When Is The Session "Over"

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That's true...I get a lot of guys worrying that they're taking up my time which is very sweet and caring of them, but perhaps part of that comes from a place of previously being rushed out the door.

That PLUS a bunch of ladies on Terb talking about how it's rude/disrespectful to stick around. Not to exaggerate but they get overly dramatic with their responses about guys taking up their time, they are extremely busy, etc. They put the fear of God into guys who fear staying 1 minute longer will result in their head being chewed off.

I understand the disconnect they want to make it clear it is time to leave and at the same time attempt to cool off the client so they are not rearing to go for more. At the same time it suggests indifference and a complete disregard for hard earned cash. If I spend 400$ on someone I dont want to sound arrogant but I expect a certain amount of respect in return for what I give. Ive had one escort boot me after 25 minutes when I paid for a 2 hour session wihout so much as a sympathetic smile. Dont get me wrong Im happy to pay someone and I understand many ladies need the money sometimes its their only income (sadly) but at least pretend to care.


@Jessica Rain Ive had some ladies do that too and it helps when they say why they are leaving the room. Honestly it still feels like being rushed out at times but at least they took the effort to get the warm towel in the first place.

First, any provider that accepts money for two hours and rushes you out after 25 (presumably you've done nothing wrong) is a crook. Unless she refunds most of your money, there's no other way to describe it.

Second, I am of the belief that until a client leaves, a girl should be "on" at all times. It comes across terribly if she's in two modes, session mode and disconnected non-session mode where you feel like you are intruding. Again some girls basically don't acknowledge you are even there. I remember one girl was sitting at her desk working on her computer as I was getting dressed and didn't even get up so I let myself out. That's just bad - bad service and bad for business.

Third, many ladies clean you up - I almost expect it as the norm in every case. Most indicate directly that they are doing so. Did have one lady who said nothing only to have me see in the mirror her getting into the shower as I lay there. But I find the majority do it but it's unknown in some cases if they are cleaning you to get you on your way or are going to sit down, cuddle, chat, or even start another round. I knew there was time on the clock at a recent appointment so the hot towel the first time was not a signal to get out. For me, anything involving shower is a clear signal.

Very similar to MP style clean up there and clearly it helps relax the client, good idea.

That it does.

 

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I have also had ladies ask me why I just stand there looking awkward when I come in one said something like "you guys all just stand there looking awkward when you come in why do you do that?" I said it had to do with previous bad experiences where Ive come in and theres been someone else in the room or I felt uncomfortable, and because I didnt want to seem like I had to rush right in like I was desperate to bust a load or something. She thought that was funny but understood. But leaving the most awkward thing Ive had there is the girl got nervous every time I reached near her when I gestured after the session as if I was going to grab her and go at it again.



I mentioned the scam to another escort and she sympathized but at the same time acknowledged it as a business of making money and thats how that particular escort makes money. Doesnt seem like a very good business model to me but what ever floats your boat. Funny your next remark about being "on" at all times applies to her too although in her case there wasnt much of an "on" mode, the whole session felt disconnected.

My most recent session the lady actually had 2 showers during the session because we made a bit of a mess, well more me than her but either way the session did not feel over just paused. The clear giveaway was her not returning to the bed the second time even though her attitude had not changed much she was still personable and friendly.

The "on" mode is like night and day. I find a similar (but weird) comparison is like when you buy a big ticket item. The salesperson is just so eager to help you, they are so patient, answer every question, and make you feel like they will be there for you. After you buy the item, they are non-existent. They push you towards a service department and can't be bothered. Obviously I'm not saying women are like a big ticket item (some people just love to read into the comparisons) but you get the idea. They lose the smile, they have little/no patience, and the general air is GTFO. I saw this less in the MP's where most ladies were still engaged after you showered. Not that it didn't happen a few times there too - the bad ones all get on their phone. I gotta ask WTF are they looking at that's so important that it can't wait a few minutes until after you've gone.