOL

Now if the table was turned. What would you do at that moment? Would you be upset too.

Just making an observation.



Yes when some guys are drunk ...they have called me by there wifes name LOL

seriously i dont give a shit ....Ive been called worse names :D
 
I get names wrong as well, even my immediate family. This guy should lighten up, at least you're getting an idea about his personality early in the relationship.

Or was it late, considering it was the morning after another one night stand? :rolleyes:
 
You obviously ruined his visit. I think you should make it up to him, thats if he wants to see you again?
 
I don't usually call out names when I am having sex, well...... maybe just one..... but don't most men think they are "God" anyway LOL!!! ;)
 
My friend's brother had that problem solved. His current wife and previous two girlfriends all were named Susan. <grin>
 
Sasha Jones said:
I don't usually call out names when I am having sex, well...... maybe just one..... but don't most men think they are "God" anyway LOL!!!

I do (no only joking!)


I would have thought you girls would know by now that a man’s ego is really fragile.

It is difficult to judge how bad a mistake it was, without know more about the relationship. For example, was it just a one night stand or was he long term boyfriend? Or, was he a new client or a regular? Perhaps he had given you a pseudonym and John really was his name!:confused:

Just my few cents worth.
 
Propose to him. If you care so much about what he feels and thinks about you and if you care so much about the mistake you made and whether or not you want to make it up to him - then marry him - that should do the trick :P
 
Dash said:
Propose to him. If you care so much about what he feels and thinks about you and if you care so much about the mistake you made and whether or not you want to make it up to him - then marry him - that should do the trick :P


Dash ....dont give me this reverse pyscology stuff lol cause thats not the case I just dont get he cant chill out about the unintentional MISTAKE .....unless he does this to get MAKE UP sex :rolleyes: LOL hmm
 
Alexis696969 said:
Dash ....dont give me this reverse pyscology stuff lol cause thats not the case I just dont get he cant chill out about the unintentional MISTAKE .....unless he does this to get MAKE UP sex :rolleyes: LOL hmm

Ha ha ha - if he was really doing this to get MAKEUP sex - he's one manipulative Son of a bitch ha ha ha

but no, he'll cool off soon enough. Sounds like he's more than another guy to you. Cause he sure can ruffle your feathers - and not every guy can do that to a girl - but yeah - he'll cool off

just keep calling him and telling him you like him for him and not for his name - but for who he is and he'll eventually realize he is more than just a name to you. and he'll get over it quick.
 
Alexis696969 said:
Dash ....dont give me this reverse pyscology stuff lol cause thats not the case I just dont get why a guy cant chill out with an honest unharmful unintentional MISTAKE. Dam last i checked all humans were full of flaws ...It is true some Men are from Mars eh ?

It definitely wasn't reverse psychology but I kinda agree with Dash...I think you have got some feelings for the guy. At least somewhat stronger feelings than you thought you had going into this moment (sex/wrong name/he's pissed).

Anyway, just my observations taken from words on my laptop screen...but some indicators ARE there...1) you obviously care about the guy and his feelings, 2) you care enough to try and figure out why he's like that, 3) you are looking for reaffirmation that what you did was alright, and most all 4) it seems like you want to change the guy or how he feels.

...in my books, when a lady wants to change me...she likes me.

I say, let it go...make the guy a steak dinner and all will be forgotten.
 
slk55amg said:
It definitely wasn't reverse psychology but I kinda agree with Dash...I think you have got some feelings for the guy. At least somewhat stronger feelings than you thought you had going into this moment (sex/wrong name/he's pissed).

Anyway, just my observations taken from words on my laptop screen...but some indicators ARE there...1) you obviously care about the guy and his feelings, 2) you care enough to try and figure out why he's like that, 3) you are looking for reaffirmation that what you did was alright, and most all 4) it seems like you want to change the guy or how he feels.

...in my books, when a lady wants to change me...she likes me.

I say, let it go...make the guy a steak dinner and all will be forgotten.


Hmm interesting so it guess it is true huh there only two moods to a man HORNY and HUNGRY !
 
Alexis696969 said:
Hmm interesting so it guess it is true huh there only two moods to a man HORNY and HUNGRY !
Yeah, and what's with the Timmy's drive thru nonsense?
You should be cooking a big hearty breakfast for your man after he satisfied your sexual needs. :p