Suppose you met a sexy, fun, and interesting woman socially - someone you had seen around the neighbourhood, and who you had been really hoping to meet sometime - who then told you she was an escort.
Would you want that news right up front, ie; in answer to the inevitable introductory "...So what do you do for a living?"
Or would you like to have a little bit of time to get to know this woman - chat for an hour or so, before she steers the conversation towards her occupation?
Myself, I always tell anyone I'm truly interested in, and so far so good, but I've just been winging it up 'til now...and it just so happens that he's a sexy, fun, and interesting man who I've seen around the neighbourhood, and who I have been really hoping to meet sometime...we've been checking each other out for at least six months now.
The upfront version may intimidate someone who otherwise may have been able to handle that info after talking to you as a regular person rather than as whatever stereotype they have of escorts.
On the other hand, that information coming later, after a guy has gotten comfortable with who he thinks you are, might be like a bucket of cold water, leaving him feeling somehow tricked.
I am about to have this very situation - we've broken the ice and chatted briefly a couple of times now - and am curious as to how you gentlemen might feel in his place. I realize that you are a specific group - men who appreciate/visit/are familiar with escorts - but I still think your opinions would help me with regular guys not as hip to the world of us special girls as you may be.
How would you prefer to to find out my occupation if you were him in this situation?
Would you want that news right up front, ie; in answer to the inevitable introductory "...So what do you do for a living?"
Or would you like to have a little bit of time to get to know this woman - chat for an hour or so, before she steers the conversation towards her occupation?
Myself, I always tell anyone I'm truly interested in, and so far so good, but I've just been winging it up 'til now...and it just so happens that he's a sexy, fun, and interesting man who I've seen around the neighbourhood, and who I have been really hoping to meet sometime...we've been checking each other out for at least six months now.
The upfront version may intimidate someone who otherwise may have been able to handle that info after talking to you as a regular person rather than as whatever stereotype they have of escorts.
On the other hand, that information coming later, after a guy has gotten comfortable with who he thinks you are, might be like a bucket of cold water, leaving him feeling somehow tricked.
I am about to have this very situation - we've broken the ice and chatted briefly a couple of times now - and am curious as to how you gentlemen might feel in his place. I realize that you are a specific group - men who appreciate/visit/are familiar with escorts - but I still think your opinions would help me with regular guys not as hip to the world of us special girls as you may be.
How would you prefer to to find out my occupation if you were him in this situation?