a PROUD slut!
saliksalik said:
This whole attitude of enjoying to be called a 'slut' or a 'bitch" tells me not to touch such a person even with a ten foot pole!
Think about it:
We think of a girl who has sex entirely because she enjoys it,with whatever guy she finds amusing to her at the time as being a slut. She does it because she wants the guy to like her, or she does it because she knows she's going to feel ok with it. She does it because she knows she's going to have a good time. She does it and everyone around her would say she does it without any self-respect. This is a girl who GIVES it away without any future concern for any future commitment or anything else. A girl who has sex without any thought of marriage or commitment or relationship. She exclusively has sex because she has a good time with it. We call her a slut. Sorry ladies, it's not my fault, it's what you'd call her too. The thing is, all you guys like sluts, (or at least once in a while) but you've pretty much all have been raised and culturalized to despise sluts and hate them and fear them.
It's such a bad thing. Girls have been so ingrained with hatred of THEMSELVES if they believe they're being slutty, that they'll go way out of their way to stop themselves from doing things they'd like to do. It's really sad because there's really only one thing that's keeping them from doing it, and it's that they are going to feel badly about themselves. And what is it they're going to feel badly about?? They're going to feel badly because society has taught them that if a woman does what she wants to do for her own reasons, because she enjoys it, because she's going to have a good time with it, then she has no self-respect!?
Think about it. If a woman does what she wants to do, for her own reasons, she has no self-respect?! Can you process that? I can't. I've been trying to for a long time. Those things don't make any sense to me at all. But somehow, society is very adamant about it. If a girl exercises free will, she has no self-respect. What?!
So yes, I consider myself a slut, and I wear the title proudly. No, it' doesn't
literally mean I will go to bed with *anybody* but it does mean I do the things I want to do, including going to bed with guys I deem worthy for my own reasons, because I will enjoy it... and you know what? I have very high self-respect. The people who insult or look down on women like me (especially on an ESCORT REVIEW BOARD) are the ones that suffer from no self-respect.
saliksuck, I am glad you wouldn't touch me with a ten foot pole, because it saves me the trouble of having to turn you down.
~Violet~
~a proud slut~