When to approach a woman

[Zoot Allures]

It is up to them to signal. They may look at you

then look away. They may find a way to be in your space.

You can initiate the female signal by noticing them and if they are interested they

will notice you have noticed and smile


It is then up to you to approach, do so with a easy fashion and do so quickly

or it starts to be creepy as she wonders why you are not approaching

Women have the power to signal the approach

same thing everywhere as it is ingrained in human nature.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

It is up to them to signal. They may look at you

then look away. They may find a way to be in your space.

You can initiate by noticing them and if they are interested they

will notice you have noticed and smile


It is then up to you to approach, do so with a easy fashion and do so quickly

or it starts to be creepy as she wonders why you are not approaching


Same thing everywhere as it is ingrained in human nature.



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...and here I thought it was Tinder.....

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Approaching women who show initial interest is easy....

The hard part is WHEN THEY ARE WITH THEIR BOYFRIEND/HUSBAND

What do you do when a smoking hot NOT SINGLE woman hits on you and she's with her partner? Very tricky.

Not to mention potentially dangerous.....

 

[Insidious Von]

Not to mention potentially dangerous.....

Relationships are difficult.

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/EP7js_4S_as

 

[Big Rig]

How to approach


If you are going to see her frequently play the long game and let her get to know you.
She will send signals she is interested before asking her out, 3 to 5 interactions is ideal


Example meeting at the gym


Glance and smile but never oogle

First interaction is quick just to get on her radar IE work out beside her

Second interaction compliment her on something she does IE she works hard

Each interaction gets longer but keep it playful and make her laugh if she is interested even
a silly joke will succeed.

If she is interested she will let you know then ask her out to something easy and safe such as a coffee




My three cents worth

 

[jeff2]

Approach with extreme caution, unless dead, as you would with any wild animal.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Approach with extreme caution, unless dead, as you would with any wild animal.

A bit harsh there.....

 

[Spunky1]

I have heard from the ladies that women hate it when guys try to pick them up at the gym.

 

[Mr Deeds]

This is not complicated the way to approach a woman is you drive to the parking lot you text and say I'm here she gives you the room number you go to the you go to the room give her the envelope and then make your approach 100% guaranteed you're not going to fail

 

[Big Rig]

I have heard from the ladies that women hate it when guys try to pick them up at the gym. View attachment 231911

My idea of playing the long game avoids that

I have met dates at the gym using my devious plan. As I stated they will send
signals of thier interest

The golden rule at the gym is obvious never disturb anyone as they are working out
as they are working hard

compliments come after thier hard sets

 

[sohappy]

Oohhh. I approach them slowly from behind grab their arms with my cold, clammy hands and whisper in their ears - "Daddy's home". Is that wrong?

Sometimes a club to the back of the head works.

It did for the cavemen

 

[kherg007]

From the documentaries I watch, it seems effective to meet women who are stuck in a dryer.

It used to be delivering pizzas accompanied by bad jazz music.

 

[NotADcotor]

if they are interested they

will notice you have noticed and smile

If they smile, it could mean "I hope he comes over" or it could mean "If I smile I might not end up dismembered in his basement."

Edited for the not in bold. What I wrote makes no sense otherwise.

 

[Rufun2]

...and here I thought it was Tinder.....

As long as you've got the money, there approachable

 

[Indiana]

Nowadays? Never.

 

[southpaw]

This is not complicated the way to approach a woman is you drive to the parking lot you text and say I'm here she gives you the room number you go to the you go to the room give her the envelope and then make your approach 100% guaranteed you're not going to fail

You use an envelope? Classy.

 

[eddie kerr]

It was so much easier to meet women back in the day in Totonto. As a older teenager I loved rock n roll and r & b music and as there were many dance clubs, I started going to these places. First thing I noticed was all the girls sat at one end and the guys at the other. Most of the music being played were r & r fast songs and the girls would all dance with each other, but then a real groovy slow song would come on and there was a stampede of guys running to the other end to grab a girl for a dance. But, alas I was too slow so began watching and learning to dance to r & r to where I got comfortable dancing to these songs and the big reward was after dancing to the fast music and a slow song came on, I already had a girl on the floor. After a year or so, I was able to ask girls to dance to anything played and ended up taking a girl home very often. The great dance halls in my time (back in the 60 and 70s were the Masyryk hall, Club Trocadero, best r & b club in the city, Avenue Road Club near Yorkville,(where I met my wife, together for 51years). All you had to do was ask a girl to dance, get to talk and BINGO, you got a girlfriend.

 

[Darts]

It was so much easier to meet women back in the day in Totonto.

I find women back in the day in Montreal so much more approachable.